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Don't be impulsive, impulsiveness is the devil, according to what you said, there is a relationship problem, maybe your husband doesn't care about you, maybe your husband often bullies you, since that's the case, it's best to separate, get together and disperse, out of sight and out of mind, blindly accommodating and forbearance can only make yourself cry constantly, and it is yourself who is hurt.
You have to look at the opening point, there is no hurdle that cannot be passed.
Take your own destiny into your own hands.
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Rich in feelings, it is difficult to control feelings. As you get older, the years go by.
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It seems that he is also a man of temperament.
Good people, nothing, I am always like this. But the heavens rain on the good and on the bad. The sun shines on all, and there is no need to be angry about them.
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The mood changes too much, it is recommended to see a psychiatrist.
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What's the matter, there's a conflict? What is there to talk about home and everything calmly! (It is very common for women to cry, and crying is a panacea for inner stress!) )
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This thing is innate, just like Daiyu, there is nothing bad about it
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I'm like this, my heart is at the center of the love skyscreen, or my heart is dead. Or hate.
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Well, I feel that way sometimes, and I think it's normal.
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First of all, it is normal for people to cry, and now let's analyze why people cry based on common sense. As the saying goes, men don't flick when they have tears, and it is rare to see men crying, but you can see women crying every day, why do women cry more than men?
1 Tears are caused by emotional pressure, that is, when people's feelings are in place, they will shed tears when they are sad. Both happiness and sadness contribute to the release of this chemical compound. Or the tears that fall from the cold air, wind, sand, or cold shadows, and the tears that are affected by the outside world are very different from the tears when they are sad.
2 Under normal circumstances, the tears secreted by a person during the day have the effect of moistening the conjunctiva and cornea of the eyeball, and part of the tears secreted are evaporated by the temperature.
3 Adult men feel that they are stronger than women, so there has always been a saying that "men don't flick when they have tears". The "normal" crying behavior of men and women proved that women did cry more often, on average five times more than men. Women cry 5 out of 10 times because of tears, while men only account for 29
After understanding the basic mechanism of human crying, let's take a closer look at the question of why people cry when they know that crying can't solve the problem (this place is a bit lame).
First of all, everything is not so absolute, and sometimes crying can still solve part of the problem. For example, children's crying can achieve goals that they usually can't achieve, such as food, toys and other things that they usually like; A woman's crying can be a companion's comfort; The crying of adults can win everyone's sympathy; Even the emotional crying of street beggars can make a lot of money.
But crying can play a role in relatives, friends or certain situations, but Tongqin is definitely not omnipotent, crying in front of strangers or people who lack empathy, in exchange for only indifference and ridicule, and only the help of a weak soul under the contemptuous gaze.
And a person who knows that crying can't solve the problem, and keeps crying, must be a person who is emotionally rich and delicate, sensitive and fragile, weak and introverted, and unwilling to face difficulties. But it's good to admit that you love to cry!
When you're sad, when you're uncomfortable, when you're desperate, cry if you want to. American scientist Ferrey said that people do not cry when they are sad, which is harmful to their health, which is equivalent to chronic suicide, and the prevalence rate of people who do not cry for a long time is twice as high as that of people who shed tears.
See! Crying is not useless.
However, after crying, remember to wipe away your tears and tell yourself: "Moscow does not believe in tears!" Then find a master for guidance, ask the wise man for help, and find a way to solve the problem, which is not in vain for us to cry.
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Human beings are emotional "animals", which is different from other animals. Tears are a manifestation of feelings, which is a very normal thing, if a person encounters no matter what kind of thing the expression is the same, then this person is a "vegetative person".
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Because you're excited, you're crying.
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Human tears are secreted all the time, flowing on the surface of the eyeball. However, there is very little tears secreted and they flow along the surface of the eyeball and in the tiny spaces inside the eyelids, so you don't feel that the tears are flowing.
However, in the blink of an eye, the tears on the surface of these eyeballs are sucked into the nasolacrimal duct, the sewer of the tears. Don't underestimate this not-so-long tube, it's the only way for tears to reach your nose. The lacrimal glands constantly secrete tears, and the nasolacrimal ducts constantly excrete tears, so people usually do not shed tears.
When a person yawns, his mouth is wide open, and he may exhale more than he can out of his body in order to exhale carbon dioxide and inhale oxygen. With the action of yawning, a stream of gas exhales forcefully from the mouth. The muscles of the cheeks, tongue and throat tense and contract, and the pressure in the mouth and nose increases.
As a result of the increased pressure in the nasal cavity, it will temporarily block the work of the nasolacrimal duct to excrete tears, and the "sewer" will not be passed, and the tears will not flow, and more and more tears will accumulate in the eyes. There will be tears in his eyes, and finally he will burst out of his eyes and flow to his face.
In fact, not only yawning can cause tears, but also when people laugh, sneeze, cough, and vomit, and the reason is the same.
Reading and crying may be too long, or the posture is incorrect, visual fatigue, you should put aside a period of time to look at the distance, relieve the pressure on your eyes, and protect your eyes. There are several possibilities for long-term tearing: (1) functional tearing, that is to say, the tear duct is open by doing tear duct irrigation to check that the tear duct is passable, and tearing in the wind or cold air is not an organic lesion, and some ** trachoma eye drops can be dropped.
2) Organic tearing, chronic dacryocystitis caused by trauma, trachoma or conjunctivitis, can be operated on after being diagnosed in the hospital**In addition, when you wipe your tears, you should wipe inward and upward, not downward, which is easy to cause tear punction valgus and more likely to cry. Eye pain can be caused by malnutrition, and a multivitamin can be usually taken.
It is recommended that you go to a regular hospital for a check-up to identify the specific cause of tearing eyes and then take further effective treatment.
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Why do people shed tears? What does tearing do for the human body? What's the point?
This may seem like a simple question, but it has long puzzled researchers. Charlie Darwin, the founder of the theory of evolution, believed that tears were a "relic" of some kind of evolution, unrelated to the competition for survival in the evolutionary process. Darwin analyzed:
When you cry, the microvessels around the eyes become congested, and the small muscles contract to protect the eyes, causing the lacrimal glands to secrete tears. Darwin thus argued that for the human body, tears themselves are meaningless "by-products". However, the American anthropologist Ashley Montago had the opposite view.
He believed that tears had benefits for the human body, and that these benefits had an evolutionary effect and could therefore be preserved from generation to generation through natural selection. Human tears are the result of survival of the fittest. Montaggo gives an example:
Tears contain lysozyme, a self-defense substance that protects the nasopharyngeal mucosa from bacterial infection. Observations have shown that dry crying without tears can easily dry out the nasopharyngeal mucosa and become infected. Adopt it.
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People often use the term 'crocodile tears' to describe the hypocritical bad guys, saying that they have harmed others and shed fake tears. Do you know why crocodiles cry?
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