Would a boy not choose to start a relationship because of a long distance?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-14
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some will start the relationship, some won't, and this varies from person to person.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends. If the love is deep, then it can continue. Because deep feelings can solve all difficulties. Finally came together. If the love is not deep, it is recommended to give up, because it may not be successful.

    There are still successful cases of long-distance relationships. For example, a friend I know is in a long-distance relationship, and her parents don't approve of her being with her boyfriend, and then the girl insists on being with her boyfriend, and her parents can't resist it, so they agree. They had a good life after marriage.

    So a long-distance relationship can be successful. But it takes a lot of faith. If you have a firm relationship, then you can continue to be on the right side, because a long-distance relationship is just a hurdle, and if you are brave enough to boast about it, everything will be fine.

    On the other hand, if you don't love each other very much, then don't continue, because there are too many dilemmas of long-distance love. You will not necessarily succeed.

    A long-distance relationship means that one partner wants to live in the other partner's city away from their parents and friends. The sacrifice is still great. If you don't have a good plan, don't choose.

    For example, a colleague I know who is in a long-distance relationship with her boyfriend. The sides are separated by two thousand kilometers. Their parents also did not approve of their marriage.

    The girl didn't think about whether to continue with him, so she let it go. There is a saying that long pain is better than short pain. So it's better to let go if you don't want to be promoted, knowing that there is no result, then there is no need to stick to it and laugh.

    In short, whether the long-distance relationship should continue depends on how your relationship is, if the relationship is deep, then you can overcome all difficulties and finally come together. If the feelings are not deep, then there is no need to continue, because the belief in love is not firm and may not be successful. Long pain is better than short pain, give up early, and neither of you will feel pain.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone's emotional experience and emotional concentration are different, as for whether a long-term long-distance relationship should be insisted on, it still has to return to specific people and specific feelings.

    If you feel that you have to do something, you won't ask if you can bury it or not, and the same is true for long-distance relationships, if you ask yourself if you want to persevere, then most likely you already feel that there is no need to insist in your heart. I have the answer in my heart, but I don't have a "legitimate reason", because after all, the other party has not done anything wrong, and there is no reason to break up, the relationship needs to get along, run in, and irrigate, and there is no opportunity to understand each other in a long time. When the day of the end of the long distance, you will find that in reality, he and the object of your previous love are not the same person at all.

    If two people really love each other, try not to be in a different place, or try not to be too far apart. It's not that long-distance relationships are bad, of course, long-distance relationships also have good endings, it's just that because long-distance relationships are likely to push the originally good relationship to the edge full of fog, and there is no way out in the end.

    Long-distance relationships spend most of the time in waiting, and only when we wait do we know what we need, for us in a long distance, being able to hold on to this hard-won relationship is what we need most at this time.

    True love even if it is far away, I still know that you love me, and I will do my best to take due responsibility for this love, long-distance needs courage and faith, only with these two conditions, two people in a long-distance relationship can finally come together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, it is not for nothing that a long-distance relationship or separation between the two places can have a good ending in the end, but it is rare.

    What I don't object to is that when we first met, we were in a different place. If two people like each other very much, they should not completely reject each other just because it is a long-distance relationship, but should give each other a chance.

    If you really decide to be together or get married, try to go to the same place. What I firmly object to is that for some reason, couples who were originally together should be in different places. Many people may say that being in a different place is a last resort and there is no way to do it. Are you sure?

    There really wasn't much to do about being away from home when I was a student. But if the college students really love each other, they should go to a city after graduation. Since then, for the most part, being off-site has become your own choice.

    Special types of work, such as military personnel) will not appear in two places, a large extent depends on how you measure the relationship between two people and some external factors. The reason for being away from home is nothing more than work and future. But I think these things can really be solved.

    If you can stay with your partner for a long time, does it matter if you take a little less money?

    Is there a lack of trace keys for a little promotion? I use my own painful experience to tell you: if you are a partner who has or is about to get married, please must not choose a different place. When I first went to college in China, I had a bright boyfriend who was very nice to me.

    But after two months of dating, I went to Singapore to study. At that time, laptops were rare, and you also needed a ** card to make international calls. It can only be said that the stacks of ** cards left behind are green.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course, it's not necessary, it's not reliable to fall in love now, and there is no result when you're together, let alone a long-distance relationship, it's even more unreliable.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The reason why boys don't easily accept long-distance relationships is because they are more rational, and long-distance relationships are very testing the relationship between two people, and the success rate is very low, so boys feel that the risk is too big and usually refuse. But this is only a matter of probability, and there are boys who can accept long-distance relationships.

    If they love their girlfriends very much and trust each other very much, they believe that it is only a temporary separation, and they can finally come together through the efforts of two people. This kind of happiness is also the envy of others. So when you meet such a man, you have to cherish it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A long-distance relationship may be nothing more than a bifurcation in time and distance.

    In terms of time, two people can't be together for a long time, they can't see each other, and within a certain period of time, this is actually conducive to enhancing their relationship. But after a long time, love can sometimes become manic and a little cranky. However, in this process, the honesty and closeness of the relationship between the two parties will also have a great impact, which can ensure the stability of the relationship to a large extent.

    But in general, time is also fatal to most love, after all, too long a separation will inevitably lead to suspicion and dilution.

    In terms of distance, distance is the same, sometimes distance is a kind of beauty, which can make the relationship more profound, but too long a distance will inevitably make the couple distrustful, of course, it will violate the original principle of love. Without trust, suspicion and anxiety follow, and in such a situation, love is easily subverted by the sense of distance.

