Deal with small contradictions in feelings, and how to solve conflicts between two people

Let's calm down for a while, don't be too impatient, especially feelings, the more impatient you are, the more likely it will backfire, give both parties a buffer period, if he really doesn't want to break up with you, really cares about you, you will take the initiative to contact you to find you, it should be yours at all, not yours no matter how reluctant you can't get it, what do you say? Be patient, it's normal for two people to quarrel and quarrel often in love, but don't take it too seriously, after all, no one can bear to leave anyone, since it's all like this, give both parties a free space, so that each other can better care about each other and treat each other, what do you say? I hope these suggestions can give some help, and I wish you happiness and happiness every day, and you love each other sweetly!

Love is not the whole of your life, you need to give some proper proportions to all the parts of your life. As a man, I may be able to understand his approach, maybe your relationship has also caused him some damage, you can understand that his current approach is healing, you love him, you just need to change the way, very objective, without emotion to tell him what you think, you can send e-mail, you can QQ message, at the end tell him what you want him to do, what kind of reply you want to receive from him. You don't know what ** did wrong, he wants to tell you, but he will also worry that it will be the beginning of another war, not everyone can learn to communicate and exchange in quarrels, so he will want to talk to you face-to-face, you don't think too much, what he does may be a manifestation of loving you and caring for you, just think about it differently.

I wish you all happiness!

This kind of thing seems to have happened to me, men are more evasive when they encounter problems, and I, like you, am also the kind of person who must end up immediately if there is a problem, otherwise it will be very uncomfortable.

My advice is to meet with him and figure out the problems between you, if he is still cold and indifferent after meeting you, then he doesn't want to be with you anymore.

Men generally don't like to talk about breaking up, and some people will distance themselves from each other in a cold way.

Don't apologize in a low profile, a woman who loves herself is qualified to be loved, and disregard for dignity and other practices only make the other party look down on you, and even less care about you.

There are still many good men in this world, and every time you fall in love, you can let yourself know yourself better so that you can improve yourself, even if you fall out of love, it is a good thing.

Men often don't care about quarrels, and they will deal with it themselves after a while, so don't hold on to it, don't always mention this when you talk about other things, it's likely that you won't like to tell you anymore in such a stalemate. The boy has a very rough heart, and asks him what he is doing, what is interesting, what is troubled and sorrowful.

He said that when he met, he might want to hug you, men are the most gentle, no matter how big your mistake is when you are gentle, it is not a mistake, men are the least afraid of toughness, if you fight for reason, endlessly, men's hearts will be stiff.

Say more considerate words, it is useless for a woman to be coquettish in front of a man, he needs you to hug him.

I wish you all happiness!

First of all, don't worry, if he still loves you, he will definitely tell you that you are wrong.

If he's not interested in you anymore, what you're doing won't save your love.

You can calm down with each other for a day or two, give yourself and him a little free space, maybe he will tell you that you don't do well.

Don't be too low-profile, a boy can't do everything to him, and he must be strong and independent.

You have to find a time to talk about this, talk to him about your thoughts, ask the reason, if he really loves you and doesn't want to leave you, he will also work hard with you, everyone will have this or that shortcoming, the most important thing is to see how much you tolerate his shortcomings, I feel that you are talking about this situation, you two are not very suitable for being together, what if you love, the person who will enter marriage together in the future is not necessarily your favorite, but the most suitable.

After experiencing a life-and-death relationship" As a result, you are not dead and are still posting here, showing that you will soon be able to love someone, hehe Don't care.

It's good to be down-to-earth, she can give you a steady, which means that there is a small cornerstone between you, but you are always in a hurry, and being anxious is the biggest failure.

His indifference is actually psychologically entangled, you simply said: I should have said everything, I also care about the relationship between us, I don't want to make myself so painful, you can watch it yourself! And then you wait, 1 day, 2 days, 3 days...

Not for a week, that means your little cornerstone is still a little smaller, over! Then you go to climb Dashu Mountain, oh I don't know that you are from Hefei. Hehe.

If not, you can find a mountain to climb and wait for the next relationship again. Tomorrow will be fine!

Objectively speaking, it's very likely that he can't stand your character, or that Tianya doesn't love you anymore. Because I think his attitude is very cold now, that is, he clearly wants to break up with you... I always put the responsibility on you, but I don't reflect on it,,, I advise you to throw it off first, so as not to end up sad

I think it's just your own thoughts, you first shift your attention to think about other things, go home on the weekend and make it clear to him, ask him to understand what he thinks, you can't do anything now, urge him more, he will ignore you even more, if you ignore him, he will worry about you, and you have the initiative.

I don't think this man likes you anymore. Girls should have a temper, girls without a temper, I don't think that boy likes it.

Why do you lower your profile like this, and apologize without knowing the reason, it will only make him feel that he is right, and if he doesn't tell you the reason, you will ignore him.

The breakup made me and him also didn't say anything to make it clear that we wanted to separate.

He doesn't care, why do you want to force it.

Ask clearly to solve it at once.

Or ignore him.

Men are cheap. You ignore him, he has a temper.

Don't ignore him once.

He panicked. Of course, that's if he still likes you.

In love life, it is normal for both parties to have conflicts.

First of all, calm down with each other and think about for yourself what the reason is and whose problem it is.

Then, communicate the problem calmly, seek common ground while reserving differences, and find a solution to the problem. Of course, if one party is wrong, those who should apologize should also apologize in time, and those who should be forgiven should also be forgiven in time.

In life, you should talk about your thoughts to the other party, and you also need to understand the other party more to be able to solve this contradiction.

When encountering contradictions, two people should solve them calmly, and two people should communicate effectively so that they can solve the contradictions between the two parties.

When there is a conflict between the two parties, it should be resolved immediately, and the conflict should not be delayed until the next day or longer, because only in this way can the relationship between the two people be better.

The solution to the conflict between the two people is as follows:

Reasonable negotiations. How to regulate emotional discord, in fact, is not a big deal, put things on the table. Whether it's a personal issue or a trivial matter in life, don't argue, absolutely don't do it, and restrain yourself.

Not only is this bad for both couples, but it certainly has an impact on the children to a greater or lesser extent. Therefore, "reasonable" negotiations are the best option.

Empathy. Both husband and wife should think more from each other's point of view. For example, the husband is the head of the family and bears many of the responsibilities of a man.

The wife should understand her husband's hard work outside. It's troublesome enough for a wife to clean the house every day. She also had to take care of the children.