Will the post 80s generation marry love, or marry life?

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I can't say who is light and who is heavy... The materialistic society has transformed too many ignorant teenagers, and under its guidance, many people today have established a worldview, outlook on life and values that are contrary to "the beginning of man, the nature is good". Let's start with the analysis of the way love and bread are generated, and there are two ways in which love is produced

First, two people fall in love at first sight, and hate each other late, and second, cultivate or fall in love for a long time... It is a natural physiological phenomenon that the human brain secretes hormones to the human body. . . There are many ways to produce bread, mainly in four large pieces:

Inheritance, labor, gifts, rewards... These are the natural results of man-made transformation, which are exchanged for labor by man... As analyzed above, love is a natural physiological phenomenon, and bread is the result of human labor, so the problem is not difficult to solve

Love is a signal that will only be sent deep in the heart when you meet a specific person, please note that it is specific, not all, that can be met but not sought; Bread can be created with wisdom and hard work. What can be created through wisdom and labor, if you don't have it for the time being, you can continue to work hard, as long as the opportunity and method are right, one day, you can get it after all, and what you can meet but can't seek, once you miss it, maybe it will never be produced again... I hereby appeal to all lovers in the world, please hold on to your hard-won love, and don't change the best things in the world because of practical factors!

May a lover eventually become a family!

Can love last forever, in fact, eternal love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love, isn't it better.

If you marry life, you will live an easy life, if you marry love, you will live a hard life, you choose for yourself.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!

In the world of love, there is no such thing as a lifetime ......If you want to exchange for eternal love, only career can be exchanged for love Because in this real society, if a person doesn't have a career, how can he talk about love (heart) In the real world, there will be no more "Romeo and Juliet" Love without career insurance is simply equivalent to a kite with a broken string, and it will never be stable In the end, it will only make yourself silently sad Slowly eat that bitter fruit (it hurts) This kind of love is very painful, like quicksand in your hand, the more you hold on, It's easy to run down, and in the end all that's left is a small amount of dust. Therefore, if you want to get eternal love, you must have a stable career in order to maintain this love forever for a lifetime.

Most people choose to marry life! In the material society, people always want to enjoy the material life, and the spiritual life has been abandoned by most people!

On the basis of being able to live, I seek love the most.

Those post-80s who marry love live very comfortably, the husband and wife are harmonious, and the children are filial

Those post-80s who marry love live a very comfortable life, and their parents are alive and well, and they can do their filial piety under their knees. Love the house and Wu, they choose the person they love the most to get married, and they will also love each other's families. Most of the post-80s generation are only children, and they can bring their parents together and have children to enjoy family fun, and the family is happy together.

It's okay, life may be very burdensome, but meeting the right person at the right time, no matter how difficult it is, it's not a problem.

I think they lived quite happily, because people at that time were very able to endure hardships and live a very happy life.

I think I'm very happy. Almost all of the people around me live the life they want through their own efforts. That's the power of love.

I think it depends on the person, if both of you are very attentive. Maybe their lives are still very good.

Actually, from my brother and sister, I can see that their love really didn't marry the person they liked. With all kinds of disagreement at home and the obstruction of parents, they can only marry someone who seems more suitable to them.

Because my older brothers and sisters usually go out to work after graduating from high school, it is very difficult to find a girlfriend, so I can only rely on the family to introduce them to some girls. My brother started looking for a girlfriend for him when he was 19 years old, and it was only when she found a girlfriend at the age of 25. As long as you can find her a girlfriend, you feel very happy at home, so at this time, maybe my brother really doesn't have any illusions about love, and his goal is to find someone who can marry him.

Even if it's not a special love. Because the two of them really lived a happy life after getting married, because the two people may have known each other because of a blind date, and the time of marriage before and after marriage did not exceed half a year, and the two people did not really understand each other before marriage, and they should also get married when they reached the age of marriage. I am sometimes particularly opposed to a marriage like yours, and I think why should two inappropriate people be together like this.

This is the reality, because after all, there are fewer girls and more boys, so they may find it particularly difficult to find someone to marry. At this time, many people choose to live their lives in the future, because they feel that they are living like this for their children.

Therefore, many post-80s marriages are really not married to love, but to reality, the love that we are all difficult to find. At that time, there may not be many people who are free to fall in love, and many people choose to let their families introduce them to a marriage partner. At this time, they can only compromise with the family, and then marry someone they don't love.

