May I ask why people always advise those who come after them to give up 30

If you are married, it is considered a third party, and it cannot be allowed, in the category of law and morality.

If you are not married, if two people have had intimate contact, it cannot be allowed, because the man is responsible, unless the woman does not care. Or men want women to be responsible.

If it's just a general relationship, then break up, it's fulfilled, there is no loss, and he (she) is either not a dedicated person, or he or she doesn't really love you, break up early and rescue early, and a better person will appear in the future.

No, I think that in many TV dramas now, the male protagonists have girlfriends. But I didn't say that the heroine was a third party, and I think it's normal to destroy other people's feelings.

Succession is not a problem, the choice is in the woman or the man! Whoever gives up and is abandoned will be miserable, it will be temporary, and the time of life will not stop because of it! What if you're married?!

Leaving will be better than the status quo, then leave, and live alone if you don't want to love! If two people love each other very much, how can there be a third person?

Fall in love and find your favorite...

Get married and find the one who loves you the most...

I feel the same way as you

So I never told anyone what to do, on the contrary.

People take tea and cool and do not advocate eating back grass, which is what I have always advocated!

Love also comes first and comes first.

Whoever you love, you can be with whomever you love, and you can be happy.

Whoever the heart desires is with whomever it is, so that it may be sorry for anyone, and it is too selfish, but people also have to think for themselves...

If you don't persuade you to give up later, then wouldn't you agree with the act of snatching love or being a third party? Although in the eyes of latecomers, that TM is called true love.

Why does the Marriage Act stipulate that bigamy is automatically annulled by the later marriage, and why not the previous one? You know, the first time is only once, but if you respect the later, then the rest will never stop, and the society will not be in chaos. Where there are 2, there are 3, where there are 3, there are 4...

Because he was a step too late

I won't persuade who loves and whom the most.

The person who advises you to give up may have many different mindsets, and here are some possible reasons:

1.Fear that you will fail. These people may be your relatives, friends, or leaders, who may think that your plans or dreams are too risky or unrealistic, and therefore fear that you will fail. It's not that they don't support you, but they want you to think carefully and not take risks lightly.

2.Jealousy or jealousy. Some people may be jealous of your courage and determination because they have not achieved similar goals, or because they have not had the courage to pursue their dreams. They may deliberately suppress you in order to show their superiority.

3.Don't see your potential. Some people may think that you are not good enough to achieve your goals and therefore think that you should give up. They may not be able to see your potential and talents, and therefore cannot truly understand your pursuits.

4.Stick to the status quo. Some people may feel that you are already living a good life now and do not need to take risks to pursue higher goals.

They may think that you should be content with the status quo and not be greedy. However, if you really have the desire to pursue a higher goal, their advice may make you feel depressed.

In short, the mentality of the person who advises you to give up can be complex and diverse, and needs to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis. If you really believe in your goals and dreams, you must be firm in your beliefs and not be easily questioned and suppressed by the outside world.

The person who advises you to give up may have the following mindset:

1. Pessimism and disappointment: This type of person may have suffered setbacks and failures in their own experiences, so they will be pessimistic and disappointed when they see others facing similar situations, believing that success is difficult or impossible.

2. Jealousy and jealousy: This kind of person may not be able to achieve success due to their own reasons, and when they see that others have the opportunity or are pursuing a goal that they have failed to achieve, they will be jealous or jealous, so they persuade others to give up.

3. Lack of confidence: This type of person may lack self-confidence or have no confidence in themselves, so they think that others should also lack confidence or be prepared to fail like them.

4. Don't want to take responsibility: This type of person may not care about the success or failure of others, but only out of self-interest, deliberately dissuade others from talking about giving up when others need help or support, so as to avoid taking possible risks or responsibilities themselves.

In short, the person who advises you to give up may have a different mentality, but their advice may not be suitable for your situation, and ultimately you need to judge and make decisions based on your actual situation.

The mentality of people who persuade you to give up is generally not to burn Sun and hope that others are good, and they don't want to do things like to give up halfway, but they can't see other people's good, they can't tolerate others' excellence, and they will be destroyed if they can't get it.

This kind of person's mentality is that he is not excellent, he gives up halfway, and he can't tolerate others to be excellent under his eyes. Your perseverance embodies an excellent spiritual quality and a taste for life. The person who persuades you to give up, he can't do it himself, so in his subconscious, he hopes to let others frustrate and lose to increase his confidence.