My former girlfriend is out, what the hell do I still care about? , how should I reply to her

Updated on healthy 2024-05-16
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It seems simple, but it's hard to explain, but it's a strong feeling in everyone's heart. Caring is not spoken, but felt with the heart. Even if you say it in a fanciful way, you still don't care if you don't care about it, and you can only know the real answer by feeling it with your heart.

    You don't have to say it, because only those who care about you can care about what you care about, this is a tacit understanding, and it is the intersection of hearts and minds. Relatives can care about each other, friends can care about each other, lovers can care about each other, and it seems that they care about always being by our side. Caring may fade away because of time and because of the place, but when your heart recognizes a thing or a person, this feeling of caring will become stronger and stronger, unless it or he hurts you and threatens you.

    When I was young and ignorant, I thought that caring about someone was to be with him every day, shopping together, eating together, watching movies together, together... The purpose is to have fun. At that time, I was very naïve, and when I did those things, I didn't think about it, and day after day, not only wasting time, money, and energy, but also getting nothing in the end.

    Now, for me, I don't have to get tired of being together every day, I don't have to see each other every day, but I put him in my heart and everything is good for him. Of course, the premise of caring is because of love, and if there is no love, how can you care? Our father, mother, lives with us every day.

    It is not difficult to find that they do not have too much rhetoric and eye contact, but are busy every day, never complaining, never blaming, everything is only for each other, everything is only for home. Although caring is an important feeling in the depths of my heart, it seems simple, but it is difficult to persist in it. Because caring about one person not doing well will only make the other person disgusted with you.

    For example, I really want to hear his voice, knowing that he is busy, and I want to dial ** greasy and crooked to express your feelings for him, but I don't know that at this time, he not only can't concentrate on work, but also will question whether you really care about him and care about him. On the contrary, caring about a person doing it well will make the other person feel that you really love him, and everything is for his good. I also want to hear his voice and know that he is busy, and will tell him to work at ease and talk about it after the work is done.

    This kind of care is not something that everyone can do well, because it requires understanding and tolerance, as well as enough patience. I admit that the waiting process will become long and even a little difficult because of missing, but when he finishes his work, he must have a little more affirmation and recognition in his heart, because he knows that you know what he needs. I think this is also a reflection of one of the reasons why some couples break up in the end, while some couples are able to achieve positive results and stay together for a lifetime.

    I believe that the world is fair, and the person you care about cares about how much you care about him, and he will definitely care about you as much as you care about him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to reply, ask him what happened or what's wrong.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you're thinking too much, maybe it's just her feeling about her current situation!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You don't need to take care of the previous ones, it's OK to ignore them, you don't need to take care of them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I have time to go out and take a walk.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1. Guide the girls to confide, and take the initiative to end if the effect is not good.

    When in the process of chatting, you sent a few messages and the girl just replied "oh" and had no intention of chatting with you, then it means that the girl's mood is not very good, if you are not very familiar with the relationship with the girl, then just end the topic and find the right opportunity to talk to her.

    If you have a good relationship with the girl, then you can guide the girl to confide in you, in the process you must remember to listen more and talk less, if the girl keeps saying that she is fine, then don't force the end of the chat, just find a chance to talk to her.

    2. Change the topic and choose an interesting topic.

    Girls are emotionally dominated creatures, in the process of chatting if your topic is boring or the girl is not interested, it is difficult to mobilize the girl's emotions, the girl will feel bored and will say "oh" to you, at this time it is actually reminding you to change the topic.

    In the selection of topics here, we need to pay attention to the fact that there is no topic in the early stage to exchange some basic information with girls, but this process must not be too long, and we must pay attention to providing more value rather than asking for value, such as:

    Ask what a girl does, you can say: "Overtime's **+ working overtime so late, it's really too hard, you must be lying down comfortably" and then ask the girl's job, it will generally be easier.

    No matter what you ask a girl, you are actually asking for value, and if you want a girl to be willing to tell you, we need to tell the girl some of your own information or interests, which can start with pets, photography, food, and chat in the way of "sharing + feeling".

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Explain that the girlfriend wants to improve her current life for the better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Summary. Love is a special emotion between men and women, which requires two people to understand and tolerate each other, especially men who have more responsibility and responsibility for their beloved.

    So you're just idle, you have nothing to do, and it's quite normal for others to not pick up when they're busy. Therefore, if you don't pick up **, you won't fall in love at every turn. This is originally a debt, which is to find scolding yourself.

