Help people who have fallen out of love plan their lives and studies

I don't know the subject's male or female, age, so I'll provide some of my current life experience.

1. Devote yourself to work or study.

For example, take an English training course for IELTS and TOEFL; Make a book list with 1-2 books to read in a week; Find some public classes to listen to; Enroll in a part-time graduate or second degree class to fill your free time as much as possible.

2. Improve yourself from the inside out.

Participate in sports activities such as badminton, night running, cycling; or the recent hot fitness, yoga (if it's a sister paper); Buy some fashion books or pay attention to some fashion information, improve your aesthetics and dressing taste, if it is a sister paper, it is not bad to practice makeup or something.

3. Regain your hobbies.

If you like calligraphy, **, art and the like, the most important thing to be single is time, and you can sign up for a guitar class or comic class on the weekend to cultivate some of your own sentiments.

4. Find groups and make new friends.

The most feared thing about falling out of love is being alone in the dead of night. Through friends, classmates, meeting new friends, group trips, outdoor activities, etc., maintain contact and contact with the outside world, and do not refuse to accept new people because of falling out of love.

5. Self-mentality construction.

The most important and crucial thing is that every relationship is a period of growth, and you can't indulge in the pain of falling out of love, and don't completely treat it as if it didn't happen. Summarize the lessons from the broken love, find out your own shortcomings, what you can improve, and at the same time take the initiative to understand yourself, figure out what kind of other half you need and are suitable for, meet the new life in a more mature and rational state, and be fully prepared for the new relationship.

What needs to be planned is life.

Hello, the way to get out of love:

1. Rationalize catharsis:

Use a reasonable way to vent the pain accumulated in your heart and throw out all the emotional garbage.

This method is very useful for any negative emotions we usually have, it can help us to quickly divert our attention and get out of the haze.

2. Accept Reality:

Try to avoid the places where he and her appear, and don't let your heart have any more expectations.

Pack up the things that remind you of him or her, and don't let them evoke memories of you.

Look for relevant psychology books and take a look. There will be a lot of advice from experts, and the advice in the book will also let you know that you are not the only one who has this kind of thing happening.

3. Ask for help: Share your thoughts with good friends or elders, you will receive a lot of useful advice, you can find good friends to accompany you when you fall out of love, and contact your friends who have been estranged due to falling in love before, and take this opportunity to find intimacy together. Talk to them about the beginning of your past when you played together.

4 sublimation: lost mulberry elm, harvested east".

Get out of the shadow of feelings, put away the sadness, and there is still hope for tomorrow. Immerse yourself in the activities you enjoy, constantly enrich yourself, and improve your motivation to succeed.

Allowing yourself to fall in love again will make you forget the pain of your last relationship and be more motivated to embrace a new life. This way you won't always be immersed in the previous relationship.

6. Travel: Travel is the best method, and many celebrities use it. Traveling will enrich your experience and let you know how to find true love.

It will also make you love life more. There is nothing more beautiful in life than waiting for scenery along the way, enjoying the feeling of being on the road. It's wonderful.

With such a wonderful picture in front of you, do you still think of the pain of your broken love?

I hope it can help you.

1. During the period of falling out of love, don't pester the lover you think, there is more than one way, one can't go, just change it.

2. Don't pay silently at any time, except to move yourself, it has no effect.

3. No matter how much you love someone, don't ignore your life, no one can make you give up on yourself.

Fourth, don't be wronged to fulfill other people's love and dreams, you have fulfilled others, who has fulfilled you? Love is really shown, and if you give up your socks, you have to hold your head high, and everyone is qualified to chase your dreams.

Fifth, look at a person not only by looking at the skin, how inside you need to get along for a long time.

Sixth, there is no one who is worthy of you to give up your own advantages, put yourself on the tip of the knife to dance, cultivate others, it is better to enrich yourself.

7. Don't bring emotions to life and work, and no one will pay for you after making mistakes.

8. The compromise of taking love as the kidnapping is all the thunder buried in the future, and the bird collapses in time to stop the loss.

9. Don't give up contact with your mother's family at any time, they are your confidence and retreat, there is nothing that can't be solved without a book, and you have your parents and brothers and sisters to help you resist.

10. The most important thing is to improve yourself, only choose a spouse, not cultivate.

After falling out of love, there is no need to worry about the past. Falling out of love is very painful and angry, but no matter how painful and angry it is, you can't do something stupid about it. Because not only will this not relieve the pain, but it will violate morality and human nature, and even violate the criminal law, making you appear very ignorant.

After falling out of love, let everything be a thing of the past, no matter how hurt and painful it is, don't wait and see, not everyone can eat back grass, so it's better to be an ordinary friend who is as plain as water.

If you are depressed because of the loss of love, resulting in a loss of ambition, or a loss of upward confidence, then the career will also abandon you, and you will lose more things because of the loss of love. If you are out of love, you must not lose your ambition.

Although ** writes love beautifully, there are actually very few people who are really "proud of the spring breeze" in love, and you are not the only one who is out of love, don't lose your good mood when you fall out of love.