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Now when it comes to "marrying love", many people will feel hypocritical, what age is it, and where else is there who is married to love. Most people believe that pure love exists in the green years, in the campus stroll, and the feeling of blushing and heartbeat when you secretly pull down your hand is gone.
Do you have a car? How much is the salary? ...Therefore, when choosing marriage, everyone will feel that love is no longer the primary condition.
So many girls, compromised with reality, married to a house and a car, married to each other's family background, and married a "not bad" person.
In fact, whether in married life or in love, a truly equal relationship is not what you can give me and what I can do for you, but what we can create and become together!
Men often ask women: Would you love me without money? It's like a woman asking a man: Will you still love me when I'm old? Men are always obliged: "yes", but will it really be the case when they grow old?
Obviously, this varies from person to person! So everyone can run, and the mountains will fall, not to mention just a suitable prescription, a person who is just because it is suitable, but who has different dreams in the same bed every day?
Let's marry love, let us create our own sense of security and confidence, read more, create a good culture, travel more, create a broad vision and mind, do financial management, and create our own wealth. You don't know how handsome you look when you say, "I don't need to marry a wealthy family, I'm a wealthy family"!
Some people think that love is sex, that it is marriage, that it is a kiss at six o'clock in the morning, that it is a bunch of children, and perhaps it is, Miss Lester. But you know what I think, I think love is about wanting to touch and withdraw your hand. by : Salinger.
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I am willing to marry love, because only with love, I am willing to go hand in hand with him to complete my life, if there is no love, I will not settle in the relationship.
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In fact, if it were me, I would choose love, many people may feel that it is not practical, but I personally feel that love can lead to a better life, if two people don't even have the most basic feelings, how can they live well? In fact, the two of you have lived, and I personally think it's not happy, so if it were me, I would choose to marry love.
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In fact, I think I personally still like life, because I think life is the most real, love I think he is only temporary, if your love can be kept fresh forever, I think you can choose love, if your love you think is not guaranteed, I think it is better to be realistic. Life is actually the most real us.
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It's sweet to marry love. And many women will choose to marry love, but love has become a part of life, I don't know if it will be like life, can withstand the cruelty of the reality of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.
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According to the romantic saying, as well as the fairy tale version, the fighting attendant is married to love. A more realistic way of saying it is to marry life, marry firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. I only have a high degree of spiritual integration is the most important, don't talk about it separately, talk about it separately and talk about it without any of them is perfect.
Only people who know how to live and know romance can have a happy marriage, and love is not only about falling in love with someone, but also about feelings. But in real life, it is better to marry life. Love is an integral part of life, and marrying is not love, but itself includes living together with love.
If there is only love, there is no life, then there is no marriage, and there is no so-called love.
All along, everyone has been pursuing free love and marriage, in order to liberate themselves and get rid of the shackles of arranged marriages in the old society, which is right, but it is necessary to look at the traditional dross in two, not to engage in one-size-fits-all, to the other extreme, the combination of traditional marriage and life is correct, and it is wrong to arrange and restrict the freedom of marriage Era, the rise of free love so far, the experience of society is: marriage is the soul tomb of love, love is gone, only firewood, rice, oil and salt are left, which is diametrically opposed to the goal that everyone pursues, Love is all about eternal, why is this happening? The reason is to separate love from life, one-sidedly pursue the so-called "love", think about whether love without life will exist for a long time?
Love itself is a kind of life, and love that does not consider life loses its foundation and becomes a momentary emotional impulse, and everyone remembers the vows of marriage, "regardless of poverty, wealth, ......."Many people think that it is a formality, a slogan, but in fact, it is the hope in everyone's heart, but it is not done. So come back, re-examine the relationship between love and marriage, and take the late life as the basis of marriage, which is what everyone feels, but I am afraid of being said to be a materialist, money worship, this is the other extreme, and it is also necessary to prevent a marriage with only material and no love, unify marriage and life, and achieve both love and bread, and coordinate with each other.
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Marry love, because only in this kind of marriage can there be hope, the husband and wife will pay for each other's dedication, without asking for anything in return, they will put each other in their hearts, and hold each other everywhere for the sake of the lack of celebration, such love has a future.
