My parents quarrel, I m annoyed, my parents keep arguing, I m annoying, what should I do?

Living in the midst of the quarrels of my parents every day, this feeling can be imagined. And you can also empathize with your parents in this situation, and you are really a very sensible child. You are very rational, empathetic, and tolerant"Temper tantrums"When the mother gets along, she knows how to avoid the intensification of conflicts.

It should be said that the family conflict has not escalated, and you have a share of the credit.

Actually, you have also understood that the contradictions of parents have to do with their personalities, mom"Hot-tempered and fussy", and Dad is one"Quirky"of people ,.."There is no sense of humor".As you understand, Mom's temper has to do with the fact that she's under too much pressure, while Dad's"Don't like to accept criticism"Also"Unwilling to accept an apology"Whether with mom for a long time"Picky"What is it about?

You and Dad seem to be a bit alike, Mom transferred her pressure to you, and the two of you kept the pressure in your stomachs, and Dad became high blood pressure, and you, too, started to blame yourself.

Have you ever thought about helping your mom share some of the burden, reduce her stress, and help her find other ways to relieve stress, instead of using the two of you as a punching bag? Let Dad understand Mom's pressure as well as you do, and communicate with Mom as sincerely as they did when they were in love?

Indeed, getting along with a hot-tempered person requires considerable rationality and restraint, because the other party's emotional out-of-control can easily cause one's own emotions to be equally out of control. Luckily, you and Dad are both good at restraint. What you need is more understanding and care for your mother, who is angry with you, and may also feel that you often do not understand and share what she has endured.

If you show full understanding and are willing to help her share, I believe she will not have that much in her heart"gas"Finish.

Stop blaming yourself, your parents quarrel and it has nothing to do with their personality and social factors, not with you. You need to protect yourself, deal with your emotions and stress, and try not to adversely affect yourself. If you have the resources to spare, help your parents.

Cheer up, try your best to improve, and believe that your efforts will bring a new atmosphere to the family!

It turns out that there are people who are in a similar situation to me, connected to the same fate, I really hope to have a chance to chat with you, sometimes I am really helpless, but this kind of problem is not helped, what do you say?

In the past, I always imagined that maybe one day my parents would get along when they got older, but now, it is even more incompatible, and I really can't figure out how they got together in the first place, they should have just gotten married for the sake of getting married.

Alas, so helpless, we can't change anything. Let it be.

May you be happy every day!

I can relate to your feelings, because your family is in the same situation as mine. Tell you not to be too irritated in the first place. In fact, parents have lived for so many years, and the pressure of work and life has caused them to vent in the form of quarrels.

Another point is that it depends on yourself, every time my parents quarrel, I will adjust in the middle, usually greet my father first, and then talk to my mother in private. Tell him about his dad's difficulties. It's not easy to tell my dad about my mother in private.

You are also a part of the family, you should do a good job, try it.

Parents always quarrel, if you feel annoyed, then it means that you are a not very filial person, they always quarrel, you should persuade them to reconcile, and even be a peacemaker in the middle, and make their relationship good. And if you find it annoying, it only means that you don't love your parents enough.

In fact, every family has a difficult scripture. It's all a family, is it worth it to make a fuss about this! Family affection is the most precious.

You can also tell them your fears and worries about their quarrels, and I believe that they will calm their anger for you and this family, and reconcile as before!

As filial to you, it is recommended that you do some small actions for them, try to be as creative as possible, and let them reconcile and solve everything.

As for creativity: 1, buy two movie tickets for them, whether they go or not, they all know their intentions and ideas.

2. Find some reasons, such as special holidays, such as parents' birthdays, wedding days, your birthday, etc., or make up a reason, go to a restaurant with them for dinner, get something warm, such as flowers or something, they will receive your affection.

3. It's not bad to buy some fruits, drinks and dishes, and have a good meal at home.

4. Travel, a day trip near your city on the weekend, it doesn't cost much, and the family goes out for a walk to increase the family atmosphere.

5. Buy something that your mother likes to eat, and when your father is away, say it's your father who bought it; Or buy something that your dad likes to eat and say it's your mom who bought it while your mom is away. Even if your parents know each other afterwards, it's your idea, and there is only good and not much harm.

It is necessary to find the cause of the problem first, such as a quarrel due to work problems, and then persuade further. The best thing to do is to give them affirmation but tactfully express their mistakes, which will help ease the emotions between the couple and thus ease the relationship between them. Be careful not to speak directly about their shortcomings when persuading, which will make the situation worse.

2.Talk to your parents. As a parent's little baby, your every move is watched by them. If you send them more messages of concern, greetings, etc., they will be very happy, so that you can reduce the number of quarrels.

3.Influence parents with actions. The more people reach middle age, the more things they have to worry about, which will make them more irritable and prone to quarrel with each other.

If you help them do more things that you can, they will be in a better mood. Or retreat and do more for them when they quarrel, so that they will be moved, and each other's tempers will slowly subside.

4.Find something to have fun doing. One of the ways to deal with irritability is to do something relaxing and fun.

Usually take them out for a walk, go out to see the outside world, and bring them new things, so that they will not be bored and impatient. If the mentality is good, the number of quarrels will naturally be less.

To learn to understand your parents, maybe they are just emotional and speak too loudly. Don't worry about the occasional noise of your parents, your parents' feelings also need some spice. Under the pressure of life, everyone has a time to vent their temper, and this kind of quarrel can also reconcile the relationship between parents.