I don't think it's the post-80s, it's how many of the post-90s are married to love, not to mention that more of the post-80s are still in the blind date stage when they get married, basically the order of their parents, the words of the matchmaker, the two people have been matched by the matchmaker, and they have been together for another year and a half, and they feel that they are almost married, how to talk about love. So I think that the marriage of the post-80s generation is not much about marrying love, but more about "the right match", the two parties negotiate well, one is willing to marry, the other is willing to marry, and the matter is done.

Now that the society is open, more young people have entered the ranks of free love, no matter what way two people meet, whether it is classmates, online dating, colleagues, after having a good impression of each other, and then falling in love, and then getting married, these are based on feelings, that is, married to "love". The reason why more people are married to love in today's marriage is because now the Internet is developed, people's minds are more open, and the channels for making friends have become diverse, and there are more opportunities to meet him in your fate.

The post-80s generation is not so lucky, although they also slowly entered the Internet era at that time, mobile phones, ** are becoming more and more popular, but the degree of popularity is far less widespread than now. In addition to the few channels for making friends, another point is that people at that time were not as open as they are now, they were still very shy, and there were very few people who took the initiative to chat with others, so although free love was advocated at that time, they basically obeyed the arrangements of their parents, especially in the countryside, people's thinking was still very conservative.

Sometimes falling in love is one thing, getting married is another, two people love each other very much, love is dead and alive, but it is not necessarily suitable for living together. Life is more about some trivial things, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, once these trivial things are involved, those beautiful loves may no longer be beautiful. So I think that no matter how many post-0s marry love, there are a small number of them, and more of them are married to people who are suitable for a lifetime.

I am also born in the 80s, and I have been on a blind date several times. I found my true love on a blind date. The four points that I think you are not deep enough to love!

I'm a little pessimistic! Even numbness. I think love should belong to people who have been discouraged but still believe in beauty.

In the case that the relationship is not deep for a long time, the current blind date girls will consider a few points, and I have summarized it myself:

First, appearance, is what girls call the first sleep.

Second, personality, whether she has been in love or not, then she will have a general personality requirement for him in the future.

Third, it is the ready-made economic strength or background, which is considered by everyone, of course, some girls will consider potential stocks. That's how I analyzed it, and I can break the first three points, that is.

Fourth, the two parties love each other deeply, let themselves into her heart, overcome all difficulties, and work hard and maintain together. I think that this kind of relationship is the most precious and long-lasting, and I belong to the fourth type.

So, in the case that the conditions are not very superior, try to impress the girl with your heart, in addition, I want to tell LZ, it is very important, in the process of dating, if, after a week or two of dating, there is no substantial progress in the case of both parties who are not disgusted, you must know how to go to physical contact, to what extent, to see what character the other party has, this is not good to say, but it is very effective, and it can promote feelings. (My girlfriend was "tricked" by me when I took her to the moonlit grove to dance, hug, and kiss).

Tens of millions of people have met for thousands of years, and there is a fate, which is called fate, and I hope that LZ can find its own "fate" as soon as possible

It's based on human feelings.

No matter how busy the man is, he should also take the initiative to call you when you are eating, when you are sleeping, when it is cold.

He didn't take the initiative to call you.

I feel that in his heart you are not the most important thing.

He should feel just formality.

Now men and women are in love, which one is not called a husband and wife.

I hope you don't just think about him.

He'll feel like you can't live without him.

You have to be independent on your own.

He'll notice when you're slowly alienating him, and he'll chase after him, but if you're really going to get married.

I still advise you to choose someone who loves you instead of choosing someone you love for a long time, you will feel that he loves you, you will be very happy people who don't love you, 100% of the family has one, there must be another female compatriot outside, think clearly.

That's the post-70s, and the post-80s generation is a radical generation.

Whether it is blind date or free love, the highest level of love is to take each other seriously and be responsible.

There is no good partner in the school, and when you graduate, you can only rely on introductions. The post-80s generation has insufficient social relations + few people who know each other! Something that can't be helped. You can only leave it to fate!

There are still women who don't value money, but they may not be mainstream.

Haha, feelings should be fate.

In fact, a woman who seems to worship money and is a nymphomaniac will live an ordinary life with you, as long as you are willing to try to give you a chance. to get to know each other.

Our post-80s generation was passively put on a veil of hypocrisy by reality. In the eyes of others, they worship money and vanity, so why don't they taste it? Everybody is!

So try to open your heart and let others unveil you, and also try to see her under the veil. Don't be fooled by appearances! But this may require a bit of fate.

You know what I mean?