Why am I so cold, why am I so cold

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

It's not cold, it's because you're still indulging in the sadness of the past, you can't accept the arrival of another relationship for a while, you're afraid of being hurt again, you want to love but can't lose your heart. Open your heart and try to accept the love of others slowly, don't wait until the person who truly loves you starts to break before you wake up from the memories!!

Inevitable.. Maybe it's your environment.

But being able to ask such questions shows that you are not really cold inside!!

Perhaps, you can dress up a little more earthy, mix among the poor to see, go to the countryside to walk around, and read some more poignant ** on the Internet, maybe it is better ......

The key is that you have to understand them and live among them......

You may say you don't have this comparison, they are all dirty, smelly and poor ......But most of them are kind-hearted and simple-hearted, and they have another kind of spiritual beauty ......You need to feel ...... with your heart

Silence should have a degree, if you don't speak, others will feel that you are indifferent, and they will think that you are introverted, so just say silly, it is good to socialize more with the people around you, I hope you can change slowly....

It's still because of children, I haven't experienced and felt the difficulty of life, and I will slowly get better in the future.

You would say that it shows that you are not cold, I think you must have been in a bad mood that day, or you have seen a lot of people like this

The money you have in your family is also given to you by your parents! But you haven't thought about how your parents came to be!

They are also a little bit thrifty and slowly accumulated! They know hard work and know how to help others when they are in trouble!

Times are different! Thinking differently!

Because you have a psychological problem.

It's a social problem, you can't be blamed for being cold!! Now many people won't give money, including me!!

It's because you've seen through it all.

Your conscience has been eaten by dogs, and you still have the heart to change your ways.

It's innate, and it can't be helped.

Summary. Hello dear is happy to answer for you, become apathetic, it is important to come out of the shadows and not let some setbacks affect your life in the future! Listen to ** and participate in some social activities! Open your heart!

Why am I so indifferent.

Hello dear is happy to answer for you, become apathetic, it is important to come out of the shadows and not let some setbacks affect your life in the future! Listen to ** and participate in some social activities! Open your heart!

Everyone's personality is different, and it cannot be forced or imitated.

The more afraid of being ignored by the surroundings, the more you have to show a seemingly eye-catching arrogant posture, that is, ignoring everything, and the indifferent character is mostly a state of self-protection of people who have been seriously hurt in the soul.

You can usually go out and have more fun, travel when you have time, relax your mood, and maintain a good attitude.

There are always bumps and bumps on the road to growth, and you will become a person with a strong heart when you go through it.

So sometimes I don't feel a little warmth in my life, so I will become more and more indifferent.

A person is naturally very gentle, and only after experiencing more painful things makes him feel that gentleness has no effect, and then treats the whole world with this indifferent attitude, so that he will not let himself be hurt somewhat.

Therefore, you should change yourself, maintain a positive attitude, participate in more meaningful social activities, cultivate more hobbies, and love life <>

Summary. Dear, you must have been hurt if you are very cold, so you refuse to communicate with others.

Dear, you must have been hurt if you are very cold, so you refuse to communicate with others.

Mmmm, I'm usually a cold person, and I didn't speak last time.

Ah, it's okay, hee-hee.

Is there something on your mind? Haven't slept so late?

I'm very cold to emotions, only interested in games, sometimes, the rest doesn't think so much.

Did you ever have a girl in your heart before?

In general, first love is unforgettable, have you never had a crush or liked someone?

No, I didn't think about it that much, I didn't have a first love, I didn't have a crush on someone else.

Rare, may I ask your age?

18 years old, junior high school no one to like.

Well, I think the person you like just didn't appear, your quality of love is relatively high, if you choose a person, it should be a lifetime.

What about families? Do you feel that your home environment has influenced you in any way? For example, do parents love each other I'm sorry, I have a career question, so I will ask, if you think Li Songhu has to mind, you can not use the cherry shirt.

It's okay, my parents love each other very much, I originally planned to not get married and not fall in love in this life, I am doing well, but I am sorry for them, I am a group of people who have no feelings.

If you feel that a person is better, this is also a kind of life guess, you can still live a good life, and you don't have to worry about a lot of headaches in this world.

