I like a boy after I get married, but he doesn t get married, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-01
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First, you should recognize your feelings and think about them seriously. If you feel that you have special feelings for this boy, then you need to consider whether these feelings go beyond friendship or general liking.

    Next, you need to think about your marriage. If your marriage is healthy, then you should maintain it as much as possible because it is good for you. If you feel that your marriage has broken down or that there is no point in it anymore, then you need to take action to end it.

    Then, you need to consider whether the boy also has feelings for you. If he does not show obvious affection, then you should respect his position and keep an appropriate distance. If he has feelings for you, then you can consider communicating openly with him and working together on your next move.

    Finally, whatever action you decide to take, respect your own feelings and decisions and those of others. Don't try to force others or make decisions that you and others will regret.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, after getting married, maybe you will meet someone you like.

    But you don't have to have it, just keep it in your heart.

    I like him, but also because he gives you the feeling of being in love, and you like it very much.

    But don't hurt your husband because he's unmarried.

    Let's face it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can do something you like to do to divert your attention, or you can go on a trip and have the courage to meet some other people of the opposite sex, so that you can get out of it quickly.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The person you like is married, which means that he does not love you or does not like you. You shouldn't waste your time. If he likes you and loves you, why not stay with you?

    If he is not married now, then you can confess and pursue him.

    If he's not married, you have a chance.

    Have you ever confessed to him? If you don't confess, you will have regrets.

    Questions. This month's wedding.

    Did you confess to him?

    Questions. Because he is old, marriage is also required by the family.

    He has no affection for the person he marryes.

    So why don't you confess to him? Because he and his object have no affection either.

    Do you want to leave yourself with regrets?

    Questions. I've confessed that I've been together because I broke up with one sentence of mine, and now it's been explained.

    Can you break up just because of a word? If you love him, does he love you too?

    If he loves you too, why should he be with someone else?

    Have you ever told him that being with someone without feelings is torment.

    Questions. But they're engaged, and I don't want to regret it, and I'm still confessing, but what he gave me was a foregone conclusion.

    Then you didn't tell him that you were just engaged and not married.

    You won't be happy in your life. And you can also cause harm to the other person.

    It's irresponsible for you to do that.

    Then you send it to him to see if it works.

    Make a final save.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Since you have liked a boy since you were a child, and you haven't been with him, it means that you have no fate, he may not feel for you, since he is married, put it down, maybe there is still him in your heart, but you have to find the person you like to find your own happiness, don't be affected.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A boy we have liked since childhood got married, I think we should stop insisting on this liking, start our lives again, and find someone who really likes you and can give you happiness to marry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Then you should give up, this means that you may just have fate, this is that everything should not be forced, it is okay that he and his wife are not in harmony, if they are very harmonious, then you will become the third party of their family, right?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now that the other person is married, it's time to let go!

    I can see that you are an emotional girl, let it go! Silently wish him happiness! After all, it is someone who has liked it for so many years, and some feelings are destined to have no ending, but they can also be forgotten in the rivers and lakes!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Then you should let go of your affection for him. After all, everyone else is already married, and it's useless to think about it more. You have to shift your mind to another place, for example, you can try a relationship, and after a long time, you will forget the guy you liked before.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hello, the person you like is married, we should also bless him, put the love for him in our hearts, don't disturb each other's lives, so as not to burden him, in fact, I like a person, watching him live happily, I am also quite happy.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really like this guy, you let go and make him happy, maybe your letting go will make your friendship longer, you will accompany him as a friend for the rest of your life, you will not lose him, in addition, you have to slowly forget and find your own love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A boy I have liked since I was a child gets married, so keep him in my heart forever and treat it as the best memory! Then let him go and find his own happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Boys are married, don't think about it, transfer your feelings, there are many good men in the world, why block up on a road, want to open some, open your heart to meet you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should give up the relationship, because after all, the other person is married, so you can forget about him and find your true love again.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think if he doesn't admit that he is married, then he may think that it is just a play on your feelings, and it is not serious about your real feelings, he is cheating on your feelings.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's very simple, since you already know his situation, then it's better to give up because nothing will come of it, good luck.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because once you admit it, maybe that's the end of your relationship! He doesn't want to lose you yet, so he still lied to you first, hoping that you will think about it, he has a family, and it is immoral for you to do this.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A married man who does not admit that he is married in front of a girl who has a good impression of him can only show that this man is a scumbag and a person who wants to step on two boats.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    He is an irresponsible person who exists in the illusion of wanting something to happen with you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Who can admit it in Douyin, even if you are married, you can say that you are not married, so that fans can brush things.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Both of you are typically eating from the bowl and looking at the pot, since you two are so good, how can you two get married?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Such a man can only say that he has a very poor character and usually loves to lie.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    He wanted to step on two boats. Let's divide it early.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is happy and sweet, and each of us hopes that we can tie the knot with the person we like the most and spend a wonderful life together. But it is very difficult to find an ideal partner in real life, and many times the people we meet are not bad in all aspects, but they don't like him. Whether you can marry such a person or not, different people have different choices.

    Personally, I think that this issue should be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. Specifically, it includes three aspects: a marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy, the person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and love at first sight is hard to find.

    1. A marriage without feelings is destined to be unhappy. Therefore, if you don't like the other person, you can't marry them.

    The most important factor in marriage is the relationship between each other. Only a deeply affectionate marriage can have a happy state and be able to truly reap a lifetime of happiness. If there is a lack of affection between two people, the marriage is destined to be unhappy.

    And for people you don't like, you will definitely not have feelings for each other, so of course you can't marry such a person.

    2. The person you don't like is definitely not suitable for you, and of course such a person can't marry him.

    The state that suits oneself refers to the state that is suitable for one's own conditions in all aspects and meets one's own needs. Therefore, the person who suits you must be the person you like, which is the primary condition. If he doesn't like that person, he will definitely not be suitable for him, and it is impossible for the two of them to be together, and it is impossible for him to marry such a person.

    3. Love at first sight is hard to come by, so you can't decide everything simply by liking it or not.

    Love at first sight, although romantic, is an unattainable thing after all, and for most people, this situation is basically unavoidable. Therefore, you should have a realistic attitude on the issue of marriage, and you can't just make decisions based on personal feelings, let alone simply use whether you like it or not as a criterion. You should conduct a comprehensive analysis and make a rational decision, so that you can really find someone who suits you, and this kind of marriage can make you the happiest.

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