What are the questions that deserve deep thought when you are in college?

Is the major you are studying really what you like and what you are good at? Or is it what you plan to do in the future, whether to go to graduate school, take the civil service exam or go straight to work.

One is to fall in love or study, and the other is to go to graduate school or find a job.

What kind of person you want to become in the future, what is the most important thing for you, you must have your own inner persistence.

Whether to return to my hometown or stay in the local area after graduation is a constant struggle!

Stick to one thing in college, keep doing it, don't try to do everything well, but you won't be able to do it well. You just have to keep your grades good and stick to one other goal. For example, to learn to dance, such as to learn Japanese, Korean, how many books to read and write in a semester, perseverance is the most important thing.

Handle a good relationship with seniors, you can use sincerity, because seniors are generally very good, and it will be very useful to inquire more about the methods and content of the exam during the exam.

Seize all the time after class to do what you want to do, otherwise in the future, you will no longer be able to be as chic as this when you are not under the pressure of life, and you can do what you like without pressure. Study hard, without studying, you really won't have everything, and the moment you get good grades, you will find that excellent grades can really bring you many, many unexpected things.

First of all, I think the question that should be pondered is which direction you are going to study, whether you are going to go to graduate school or go out and work directly, these are all things to think about.

In fact, feelings are as simple as that, you like him, he doesn't like you. He likes you, you don't like him. We always have to lose the wrong person before we can meet the right person.

Don't point fingers at other people's shortcomings, don't isolate others at will, you must know that no one is perfect. If you don't have a tolerant heart, one day, you will be talked about like this. Then you will understand how uncomfortable this feeling really is.

A lot of people complain that they didn't get anything in college, but I don't think so. It was in the process of studying in college that I learned the ability to think critically. This is one of the most important takeaways that has affected my life over the years.

And, this ability will continue to influence me for the rest of my life. When we were freshmen and sophomores, we spent a year in confusion because we had fewer library resources and fewer courses, and the library was on the main campus. When I was a sophomore, the class applied for a library card, and it was only then that I actually walked into the library to see the books I wanted to read.

I have always felt that I did not do well in the college entrance examination, and I was depressed for several days. When I first started college, I clenched my fists and was finally able to study blatantly! At that time, I vowed to study hard, get a scholarship, take a double degree, and go to graduate school!

For this reason, I have set a lot of detailed plans for myself, such as when to prepare, what time to get up and read in the morning, to go to the reading hall whenever I have time, to go to the certification examination, and to take time to participate in various clubs, etc., and the time is full. When I think about it now, I feel that I was so amazing at that time! When I was a freshman, I did it, and I was often active in the library, study room, and clubs, and I was busy and fulfilling, and I also won a scholarship.

Later, I found that my university study and lifestyle were not the same as before, and I could still pass and even get high scores before the exam, so there was no need to waste a lot of time! You can watch dramas, go shopping, chat, eat and eat in your usual time, and life can be so comfortable! There's a good saying"Hard work doesn't always succeed, but it's really comfortable not to work hard!

However, time flies, and graduation is about to be made in a blink of an eye. I was confused with my resume that I had no idea where to write and what to say.

Don't waste too much time on relationships, and try to be single as much as possible. Because once you fall in love, your future will be more or less affected, that is, many of your principles will be broken because of it. And falling out of love will make you feel very painful, and you will not be able to recover for a long time, and when you come to your senses, you will find that you will have nothing left.

For example, there is no study, no grades, such as missing the right person. You don't need to have low self-esteem, and you don't need to compare yourself with others. Everyone who stays with us now is ordinary, and those who are not ordinary are not born on the same starting line as us.

What you're doing is you're going to be the first among these people.

In college, life is all your own, and you can only compare yourself to yourself. How poor and rich you are, only you know. But don't let that lead you astray and lose your heart.

Don't buy things randomly, buy what you need, things that fit. Sometimes a few pieces of clothing that you buy cheaply can't compare to the more expensive clothes you buy that are full of texture and can be worn for several years.

Although I haven't been to too many universities, I have learned from friends and various sources that there seems to be such a phenomenon, that is, the better the university, the looser the management, and the worse the university, the tighter the management, which seems to be a completely contrary to our common sense, in our common sense, the better the university should be the stricter the management, and the worse the university, the worse the management. But in reality it is the opposite.

I found out that there is such a thing when I was in my second year of college, my university is not good, nor bad, but it will give students more freedom in management, such as students will be allowed to be outside the school before eleven o'clock in the evening, as long as they go back to school before eleven o'clock, in fact, even if it is more than eleven o'clock, there is a small door to come back, including the so-called dormitory, many times it is just formalism, at that time I thought that dormitory was a very formal thing, and I was always afraid that there would be any bad impact on being found out. But in fact, the few girls in our class who were found to be in the dormitory not only had no impact, but even ended up in the study. In short, the management of our school, it is relatively passable, but these things are unimaginable in some schools with strict management that are not very good, they have strict regulations on the time of dismantling the gates, and a strict dormitory system, but such strict management, in the end, only the disgust of some students, and the servility and obedience of some students.

University is a wonderful place where you can absorb the aroma of knowledge every day, as well as the intoxicating books and teachers. In the past, my teacher always taught us that we must go to college once, and the university will definitely change you, and it will make you different. Because what you learn in university is not only knowledge, but also enriches your knowledge and expands your horizons.

I've always believed that this statement is true, and even when I see something different here than I thought, I still believe that it is right. College life is really comfortable, of course, it is compared to high school life, but we will not remember the hard years of high school life, we will only enjoy this beautiful and comfortable college life. This is the common characteristic of every Chinese, and it is also the bad behavior of Chinese.