    However, I think the greatest beauty of love is the sense of trust. True love has this kind of beauty, and with trust it will last for a long time.

    There is also a long-distance relationship because there is no other party by your side, many times, it may make people feel a sense of relaxation, and under this mentality, some people may do things that are not suitable for loyalty. If you take the wrong step, it becomes a betrayal.

    All in all, a long-distance relationship is also beautiful, but it is also a test of love, loyalty and trust on both sides. If you love so thoroughly, then these are naturally not a problem.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Distance is indeed an issue as well.

    Is there any way to ask that?

    To answer this, you have to communicate with the two of you to understand the specific reason, oh Question, uh-huh, teacher, I usually get hurt a lot in my relationship Is it my own problem, and the answer is partly due to my own reasons, of course, there are also external reasons, and my own adjustment is also a necessary thing.

    Question: What kind of boy is worth entrusting his life.

    I asked him if he had anyone he liked right now, and he said no, and my friend said he couldn't ask him that, and he wouldn't answer this question positively for boys, right?

    Question: Uh-huh, okay, thank you.

    This is what the answerer should do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Some boys have this idea. One is fear. Different geographies.

    Lifestyle habits are different. This affected the relationship between the two very much. Second, I am afraid that the woman's parents will keep coming and going.

    It's a mess at home. To be received. Take it with you on a tour.

    Third, the woman's relatives. I came to Beijing to do something. Gotta help.

    So, many men are afraid of these things. Reluctant to find people from other places.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I don't think every man accepts a long-distance relationship, but all love is risky, and marriage is the same. If the guy you like doesn't like a long-distance relationship, it's quite normal, after all, a long-distance relationship means that you can't be accompanied for a long time, but companionship is more important in love and marriage than knowing each other, after all, you don't show up when I need you, what's the use of appearing when you don't need it?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Some boys just can't accept long-distance relationships, and they may feel insecure about long-distance relationships, after all, two people can't be together often, and there may be a lot of contradictions!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Because no matter how good it is, it can't be touched, it's all someone else's.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Whether a girl in a long-distance relationship should go to a boy's city or not, the following aspects need to be considered.

    1. Whether the two people have decided to be together, and whether the future development location is determined in the boy's city.

    2. Whether the boy has the responsibility and responsibility, and if the girl goes to live in the boy's city, whether the boy has enough ability to take care of the girl.

    3. The distance between the girl's home and the boy's city is enough, and whether the time and money for the girl to go to and from home in the future are enough.

    4. Whether the parents of both parties agree to the relationship between the two people.

    5. Whether the place of residence and work of girls to boys' cities can be solved.

    Long-distance relationships are really hard, but if a girl wants to go to a boy's city, she must be determined to overcome all kinds of difficulties with the boy and finally come together. If you just have an attitude of falling in love, don't go to the boy's city, because if you go to the boy's city, you will lose your original circle and start over, if there is no result in the end, the original circle is lost, the new circle is not formed, and in the end there is nothing, therefore, whether the long-distance relationship needs to go to the boy's city must be considered before making a decision.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's best not to go to the boy's city, because if you marry him far away, if it doesn't treat you well in the next few years of marriage, you have no one to talk to, and you have nowhere to go, so don't go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello, the current long-distance relationship distance can not produce beauty but is easy to produce a mistress, I really like a person can go to his (her) city. Even if you earn a little less. But more homely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you are in a long-distance relationship, if both parties do not live in the same city, the relationship between the two people will slowly fade over time, so if the girl really likes the current boy, she can consider the man's city job, provided that the girl can find a satisfactory job.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the woman's conditions are not particularly easy to find, and it is difficult to find a job, it is not recommended that the woman take such a big risk to go to the man's city, because she will face a dilemma if the relationship is unsuccessful.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In a long-distance relationship, should girls go to the boys' cities? Personally, you would suggest that you should go to the boys' city. First of all, according to traditional Chinese marriage customs, two people are together.

    After a girl marries a boy, she should go to live in her husband's house. At this point. Besides, if the boy gives the girl enough security, then what reason do you have not to live with him?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In order to achieve marriage, one party must sacrifice his or her career, otherwise they will break up after a long time. From the perspective of the role, it is better for the woman to go to the man (of course, after the relationship is determined), if the man goes to the woman, the man does not work well, and the woman often chooses to give up the relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you really like each other, and after getting along for a long time, you feel that he is still reliable, loves you, and has a stable income, it's okay. Of course, you can go to his city and get along for a while. Now both men and women feel that they have to focus on their careers, it depends on what you think.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    For this question, first of all, you are in a long-distance relationship, if you particularly like boys, then you will definitely go to the man's place, because the man is developing very well in **? So you're developing? You're going to get a good job, and when you get there, your feelings will be deep, and I think it's okay to go.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Long-distance relationships are generally difficult to have good results after a long time, not the man said that it will be your life in the future, because in your life, the accident has not been with you, and it is actually very pale to fall in love with the mobile phone, but the woman goes to the man's city only absolutely. See who develops well.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The success rate of a long-distance relationship should not be very high in the end, especially for both of you. It's not just a matter of two people, it's a union of two families. Personally, I feel that it should be carefully considered. You can invite a guy to the woman's city.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is better for girls in long-distance relationships not to go to the city where the boy is, it is recommended that you have better let the other party come to you or agree to go to the same city!

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