    A man has to be like a man, don't look for things all day long, so it's better to find something serious. For their own women, let alone <> of gains and losses

    Reply to girlfriend's why.

    Love is a special emotion between men and women, which requires two people to understand and tolerate each other, especially men who have more responsibility and responsibility, and are responsible for their beloved, so you are just idle, have nothing to do, and don't pick up when others are busy, which is quite normal. Therefore, if you don't pick up **, you won't fall in love at every turn. This is originally owed, that is, if you are looking for a man, you have to be like a man, don't look for things all day long, so it's better to find something serious.

    For their own women, let alone <> of gains and losses

    Girlfriend asks why I love you.

    Because you're different", when you tell your friend, not only his problem, but also see that his shining point has always been a very moving situation, and the girl thinks this sentence is particularly good, but the boy feels that this sentence is equal to not saying, and I don't see any difference, but the girl's brain circuit is different from the boy's, so they realize that their boyfriend's heart is different, is unique, the so-called girl wants is not your second-hand conveyance, nor your real situation, But what he didn't expect was your preference, to make sure that they were different, to make them happy all day, to confess to the girl, you must not be stupid to go up directly to confess, this will make the girl in a state of confusion, he has not recovered, this person is not a little nervous, so he will say, before the confession, you must do a good job of foreshadowing, first through chatting to make the girl feel that you have a good impression of him, miss him, this confession is so easy to succeed. <>

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. Hello [Bixin], my girlfriend sent you a message, you didn't reply, two days later, you want to reply to the other party.

    Did my girlfriend send it the day before yesterday.,I didn't reply.,How should I reply now?

    Hello [Bixin], my girlfriend sent you a message, you didn't reply, two days later, you want to reply to the other party.

    So how should you reply to her?

    Usually the way to delay the reply to a message is to first explain the reason for not responding in time to the other party, so as to dispel the other party's doubts

    How to reply to it.

    So why didn't you reply?

    I'll make you up a paragraph.

    Well. Was it because you were in a bad mood, or did you not want to reply to her at the time?

    Get up on the wrong side of the bed. Get up on the wrong side of the bed.

    Reply Honey, I have something recently, and I am not in a good mood, and I didn't reply to your messages in time, but now it's all dealt with, let's have a meal.

    After eating, I will buy you a gift

    Please forgive me once, okay (;) a

    If a girl is angry, if you let go of your attitude and coax, it will most likely succeed.

    If she is empathetic, she will be considerate of your sincerity.

    Sometimes when you are in a bad mood, you can tell the other person directly, explain the situation, and make an appointment to meet at another time.

    If you ignore the other party because you are in a bad mood, it will also bring some pressure to yourself later, and it will also have an impact on the maintenance of the relationship<>

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    This is my ex-girlfriend, and now how do I get back to her?

    This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    I don't want you to forgive me so quickly, I just hope that you can give me a chance, a chance to mend my ways, and then think about what mistakes you have made before, how to correct them, and what you are going to do in the future. In this way, you can make your ex feel your feelings and sincerity, and know that the teacher Thank you!

    You're welcome. If you encounter emotional confusion in the future, you can come to me at any time! 

    That's a reply. Then I'll make a long story short, that is, I didn't live with her the year before last, but just kissed her on the mouth. I fell in love with her for a month, and in the process of falling in love, I paid it, and she didn't pay.

    Then last year, during the Chinese New Year, I didn't feel much for her, and then I suddenly said a casual word! She didn't seem to say anything when I said that, and then I didn't even have contact with her last year! Then I didn't delete the other party's WeChat, and then this year she asked me to add her new WeChat, I felt that she cared about me, and then I wanted to get her back.

    I know. I understand, although your girlfriend has said that she will not forgive you until now, she has actually cared about you in her heart. It's easy to redeem it.

    You give it back, I will. It's not too early, you can rest early, okay, then I'll reply to her like this first.

    In the past few months, I have not forgotten you, if I don't like you anymore, I won't be in the dead of night, my mind is your shadow, and I dream of you at night! It's all about us together!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Did you say that he asked me a lot of people before, can you accept it, as far as you think? Isn't it clear whether you can accept it in your heart? If there is no way to answer, then you can't accept it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Your girlfriend is with you, if you can't accept it, then you can directly tell her that you don't want to accept it.

    If you don't care, you tell her:

    I don't care about the past, I only care about you now.

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