It's hard to change, so a lot of people don't want to change and let life take its course.

College life is also boring, and you have too much spare time for you to spend in college. So a lot of people start looking for things to do for themselves and enrich themselves. But that's just a small number of people, and many more people can't find their own jobs.

Therefore, they began to become very homely, and the degree of homely is sometimes embarrassing. You can not go out of the dormitory for several days in a row, and you can ask others to deliver meals for dinner, which is really scary. The boredom of college life has also created some crazy men and women to die or live, because of loneliness, so looking for the other half of the relief, in this process I don't know how many couples can really be together?

Are they just trying to distract from the boredom of the life of the Great Ascension? Maybe, maybe not. Who knows.

College life is just an experience, and we can learn a lot from this experience, which will be an asset in our lives. Cherish college life, college life is worth cherishing.

At the beginning of college, I was loyal to the collective, plus clubs, plus departments, part of the dormitory march, part of the confused group of college students. I have a goal, I have enthusiasm, and Ling Chong knows that I have a strong ambition. Ignorance, loss of purpose, and overwhelm.

I'm one of those people who naturally think a lot. Thinking about it, thinking about it, I gradually developed a feeling of disgust, like a black pool of water bubbling from the bottom of a lake. Not disgusted with them.

After all, everyone has their own way of life, I respect, there is no right or wrong, and it cannot be judged by me, but by them. What I hated was myself. This kind of disgust cannot be resolved externally, and to be precise, no one can understand my "disgust".

And with whom? And I don't want to talk about it. I have to settle the rent from the inside, on my own.

Since then, I have been detached from the group little by little, not walking with my roommates, trying to avoid acquaintances who don't want to talk, quitting the club, quitting the department, going in and out of the library for self-study alone, and running outside the school to play alone on my birthday. After being alone for a long time, I changed little by little. The real turning point came during a sudden solo trip in sophomore year.

This is what I really am, a person, who does not depend on anyone, from beginning to end, in another city. The motive is not clear, and I suddenly yearn for the outside, and I was not in a good mood at the time, and it was really a "trip that just said to go". But one thing I know very well is that I want to be alone for a while and think about something.

Now, it seems that in the course of this journey of only a few days, I have actually carried out a series of reflections on how to internalize the energy of the ruler.

The deep thinking in college is mainly about:

1.Consider the ideals you want to realize, prepare yourself intellectually and intellectually, and lay a good foundation.

2.Consider what you want to achieve. Study hard for your future goals, reserve knowledge, and lay a good foundation.

3.Consider whether to go to graduate school after graduation to continue to work in the dark and improve the level of professional knowledge, and lay the foundation for greater achievements in the future.

It should be said that most people don't have any quiet and in-depth thinking when they are in college, and Qiqi wastes a lot of time, and only after graduation will basically think, or after work, they will think more.

Common study problems in university life are:

1) Lack of motivation to learn.

2) Improper intensity of learning motivation.

3) Learning anxiety and learning fatigue.

4) Test anxiety.

1) Lack of motivation to learn: the main manifestation.

1) Try to avoid studying. reluctance to attend classes; listlessness in class, inability to think positively; No sense of accomplishment, no ambition and no expectations.

2) Lack of self-esteem and self-confidence in learning. I don't believe that I have the potential to learn well, and I won't feel embarrassed if I don't learn well.

3) Easy distraction. Lack of motivation to learn will make people pay poor attention, unable to concentrate on lectures, unable to concentrate on thinking, easy to shift interest, superficial in learning, easily disturbed by various internal and external factors, and satisfied with half-understanding.

4) Boredom, apathy. Lack of motivation to learn often leads to boredom, apathy, and withdrawal from learning.

5) Lack of correct learning strategies and methods. People who lack motivation do not actively look for flexible learning strategies and methods that suit them, so they often find it difficult to adapt to new learning situations.

2) Improper intensity of learning motivation.

1. Lack of motivation or weak motivation, college students cannot focus on learning, and learning behaviors are not easy to occur, and even if they occur, they cannot be maintained.

2. Excessive motivation for learning, often manifested as too strong motivation for achievement, eager to succeed in everything, expecting to do better than others, and not tolerating any failure.

3) Learning anxiety and learning fatigue: the main manifestations.

1. Too much psychological pressure and emotional depression during study.

2. Doubt your learning ability, always worry that you will not study well, worry about possible test results, lack of confidence, excessive worry, and even sleep and food.

3. Exaggerating the difficulties in learning and causing psychological uneasiness.

4) Test anxiety: This is what is commonly called. Test nervousness, that is, a state of mind of apprehension, worry, expectation, nervousness due to the fear of failing an exam or the desire to get a better score. It is related to being evaluated.

1. Learning problems.

At present, the problems existing in the study of college students are: First, there is no plan for learning. The second is the incompleteness of the learning process, most of the students' learning is still in a traditional and passive state, and they do not really grasp the ability to learn actively.

The third is that they will not use the library during the learning process.

Second, the employment question is troublesome. At present, the employment situation of college students is grim, and the existing employment problems are: First, the concept of employment.

The mind needs to be adjusted. Second, professional skills are not too hard. The third is the lack of communication skills and self-confidence.

3. Emotional problems.

College students who are gradually maturing in all aspects of physiology and psychology are in a period when they are more suitable for love, and college campuses and less life pressure have also created a suitable environment for their love, but there are also some problems: First, the attitude of college students towards love. The second is the way college students fall in love.

The third is the problem of love and study.