It s been a year since I broke up with my ex boyfriend, but in fact, I have slowly become very calm

You first have to figure out if you broke up and the relationship was broken? Or do you have no feelings for him, but he's still pestering?

If you don't have feelings for each other, don't be so petty when you are friends. It's likely that he hasn't forgotten how you used to feel, and he won't get used to it for a while. In this way, you can talk to him more if you have time, and explain it directly if you don't have time.

There's nothing to be embarrassed about, you can get along with him as you do with friends, keep a certain distance, and try to avoid emotional problems in the content of the conversation, so as not to make a sympathy.

If he is still pestering you, it is recommended that you find a time to make it clear to him directly, just say that everyone is just ordinary friends, and you have a new life of your own, I hope he can let go. Let him understand that you are really dead. It's best that you develop a new relationship as soon as possible, and I'm sure he'll see it.

But then again, feelings don't mean that there is, you have to follow fate!

It's best to hope that you can solve this problem as soon as possible, and don't let the feelings that have passed away make you irritable, there is still a long way to go!

It's good to have a friend to chat, if you are bored with him, you can not answer his**, just give his ** number a call firewall, don't you have this function on your mobile phones now!

The first method, Don't answer him**, don't text him back

The second way: If you have a boyfriend now, the next time you call**come, ask your boyfriend to pick up**, and the other party will understand

The third way is to change the number of recipients!

Then every time you pick up **, say that there is something to say, don't talk about it yet, or find a boyfriend, when he learns that you have a boyfriend, he may not be beaten**.

Tell him directly and let him know what you think thoroughly.

Hehe, interesting.

In that case, why break up? In fact, there is no need to cut off relations with him, is he really that disgusting?

Just treat him like a very ordinary friend

Let's just say that you are very busy, does he want to turn back, I found that many men are like this now, and they want to go back after breaking up.

Set to reject an incoming call.

He sends a message and you say you don't know why.

I've recently learned to ignore people...

The fact that the guy hasn't reached out to him once doesn't mean that he doesn't love him at all, because everyone has a different way of expressing themselves and dealing with a breakup. Here are the possible reasons:

1.Takes time to recover: Some people need time to recover from the emotional trauma of a breakup, and the process can take weeks, months, or even longer. During this time, they may withdraw from their social circle and disappear for a while.

2.Protect yourself: Some people will keep their distance after a breakup to protect themselves from more pain. They may believe that reconnection will cause more emotional distress and therefore choose not to reach out.

3.Respect the other person: Some people think that maintaining a distance after a breakup is a sign of respect for the other person, and they may think that this is the best way to avoid the other person feeling uncomfortable or distressed.

4.Confused: Sometimes guys may feel confused or unsure and don't know how to handle the situation, so they choose not to reach out.

5.Have expectations for the future: Some guys may want to make their ex-girlfriend miss him and hope for a chance to start over in the future.

Therefore, just because a guy is no longer in contact doesn't mean he doesn't love you anymore, you can try to reach out to him and express your feelings about him, maybe there will be a positive reaction. But you also need to be careful not to force the other person to accept your feelings, respect the other person's decision, and try to look forward, you also need to live well.

You are still thinking about your ex-boyfriend after a year of breakup, and if you want to get back together now, you have to see if the other party has a new relationship and see if he has any intention of getting back together.

What is his attitude???

Do you have any thoughts on reconciliation???

The emotional analyst and the ex-boyfriend broke up for more than a month, I now have a new boyfriend, but I don't think I like him very much, the ex-boyfriend sent me a message when the breakup was almost a month, contacted me, we didn't say anything about the relationship, just talk about the daily life, he told me about his heart or something, I really don't fit with him together, I also have a boyfriend, and he will come to tell me at the most hour, he didn't delete it at the time, he didn't think it was necessary, after all, it was a peaceful breakup, in fact, I want to say I like it, I really like him, But it's not suitable, we can't be together, I also told him that I have a boyfriend, I don't know what to do now, I've actually been a little uncomfortable in my heart, if you think it's not suitable with him, I'm talking about your ex-boyfriend, I suggest you delete WeChat. (1) Even if a couple breaks up, even if they break up peacefully, there will always be some feelings in their hearts, and this affection will make you lose part of your mind, You are now a person with a boyfriend, and you can no longer contact your ex-boyfriend, otherwise you will hurt two people. (2) If you think you have a chance with your ex-boyfriend, and it is more suitable.