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Of course, it's marrying love, because love can make us feel very secure, and we will be very happy, if we marry life, we will only make ourselves less and less like ourselves.
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It should be life, no matter what it is to get married, in the end it must be a return to life, because this is more practical.
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I will marry life, because love has a shelf life, and after a period of time, there will be no love, and the winter vacation is more reliable for life.
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Of course, I want to marry love, because this is the most beautiful part of love, and such a marriage is happy.
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Yes, I never wanted to be lonely until I grew old, and I never thought about never getting married for the rest of my life, I like children, I like the feeling of a family talking and chatting and eating, so I yearn for the love of choosing a person to live old, even if the love becomes family affection in the end, or it fades I can accept it. When I was young, I felt that love was an indispensable thing in life, and at that time, I took love very seriously, and I minded the feeling of heartbeat, and I minded love very much, but it may be that I am getting older, I have seen more and heard more, and I have more and more understanding of what life is, so at this time, I am actually not so much looking forward to love.
But not so much expectation, does not mean that I do not look forward to marriage, many people sometimes, may be the love and marriage mistaken, many people always say, I want to marry the person I love, I want to marry the person I love, but very much time you will find that the person you love may not be suitable for you, and the person who is suitable for you, you may not be so deeply in love, so I think marriage and love, everyone had better not be confused. Marrying a suitable person, I think there will be a lot of contradictions, such as the right door, so that there will be a lot less trouble, and everyone will not have a sense of insecurity, always feel that you take advantage of my family, I want to take advantage of your family, and because of the education that two people have received, the family environment is similar, it is easier to agree on the three views, and it is easier to agree on many small problems in life, and finally small things will reduce a lot of contradictions. Love is love, marriage is marriage, the marriage I have now is what I thought was suitable at the beginning, the right family, the education is comparable, the income is comparable, the personality is suitable, the two people will not have that heart-pounding feeling together in Pizhou, but it will make people feel very comfortable, not tired, will not always want to take and give, maybe in the eyes of many people, this is a marriage that will be settled, but I feel that this is the marriage I want, I like this kind of dull married life.
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I have never thought of being lonely until I am old, and I have never thought of never getting married for the rest of my life, I like children, I like the feeling of a family talking and chatting and eating, so I yearn for the love of choosing a person to grow old, even if the love becomes family affection in the end, or it fades I can accept it.
When I was young, I felt that love was an indispensable thing in life, and at that time, I took love very seriously, and I minded the feeling of heartbeat, and I minded love very much, but it may be that I am getting older, I have seen more and heard more, and I have more and more understanding of what life is, so at this time, I am actually not so much looking forward to love.
But not so much expectation, does not mean that I do not look forward to marriage, many people sometimes, may be the love and marriage mistaken, many people always say, I want to marry the person I love, I want to marry the person I love, but many times you will find that the person you love may not be suitable for you, and the person who is suitable for you, you may not be so deeply in love, so I think marriage and filial piety love, everyone had better not be confused.
Marrying a person or disturbing the right person, I think there will be a lot less contradictions, such as the right door, so that there will be a lot less trouble, and everyone will not have a sense of insecurity, always feel that you take advantage of my family, I want to take advantage of your family, and two people because of their education, the family environment is similar, it is easier to agree on the three views, and it is easier to agree on many small problems in life, and finally small things will reduce a lot of contradictions.
Love is love, marriage is marriage, the marriage I have now is what I thought was suitable at the beginning, the right family, the same education, the same income, the right personality, two people together will not have that heart-pounding feeling, but it will make people feel very comfortable, not tired, will not always want to ask and give, maybe in the eyes of many people, this is the marriage that will be, but I feel that this is the marriage I want, I like this kind of plain married life!
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I believe that for many people, marriage is a matter that many people are very concerned about. And many people also attach great importance to getting married. So do you think you hope to marry love or marry life in the future? Why?
In fact, many people are particularly careful about some issues in love. And many people also want to have a good home. And I think love really needs to be taken seriously.