Sir, I am 9 years older than you and 27 years old. I don't think there's a generation gap between you and me, which makes me think you're more ahead of your time.

With peers, do you feel that their ideas are sometimes childish?

Childish, giggling all day long, I don't think it's funny, I'm not a person who can talk to him at all, I'm more indifferent, serious, maybe I'll meet a very exciting girl in the future, I hope that girl is the same as me. I haven't experienced feelings, just be a little mature, it's not important to like it, it's the most important thing to be suitable, it's the same as the old three views, I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't go to bars, sometimes I play games, it's very money-saving, I think it's more rational, Jane let me not talk about love, I won't have ambiguity with others, keep my distance to avoid suspicion, be a responsible boy, and never be affected by others, hahaha, that's it, wait a while to sleep, bye-bye.

I guess Jian Shu arrived, sure enough, the idea is different, and it's really more mature, no wonder I told me last time that there was a girl who likes you, but you didn't feel excited. Just follow your favorite pattern and be yourself! I also play games, King, I don't know if you play this, I'm a girl, it's cool, at least I'm an 18-year-old boy who hasn't seen a barrier and has his own ideas and a clear plan for the future.

It's very comfortable to chat with you. Like a spring breeze. Goodbye then, good night [warm].

Your last paragraph is very good, boy. The lack of blood is caused by not having endured hardships and not knowing how hard life is. You can only know how difficult life is when you support yourself, and how precious family, love, and friendship are in this difficult life.

When you have a wife and children, you know that a man needs to pay much more than you think. I just finished college, and I am the same as you. Spending money is the same as running water, and I haven't earned much money myself, and I have no concept of money, so I don't feel like it.

I don't know how much effort 1,000 yuan means to my family. It wasn't until after my mother passed away due to illness that I fully understood that my parents' earning was really hard-earned money. Saving money every day is the amount saved in a year, and for me two meals is exhausted.

Now I dream of her every night, and the sense of responsibility is even stronger. I think about how to pay off my credit card quickly every day, and I am willing to work overtime for three or four hours in order to earn an extra 30 yuan every day. Now I have become sentimental, lamenting how difficult life is, and I cry every time I see a TV or movie that touches me.

Family love and friendship are great, and I live more bloody!

You have low self-esteem and autism, you don't feel the love and care of the outside world, and you don't feel confident that you can bring happiness to the people around you. When a loved one is hurt and suffering, your apathy is because you don't know what to do to ease their pain, or even fear that doing something will make things worse. So you choose to deal with it indifferently, even if you are already panicked in your heart and blame yourself a thousand times.

This is my guess because I feel like I have some kind of resemblance to you.

In fact, we should not be too cowardly, if we feel that there is not much love and care around us, in fact, we are too self-pitying, lamenting how pitiful and powerless we are, and blinding the feelings of love given to us by our family members. Even if your family doesn't give you too much love, it doesn't matter, you know, what you give to others, others will give you. Indifference should only be indifferent, so if we want love and beauty, we should take the initiative to do something for our family and the people around us, so that we will immediately feel the warm feedback, so persistent, we will become more and more brave and confident.

It's never too late. If we live like this in our lives, from the perspective of thinking for ourselves, it is not worth it, so, come on, be brave to do something, don't make excuses for yourself, don't close yourself, scare yourself, in fact, people's growth is really only in a moment. May you and I encourage each other!

The grandmother's unintentional small act changed the whole society! Warm-hearted animation Mr. Indifference.

From your words, you should have experienced some things that have started to change your mind and some changes in your life, can you tell me what I am. Because from the time you say that you are indifferent, you are in a state of numbness in the face of your relatives and all kinds of things, and you don't feel anything, which can only say that there are some experiences that make you feel or some experiences that completely break your burning heart, but if you can say it, maybe I can know why you became like this, you must know that there must be a reason for a person to change.

Find a goal that interests you and slowly evoke motivation for things. Trust you.

Because you've seen it all. It doesn't matter in your eyes.

Slowly learned to be lonely.

Learned to live alone.

Everyone else is dispensable in your eyes.

So you're apathetic.

I hope you can find happiness again.