My mom likes a rich cousin of mine and asks me to go to her, should I go?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-27
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Wow, your situation is quite similar to mine, alas, in fact, I think that if you two sisters have a good relationship, it is no problem, but listening to you say this, your relationship seems to be not like this, then I think it is better to find a way by yourself, after all, you don't know that your cousin thinks so, maybe in front of you, he said it very well, but behind your back, it will hurt you Sometimes people can't rely on others for a lifetime, you have to learn to solve it yourself, relying on others will only give those people a chance to laugh at you, and that is them, don't you know that people are better than people are dead Our family is like this Everyone's life is different If everyone is the same, then it's okay They don't know how to do this at all They don't compare themselves with others Don't be angry You try your best to work hard I believe that you will have your own career Don't you? Let's work together to make As for your mother, you communicate with him well, explain to him, even if you don't have money, you have to do a backbone, I believe that my parents are for our good, they won't harm us, you explain to him well, he will understand you...

    I will always support you ...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then you should work hard, go to struggle, and surpass your cousin, then again, since it's your cousin, is it also a relative, why do you look down on you?

    Is it your own psychological fault?

    I think there should be endless words for sisters to talk about together, and when it comes to you, I feel like two enemies are seeing each other

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Since your mother forced you to do that, you can go! If there is a good development, leave her! This society is the reality!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Cousin? , three generations of immediate family members cannot be married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better to rely on no one than on yourself!

    Let's fight!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You communicate these thoughts to your mother, and then make up your mind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It makes sense, you can't go, you can't eat other people's soft mouths, and take other people's hands short.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tasks, I won't talk about them upstairs.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can go, you must be diligent, and don't embarrass your relatives when the time comes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Go and see what you're saying, you want to work with someone, but they don't have to be you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can give it a try, even if it doesn't pull you, at least I can find you a job.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Young people have no experience, and they don't know what is important and what is not, so teach her slowly. If it's not something particularly excessive, it's still forgiven. People don't live to make money or have the right to be admired by thousands of people or something, people actually want to be happy when they live, if you give her convenience, she will be happy, and you will not have some satisfaction in your heart?

    Actually, it doesn't matter if you have money or not, does it? Relax your heart, in fact, everything doesn't matter, just be happy, if she can bring more joy to your life, even if it is a little more expensive and troublesome, what can it be? Sometimes, when dealing with young people, it is useless to just preach with earnestness, and it may be better to use some small favors and side knocks!

    If you can successfully become her bosom friend, I believe your life will be happier and more fulfilling!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If she knows how to be grateful, that's reasonable. However, "she didn't give me a ** when she got home, saying that she was home, and never gave me a **" I think she should be self-aware, if it were me, I wouldn't want to. A relative who is like a stranger, no matter how much he thinks, he can't twist it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tourism is something that people who like to travel do, and they don't have money to make their own money, and someone sponsors it. Wood money, if you don't want to travel, you don't agree to travel.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    According to you, it's your cousin who has a problem, what should I say? Is it selfish, or is there a chance that she really wants to be with you?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    What kind of mother teaches what kind of child You should listen to the jokes and just follow the fun Leave her alone Anyway, everyone doesn't like them They are lying to themselves to find a sense of existence You should pity them Don't care.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Airport ground staff is not a good job, to put it mildly, it is miscellaneous. You work hard and get a good job so she won't be so arrogant!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Ignore her and take what she says as if it were wind in your ears.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some people just talk so much, you just treat it as the wind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Airport ground handling isn't a good job either. You work hard and get a good job.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't want to listen to it, you turn around and leave.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Go your own way and let others do the talking!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you're transparent to her, can't you?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    How to say it, she is only 17 years old, you are so ignorant, since it happened, try to develop for the better, but, the consequences of marriage between close relatives, do you know, or can you bear it, but you are still young, and you can leave when you find out that you don't love each other very much, by the way, you get married, you have the financial strength to take care of him and you, there are many things to consider for children, don't be hot-headed, calm down, think about it.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There is no way out, immediately end the marriage relationship with your cousin, you are close relatives who are related by blood, it can be understood in this way, you are a family, if she were your own sister, would you be like this? You may be too young to understand, and if you do something you shouldn't do, you can't solve it yourself, so leave it to your parents on both sides to solve it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Although Chinese law does not allow close relatives to marry, if you touch both parents with sincerity, get them to agree. If you don't agree, you can go to foreign countries with your cousin, such as Japan, the United States, etc., if you have a considerable income. But if you're undecided, put an end to this affair.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You are really a talent, it is not good for close relatives to get married, your cousin is so young, falling in love now does not mean that in the future, I persuade you to break up, there are many women in the world.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Resolutely and must be separated! I know you definitely don't want to, but for the sake of your future, you have to think long-term Close relatives are married, and the law does not allow it, and if you have a child, it is likely to be abnormal or sick and so on. It was originally a happy event, but it became a lifetime of pain, so it's better to share it early!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's easy to be a fool when close relatives get married, unless you don't want to have children of your own, and close relatives don't get a marriage certificate, you are too young, and you will regret it in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Brother, you're playing big, it's not that you don't understand, but I've always liked my cousin since I was a child, but, in this society, even if you elope, you have nowhere to run, it's broken, although it hurts.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The idea is very fashionable, but let me remind you that the marriage of close relatives is not allowed by law, and it may be problematic to want a baby in the future!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Alas. 17,21,So young, depending on what kind of family you are, if you still have a little weight in your words, you will fight, if the elders and grandparents don't spoil you very much, and your side is not open, and close relatives marry to let people's families"Look at the jokes", that's still realistic, don't"Mistake after mistake"Silently admit your mistakes, try to take all the blame on yourself, if there is a little bit of shirking, then you will be miserable. Don't say anything, adults don't let you make a choice, just listen hard.

    Let the elders say, when it's time for you to choose, listen to your grandfather and elders, and speak the best thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Talk to your family. Fix this well. It's not right for you and your cousin to do this kind of thing. You should do some self-reflection.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If you like it, then just be brave and be yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I don't understand... But if you really like it, just do it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Landlord, you and your cousin have an incident in the east window???

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