And I think I must hope to marry love in the future, because marrying life will make me feel wasteful, and it will also make me feel unbalanced in my heart, so marrying love is my ultimate goal. And there are a lot of things that we need to take seriously. So there are a lot of things that we can't underestimate, so I think I want to marry love in the future.
So many relationship problems need to be taken seriously, and I think marrying life must be very boring, and this is not the life I want, so I prefer to marry love, because this kind of love is worth cherishing, and it is also worth yearning for. So I think I hope to marry love in the future, and I also hope to meet the right person. So I hope I will marry love in the future, not to life.
After all, life is very plain, and love is needed to be more nourishing.
To sum up, I feel that I hope to marry love rather than life in the future. Because marriage to love is valuable and meaningful. And this kind of life is also meaningful to me.
Therefore, I prefer to have a meaningful life for myself, so I want to marry love more than life. At the same time, I think we should be more cautious about love, and we should also marry love, so that we can have a better attitude towards life, so I think I hope I marry love in the future. Instead of marrying to life.
But I believe that everyone will have a different understanding of this topic, so what about you?
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It's about marrying love. Because in a life like imaginary socialism, people cannot be starved to death, but if they have their own hands, they can still obtain some collapsed materials.
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It's married to life. I don't think you can lack some material things in life, but I can't hate that person while marrying life.
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Love, and reality makes the pin choose a plain and real life, let's dress up Everyone will yearn for perfect love at the beginning, but in the end, they still have to face the reality of life and are willing to marry love.
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I want to marry love, because marrying love can lead to happiness, and marrying life, there is no happiness at all.
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I don't choose people who don't like people, but who are suitable, to marry. I don't want my feelings to be lost to the right one.
It also takes a lot of courage to choose a person who loves love, two people who love each other and ascend to the wheel are not necessarily suitable, everyone has their own character, temper; It takes a long time to get used to it, to get used to it.
It's like two people in different places, in terms of food: one eats spicy food, the other doesn't eat spicy, which requires both people to accommodate each other's eating habits in order to live comfortably; There are also education levels, income levels, and so on are all issues that both sides need to face.
Love is important, but later vegetables, rice, oil and salt, and the details of life will make you understand whether you are happy together.
Love is different from family affection and friendship, and there is a lot less rational thinking and calm judgment. Sometimes, moths to fire, eyes to wear, women are indispensable, and it is not in vain to taste the taste of love.
A love that has not felt palpitations is not a perfect love, and a marriage that lacks love as the foundation is difficult to achieve happiness.
A love that has not felt palpitations is not a perfect love, and a marriage that lacks love as the foundation is difficult to achieve happiness.
You haven't even been in love once, so how do you know what the love you crave is like?
I'm not sure, but I always feel that a marriage without love is like looking at each other from afar across the South Pole and the North Pole, and there is no possibility of meeting each other.
On a blind date, we must first fall in love, and then meet conditions.
Feelings are like this, the more innocuous they are, the more hopeless they are.
In love, what doesn't necessarily suit you is the best.
In marriage, what you love the most is not necessarily not suitable.
Maybe everyone has a different answer in their hearts. Today, I don't bother with this problem anymore. If you have loved deeply, but you have not been accompanied by fate for a lifetime, then even if it is unforgettable, you must wave to him with a smile and tears, because love is not the same as possession.
The highest state of love is to make the other person happy.
Meeting the right person at the right time is a paulownia branch in this life. Whether it is love or hate, it dies in youth and frivolity; It's still late to see each other, and it's fateful to be inseparable, all of which are the most cherished memories in life.
Love is a game that begins and ends, and marriage is a woman's highest desire for love.
If you are still in the dead end of looking for "love" or "suitable", I suggest you think about whether you want to marry love, or make do with it.
Of course, if you can have both, you may have the happiest life possible.
Marriage is an unrepentant medicine, no one will take it for you, you have to make an accurate life prediction.
In the end, it is a formalist "match made in heaven", or a "will make do" that will be squeezed into the bus.
Putting aside the ardent gaze of parents, abandoning worldly value judgments, and firmly grasping one's own view of love and marriage is the first step towards a happy life.
In love, understanding is more important than love and suitability, sometimes, he can understand what you mean with a look from you!
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