He thinks he s still young and doesn t want to get engaged to me for a while

This is very important, and the landlord should be cautious.

Your parents' attitude is correct, cohabitation before marriage is not a good thing, and often men take advantage of this situation. It's not a matter of face.

Judging from the landlord's text, your boyfriend may still be in that wait-and-see attitude, and has not yet focused on realizing the importance of the world of the two to the landlord, it is possible that he has his own ideas, including some things in his career, and it is not excluded that he is still young and playful.

Suggestions: 1. The landlord should not be too anxious to mention marriage in the near future.

2. Take the initiative to communicate with him, you can be very honest about your true thoughts, find out the crux of the problem, don't worry or be afraid, and solve the problem.

Pay attention to the atmosphere when communicating, but you must clearly know what he really thinks, such as whether it is a lack of success in his career that causes him not to want to think about marriage or other reasons. Communicate once, not once, but communicate several times.

3. If the two families have met, it is necessary to deepen the relationship with his family, in other words, to obtain the approval and sympathy of the two parents. This will be good for your relationship later on.

4. There can be a buffer time, but the two must work out a timetable, when to get engaged, get married, have children, etc., there must be agreements and constraints.

5. Try to let your boyfriend catch the landlord's fault, men are better at making excuses to slip away.

Be prepared according to what you know, if the situation is good, everyone is fine, and if your boyfriend is not even willing to plan a schedule, it means that there is a high probability that he is playing with the landlord. It is recommended that the owner of the building have more eyes and make some preparations, among which the key precautions are as follows:

1. Keep the evidence of the common belongings of the two people, which will be beneficial to the woman in the future when the situation is extremely unfavorable (such as when the court handles it), such as ** (life photos, marriage photos), and some agreements signed by the two people together.

Second, the joint property of two people with special property must pay attention to the focus, there are many methods, such as the name of the real estate certificate and the name of the invoice within each invoice, justice and justice, etc.

3. Pay attention to contraception, after all, the operation of abortion is very harmful to women.

I wish the landlord a double harvest in his love life and career!!

He looked like he was irresponsible.

I feel like I'm 26 and I'm already living with you.

Then it is not too much to get engaged first.

If you keep mentioning to him about your engagement.

Then he will definitely be very annoyed, and slowly your relationship will be in crisis.

I think even if that's the case you should talk to him.

You find a good time to sit down together.

Talk about. If he really doesn't want to, then you can only talk through your parents.

The words of the elders are still very effective Find your future in-laws.

There are two situations: First, this man belongs to a person who has not woken up for a long time, and he does not dare to be responsible!

Second, he never thought about marrying you at all!

Under normal circumstances, two people who love each other want to be together!

Your mom and dad are good for you, too!

It's best to see if he really wants to spend time with you now!

This is irresponsible, you have to think about it! If he really loves you, he should be able to fulfill your request.

The following is consistent as can be seen.

I hope you can't be obsessed with anything anymore! ~~

It's not good for friends to say too much, so you have to think about it yourself.

Otherwise, it is yourself who suffers.

And there are a lot of very puzzling things that you haven't written, and justice is poured on you.

Think twice.

Think more about yourself! ~~

I think you still have to re-examine whether he is serious about you!

Men are also smart.

To be engaged is to ask for a name.

And many men want to start a business first, which is easy to understand.

Or simply in love.

As for marriage, it seems that the object needs to be reconsidered or repositioned.

yes, your boyfriend can't do that. You've got to talk to him!

It seems that he has no intention of not marrying you, and he thinks that maybe there is something better.

So what kind of language do you want to say to him? If you want to be more tactful, then I think you can knock on his inner thoughts, or you can ask more friends around him to see what he means, after all, as a girl, it's better to be reserved in such a thing, and not to make him look like you hate to marry, so it's a little embarrassing.

If you're really in a hurry, then I think you can ask him directly what he thinks, what he thinks, it's been engaged for a year, but he still doesn't plan to get married, no wonder you're in a hurry. But you still have to calm down and listen to his thoughts, if he wants to work hard in the next few years after the engagement, so that the two of you can give you a better environment after you get married, this is understandable, after all, his original intention is also for your good.

But in fact, your boyfriend doesn't plan to get married now, maybe he also has his inner thoughts, and he can't be cranky because of these things, because you are always speculating alone, and you don't ask him what he thinks, so you will have doubts about your relationship, since the two of you are engaged, then it means that the possibility of the two of you getting married is very high, so you still have to be patient, don't be impatient because of this matter, after all, it is now a boat.

In fact, you can also tell him that you really want to have a real family of two people, maybe at this time he feels that he ignores your feelings, after all, if two people keep their words in their hearts, then neither of you knows what the other person is thinking, so it is better to be honest.

In my opinion, there are two possibilities, one is because my boyfriend is immature and wants to be "free" for a few more years; The second is because your boyfriend is not too satisfied with you and wants to try his luck again, so you should ask the reason directly, if it is the first type, it doesn't matter, if it is the second type, you still consider whether to continue your relationship.

Since they are all engaged, it stands to reason that the wedding date has been determined. Your boyfriend is not going to get married, you should figure out what the reason is, and if there is no reason, you can just say what you think.

You can have a good talk with your boyfriend, talk about what you think, if the other party really doesn't want to get married, then you must not get along if he doesn't like it.

I think you just told him you were going to break up. If she wants to keep you, she will definitely be ready to get married soon. But if he agreed, I think he would have wanted to break up with you a long time ago.

You can tell your boyfriend that you have such thoughts and want to marry your boyfriend, and if the man really doesn't agree, it means that the other party doesn't like you at all.

You can turn off the light and discuss this with him after falling asleep, at this time your boyfriend is very soft-hearted, and in the dark, your boyfriend may quickly promise you that if you are not there for him there is no status.

You can talk to him about this when you are calm, and if it doesn't work out, it's better to ask your parents and his parents to talk about it, so it will be more effective.

Fortunately, I didn't get married, and if you get married, you cry.

There is no emotional foundation, so it's good to get together and disperse! Fortunately, I didn't get married! Make it.

As a man, I think it's better for you not to get married.

Then don't get married for the rest of your life.

The man was a grandson before he got engaged, and he was very well-behaved, and after he got engaged, he was a son, and he began to talk back, and after he got married, he was a son, and he was a wife.

Before getting married, he belonged to everyone, and after the engagement, you took him as your own, and the requirements were different.

Marriage must be thought through. You can ask him directly.

That's because he doesn't worry about losing you all day, isn't it?

This can't be normal, it's a common trait of men.

Because you accepted Him, He believed that you would not leave Him!

What you can't get is the best! If you get it, you don't know how to cherish it, so why do you get it? Do it and cherish it.

I guess you've gotten worse.

I'm going to get engaged to a blind date guy tomorrow, but I don't like him at all, I don't feel anything about him, and I don't even want him to come to me every time he comes to me.

From your question, I can conclude that you yourself are still very immature, which can be summed up by the word "naïve". I don't know how old you are, but since you can go on a blind date, you should be at least over 20 years old.

According to the normal mature psychology of men and women, girls should be more precocious than boys, should know what they want, and should know how to choose and choose. From the moment you go on a blind date, you should understand one thing: the purpose of a blind date is to get married.

But blind date is not a playhouse, today together, tomorrow will be divided, that's a game. Although the end result is to get married, there is still a process of understanding. Without this, it will take a long run-in period for you and him later.

If the run-in is good, then there is no problem. However, as long as there is a slight deviation, it is easy to have contradictions, which may spread and expand until both people begin to explode. Because the future is unpredictable, there are many things that can be divided today and tomorrow.