Do you think you want to become a little more social?

Inevitably, only you have to adapt to the environment

It depends: You don't need to work for life, you don't need society

Why change?

Of course. I hope you never grow up, though, but that will hurt you ......

This topic accounts for only 30% of the pursuit of modern young people, and I once did a series of social surveys!

You can have this awakening and deep admiration, if every Chinese thinks like this, our society will be more harmonious and progressive!

1. It depends on your personality and talent (it can be modified the day after tomorrow).

2. Start by developing your talents, finding out all your strengths and weaknesses and complementing each other's strengths.

3. Read more (books) and get in touch with the high-level environment to open up your minds.

4. Do what you can, let the people around you understand you, be close to you, trust and rely on you, but don't show yourself too much, and be moderate!

Analysis: Temperament; Dress appropriately, often trim the edges, maintain personal hygiene, and maintain a happy mood!

Self-cultivation; Cultural cultivation, moral cultivation, quality cultivation!

get along; Easy-going and generous, don't be careful!

Communicate; Fluent in language, flexible in mind, and single-minded in topic!

Pay attention to the above points, adjust yourself, and ask the elders for advice and learning!

May you become an excellent citizen, an excellent worker, and an excellent public servant of our country!

First, society has changed my personality

When I was still studying, in fact, my personality was relatively simple, and at the same time, I felt that I was very arrogant, I personally had no scheming, and almost all the expressions were shown on my face. But when I started working in the community, I realized that if I continued to be simple, it would have a bad impact on my work. So in order to be able to get more work efficiency, I gradually became sleek, and I often had a smirk on my face.

So now whenever I see a fresh smile on the faces of other students, I feel envious, because I can no longer be as innocent as before. For the sake of my work, for the sake of my situation in the company, I had to be sleek, and at the same time I had my own scheming.

Second, society has changed my hobbies. Thirdly, society has changed my circle of friends.

Society has changed a lot of things for me, such as bad habits, being lazy and lazy, not being motivated and not wanting to forge ahead, and these aspects have changed and become better and better after entering the society.

Society has made me realize that many things have their rules, and that only by working hard and making more money can I solve most of my troubles.

Society has changed the way I think about marriage. I used to think that getting married was a lifetime. Now I think it's normal to get married for the second time, but if you're not happy, then let's separate.

Change your way of doing things, don't trust others easily, don't be so impulsive, learn to understand others, and be kind to others.

I think the most likely thing that society has changed for me is that it has made me see that I am not a beautiful man that everyone loves. It's not like you can do whatever you want.

In school, I am relatively passive and have no desire, but when I go out of society, I know that if I want to live well, I must have desire, so I am more aware of the goal, and I have desire and pursuit.

I think the biggest thing about society has changed for me is to become more confident, to face setbacks more calmly, and to look at the good and evil in life calmly, and to be myself.

Society will give us a lot of experience, especially in dealing with people, and after staying in society for a long time, we will become more and more proficient and tactful.

Society has changed a lot of my bad habits, such as being lazy and being very stubborn, and these personalities and tempers have changed, because I am perfect.

I feel that society has changed my personality and changed my mind, because I was more introverted at first, but after going out of society, I have gone through too much training and become more extroverted and learned to smile at others.

A lot has changed, such as things to think about will become a lot, and dealing with relationships between people is no longer as naïve as it used to be.

It taught me to be realistic and not to trust others too much.

I have a friend who has played since he was a child, and when he was young, because he didn't involve financial things, the relationship between the two of them was still very good. Later, when I grew up, I have been in touch, and once she suddenly asked me to borrow money, and the amount was quite a lot, and she asked me to borrow 10,000. Because I also work part-time, I have to rent a house outside to live, although I have a little savings on hand, but I still hesitated.

Later, I felt that after all, the relationship between the two people was very deep, and she asked you to borrow money, which must have encountered great difficulties. In the end, he lent her the money. But after the money was lent out, there was little hope of getting it back.

Because it was difficult for me to ask her for money, this matter has been delayed. Later, the family encountered an emergency, and her father urgently needed money for the operation, so he asked her to get the money. But she has always been hesitant, always looking for various reasons to shirk it, thinking that maybe she can't turn around financially for a while, so she doesn't think much about it.

After a while, she had no intention of paying back the money at all. Later, after the inquiry of another friend, I learned that she had been buying some high-end cosmetics and clothes, but because the salary was not high, she often asked some friends to borrow money, but basically did not pay it back. Even if you pay it back, it's the same as squeezing toothpaste, giving it to you little by little.

And she often posts some ** on the circle of friends who go out to travel and go out for a big meal. At this time, it dawned on me that I had been a fool all along!

I think this is the case, if you have done your part, then there is no need to regret it. There is always a price to be paid for human growth, even if it is very heavy. It's like I've always regarded her as my best friend, but in fact, people don't take you seriously at all, otherwise they wouldn't treat you like a monkey!

In the future, as long as you do your best, don't be too emotional.

For everyone who survives in society, we are growing up in continuous tempering. The social environment is complex and varied, and we need to adapt to it. But what does it teach us in the process of our existence?

One: pay attention to observation, flexibly respond to entering and exiting society, and face all kinds of people with different backgrounds and experiences, as a novice, it is difficult for us to see the true face of everyone. We are easy to trust others, unintentionally put ourselves in a disadvantageous position, and it is easy to suffer losses, be wronged, and carry the black pot at the beginning, which is the test of every novice in the workplace.

But this is also the first step to growth, let us learn to adapt to the environment, pay attention to observation, and after understanding the personnel, we can respond flexibly, which is also a way to protect ourselves.

Two: Principled work, assertiveness and harmony with others are the habits we have been taught since childhood, I hope we are easier to get close to, to be an easy person to get along with. However, in the social workplace, we need to be friendly and friendly with others, and at the same time, we also need our own ability and assertiveness to attract others' interactions.

Rather than letting go of oneself to accommodate others. This kind of relationship is not long-lasting, people will only be attracted to people with personality charm, no matter what time you must maintain your own principles and opinions, and do not give others the opportunity to hurt you.

Three: Don't give up the pursuit of lifeWe sometimes meet different strange people, who will break our conventional perception and even subvert our three views. It may undermine our confidence, it may leave us helpless.

But life is multifaceted, and we can't deny the meaning of life because of bad things. Good things will heal us, as long as we have a yearning for life and change our mentality, we can change our lives.

Society has really taught me a lot of things and made me understand that no one can be relied on, only on ourselves, so we must continue to break through and improve ourselves.

Society has actually taught me how to be a human being, and it has also made me more mature.

In fact, we are following the path that the Zibenist country has taken.

No matter what kind of social system or ideology, the problems encountered in the process of developing productive forces and taking off the economy are all similar. For example, money worship, environmental pollution, etc.

We learn from the history books that there is a ...... in ZibenismSo many problems, but the book doesn't tell us, it was their problem a hundred years ago, and now it's much better; On the contrary, it is our country that is full of the problems that the books say! Not surprising at all. In the process of development, we will inevitably go through this painful process, and we are an incumbent generation.

Therefore, China is now in a "transition period", and once this transformation is completed, many problems will be solved. The landlord complains about our current era, but what if you were born in the era of the Anti-Japanese War? Didn't people suffer 100,000 times more than we did then? Let's open it.

Society is evolving. Science is advancing. The economy is on the rise, leading to prices**. Life becomes more stressful. Ideas are also being forcibly changed.

Society is changing every day. A peaceful society will only become more and more realistic, and a society in troubled times will become more and more peaceful.