How can anyone not quarrel in his life.

Then you go and persuade them, if you really can't persuade them, then go to the elders in your own family and negotiate with them, if you can't get by, you can divorce, there is no need to be so noisy for a lifetime, this is unfair to the members of the whole family.

When they quarrel, you say loudly: stop arguing, you are always arguing like this, you are not annoying me am annoyed! Have you ever thought about my feelings, why can't you say calmly, I want a warm and harmonious family, can't you do such a request?

Or just slam the door so they'll understand that you don't like them arguing and that there's you, which is a very effective way to do it, but it's not the best way.

When you encounter a situation where your parents are quarreling, you must not panic, I have a few suggestions: 1. Before you have a hunch that they are going to quarrel, think of a way to stop it, such as doing something to distract you or pull one of your parents out to calm down. 2. When you quarrel, if you don't care, don't stop it, they will calm down after the quarrel.

Your parents often quarrel, which will really make you feel upset, you can communicate with your parents, express your opinions, to adjust their conflicts, and make our relationship more harmonious.

If Mom and Dad quarrel and make you very upset, then you should say how you feel, and then use it as a link to reconcile your parents' feelings as much as possible so that they don't quarrel anymore.

Then become independent as soon as possible, go out and live by yourself early, there is no way, the affairs of adults cannot be solved. It's better to find a way to go out and be independent as soon as possible, you are still young, don't put your mind on those bad things.

When parents are arguing, it is necessary to intervene in time to stop them from continuing to argue, you can shout and stop the quarrelsome behavior between them, and then take the opportunity to teach them a lesson and let them know how you feel in your own heart, but pay attention to your words and emotions, after all, they are elders and need to be respected.

Mom and Dad always quarrel. Within the scope of your ability, if you can persuade, you can persuade them, if you can sit down and discuss calmly, you can stop it, of course, it is the best, if you can't stop it, you must inform them of the disadvantages of quarreling, which is very harmful to children and is not conducive to family harmony. In fact, in real life, there are parents who really don't have feelings and can't get along, so it's better to divorce, maybe this is a bit big, but the reality is like this, barely being together is also a kind of harm to the children, and it is also a kind of torment for themselves.

You can go out for a walk and take shelter for a while; Or travel or study, so that you can stay away from your parents.

You can communicate with them so that they don't quarrel, because you don't feel upset when you see your parents arguing, and they won't quarrel if you communicate with them. I will understand you, too. Just ask why you are arguing and help them out.

Parents have been noisy since they were young, and now they are 70 years old and often have cold wars, what should you do as a child?

A friend said: Since they have been arguing and quarrelling, and then they have been together for decades, then for them, this is the normal state of their lives.

If one of them asks for help from the child, the child can be given emotional or financial comfort according to their actual situation.

If they don't want to ask you for help, it means that this is their normal life. If you really don't fight or make trouble, you may not be able to live that long.

Sometimes the feud is also a manifestation of husband and wife. As a bystander, it's better not to intervene.

Well, what the friend above said is very right, so the question is what to do as a child? He also has another question, what should we do ourselves?

Well, if you don't figure this problem out, it's fate, and the kind of life of our parents will come back to us, and some people in psychology say marriage. Divided into such stages, if the infant stage, the childhood stage, the juvenile stage, the youth stage, the mature person stage, of which the stage of this young person, is called the struggle for power, is to divide you right or me right, in the end you are wrong or I are wrong, it seems that the marriage and wife of the Chinese, everyone is in this highest stage, that is, the stage of power struggle, it seems to have some truth, but psychology only says a surface, then do we say that human nature is evil? Of course, I don't think so.

I think this has something to do with Qin Shi Huang's logic, that is, the biggest enemy of that family, the emperor's logic, China for thousands of years, the emperor is to eliminate the sacredness of the family, of course, he hopes that the people within the family are ignorant, all are not united, they are all united around the emperor, they are all loyal to the emperor, and the quarrel between husband and wife is only the position of the emperor in China, or you see that "Yanxi Raiders" is still so popular now, it is this environment that makes us ignorant, you remove the belief in the emperor, we know that our common enemy is the emperor, Then we have the deepest reconciliation with our parents, their ignorance is not because of their humanity, from then on we awaken here, we can also ** to our parents, and the situation has improved. This cycle of violence will no longer fall on us.

If parents quarrel a lot, it can really affect the mood of the child.

Now you talk to your parents, tell them how you feel, and say that if you continue to quarrel like this, it will affect you and your future life.

So they'll fight less for you.

If your parents are always arguing and you feel annoyed, you should still dissuade them from quarreling in this situation, because they are always arguing and it will affect the relationship. Therefore, if they encounter disagreements, they should communicate well, and quarrels will not solve the problem.

The best thing to do is not to disturb them when the two of them are arguing, and don't get involved, because talking to whoever you think about may not work very well, and the spearhead may turn against you. Maybe after so many years of life, they have lived in a noisy and noisy way, and they are used to it. When they are arguing, you can go out for a walk, and you will probably come back after the quarrel.

Parents quarrel all the time, which will definitely have an impact on the family's living environment. You can act as an intermediary to reconcile the relationship between your parents and make judgments on their quarrels fairly and impartially.