I suggest that you can fall in love with your ex-boyfriend again, give it a try, try it once. Sometimes after a breakup, it will deepen the relationship, and it will make the other party more understanding and more tolerant, do you know what I mean? You have to make a decision about this situation, otherwise you will be very miserable.

I hope I can help you and thank you for using the consultation.

Hello! Men and plagiarists.

Women are different, even if they want to attack men

There will be no idea (meaning.

The female is going to do it even if she doesn't want to (even if she doesn't want to, if her ex-boyfriend asks to go to bed or kiss, she will definitely do it, or be together just to get revenge on the current man.) ）

Having said the above two conclusions, I just want to say that this is a complex philosophical question. It has to do with whether you or he brought the breakup, the trauma of the breakup, and the circumstances and when, how, where, and who knew about the breakup, and the impact of the insider.

In order not to confuse you, the conclusion is as follows:

It's possible for your ex-boyfriend to "want", and if he still wants to contact you, I think if his values are more decent, he will generally not tell you that he misses you.

If his new love is not as good as you, he will think of you, or if he wants to change his taste when he is in a bad mood, he may also miss you.

Don't be cheap, what you lose is what you lose.

Whether I miss you or not has nothing to do with you, you just love yourself.

No, men are the easiest to forget, and they forget old loves when they have new loves.

Just ask him.

Since you and your first love already have families, try not to contact them.

It's nothing. The ex-boyfriend's love life is not satisfactory now, so he misses you a little, or is he nostalgic for the past relationship. You briefly comfort him, and explain to him that now everyone has a family, and he must be responsible for his loyalty to the family.

In the future, it is inconvenient for us to contact each other, so it is enough to know each other's current living conditions. No more contact. Be good to your wife.

I'm also very happy now, and I don't want anything to break the peace that disturbs me. So. Let's hit it once in a few years.

You're a little sorry for your current husband. You know how your husband feels, but you can't grasp or cut off contact with your ex-boyfriend. Just go back once or twice, make it clear to your ex-boyfriend that it's better not to disturb each other.

We must be down-to-earth and live our little life with peace of mind. So. Ex-boyfriend sir, although I cherish the experiences we have had in the past.

But life is life after all, and everything is moving forward. We cannot live in the past. So we can't have any more entanglements.

A woman's worst enemy is your current husband's ex-girlfriend! The reverse is true for men, and it's even more serious! If you feel that you can't convince your husband to understand your first love, I advise you not to contact you.

Otherwise, if you are discovered, you will not be able to tell even if you are innocent!

It's definitely nonsense for your ex-boyfriend to ask you to help think about things, if it's just this matter for him, you have to be responsible for your husband and family. As a man, if I contact my former partner, then I must have wanted to have something with her in my heart, saying that I should be a good friend, etc., are all excuses. And if your husband is like this, how do you feel, compare your heart to your heart, don't hurt your relatives, the two must be sincere and believe in each other before.

When you are an ordinary friend, since you have a family, you have to be responsible for the family. Whatever the situation, the feelings of the family members must be taken into account, and both parties are the same.

This kind of thing should be made clear to your husband and be honest with each other, and there should be no expiration. If your husband finds out, nothing will become something. Your husband is the one who has been with you for the rest of your life, and since you have chosen to be with your husband, why not spread out some questions!

If you love your husband, then you should tell him that if your husband also loves you deeply, he will help you solve the problem and tolerate you.

It doesn't matter much if you reply to a message, but since you have a family, you should be responsible for the family and don't worry about the past.

Your boyfriend is already in the past, and I see if your husband still minds your relationship, after all, you usually have a good impression when you chat.

But there's nothing wrong with friends, and if you don't reply to him, it seems that you can't forget him.