What to do if you meet such a friend 50 points

Talk to him well and tell him how you feel in your heart. If you don't change, you will be cold to him for a while. This kind of thing can't be held in your heart.

One person's habits are cultivated by another. If you don't tell him about your dissatisfaction, if you don't like him like this, he may not realize your disgust. My boyfriend was like that for a while, he was unconscious and just joking.

But I hate it when people do this to me. After observing it for a while. I talked to him about it very seriously.

And he changed. It is recommended that you talk to him well, and if you still commit it, tell him honestly as soon as possible that you don't like him like this.

ps: In the future, when you encounter something that you are reluctant to, you must refuse it as soon as possible (you can express it euphemistically, or you can say it directly, according to the situation at the time, according to the intimacy with the other party). Start by not showing your attitude, wait until everyone gets used to it, and then say that you are dissatisfied.

Chances are, people will think you're throwing a tantrum on the other hand.

You can't always endure small things, and if you endure too much, it will explode one day.

I hope you take care of this soon.

Talking to boys about this.,I guess it's useless.,It's not good.,Later, he said that you're like a girl and wordy.。。。

I suggest that you either treat it as if you didn't hear what he said, he talked too much alone, and no one paid attention to him, and he naturally felt bored... Either you work harder on your mouth and learn from Wuhan boys, in that case, it will be humorous, but it won't hit him deeply, and you won't say anything more in the future...

The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change, if you want to change him, I advise you to give up.

The reason why you can be friends with him is because you both know each other, you already knew him before you became friends with him, you could bear it before, why can't you bear it now, you have to summarize the reason from yourself, friends have no afterlife, if you pay attention to him, tolerate him.

It doesn't matter what he says, the key is what he does, he can scold you in front of others without showing anything, because he may be able to beat others for you, don't care too much about the language, as long as you don't want to think too much, naturally you don't feel for those, after a long time, you can still find out what he really thinks in his heart, in fact, it's just that he is hiding his own heart.

Have you ever told him what you think of him?

Why don't you sit down and talk to him?

I also once broke up with a very good friend, but then we both expressed our thoughts in the form of letters, and finally reconciled! I don't want to lose a good friend, and I'm sure you too

With such friends, what you have to learn is patience!

There's no way, unless you can change him, but I think it's impossible, the country is easy to change, and the nature is hard to change!

Hehe, I hope you and your friends can reconcile like me and my friends!

Personally, I think that in our daily communication, whether it is with friends, colleagues, classmates, 、......Even the communication between parents, lovers, and husband and wife should be kept at a certain distance. However, depending on the relationship, the concept of distance cannot be defined in the same way. But be sure not to have close contact.

I can only talk to you so much, and it's useless to talk more. I hope you will read it a few more times. Let's take a good look at it.

The experience of others can only be used for reference, not applied.

You can talk to him, I don't think he wants to lose you as a friend, let him change it, if it is a true friend, he will never be separated for the rest of his life.

Try to adjust your mentality, don't blame others for all the faults, and if you really can't stand it, leave this so-called friend.

Learn from Zhang Sanfeng to overcome rigidity with softness.

There is also what the 9 Yang Zhenjing says (although they are all martial arts, but some are really useful) that he is strong and I am not strong.

Don't spend more time with him on the lips, he said you let him talk alone.

Slowly, he will find it boring, and he will be more embarrassed than you.

I think it's like a boyfriend and girlfriend! That way he loves you too much and he doesn't want to see you make mistakes. But you can't marry him, it will be tiring, or you have to forgive him everything.

It's the same sex, but it's different. That's a big deal, because he's going to rob you of everything.

He puts pressure on you, it's time to change yourself, independence is not the minimum ability of a person.

How can there be such a friend?

Or you put up with it yourself, because if you want to quarrel with her, after the quarrel, she will definitely change, but, I think the relationship between you will be very awkward, you should bear with it for the time being, when you usually get along with her, you often can't help but say her problem, after a long time, she will definitely change, the important thing is that you have to endure first, ha, then you should temporarily exercise your ability to endure! However, if you can't stand it, then you will quarrel, but this is a very bad way, because she just said it very casually, her habit is like this, and she doesn't mean to hurt you, ha, besides, if she is so good, if there is any trouble in the future, please ask her to help you too! (Give fifty points so much!)

Alas, I can't stand it! Or give it to others, my words are very nonsense)

It's better not to make such friends. Leave him alone. Slowly, you will understand some of the truth.

It is also because the current society is too low-level that there are people like him.

I may have been like your friend before. I don't have a good friend now.

No matter how much knowledge you know, you don't treat the world with the heart of a villain.

Arguing with people who don't understand, I'm not also garbage. So persuade him not to mess around.

I feel like I'm your friend, but if I talk about someone so carelessly, it's probably because the relationship is so good that it's the peak. I think if you tell him about it, he'll change it. If not. say bye

It is obvious that he has a purpose to influence you, so as not to surpass her in learning, and it is recommended to stay away from such people in the future.

You can't just learn and not relax, for example, if you are in the company in the future, you always do things silently, others have already done a good job of interpersonal relationships, and it is naturally easier to do things, so EQ and IQ should be developed, and your classmates should not be ordinary people who have nothing to do...

Ignore her. She's trying to hold you back. Let you immerse yourself in the joy of being an honor student and gradually neglect your studies.

Then you better stay away from her This kind of person is more selfish and will take advantage of others You still don't be so enthusiastic about her If she comes to borrow something from you in the future, you just say no and then set a password for your computer She beats you ** often doesn't answer She herself won't pester you after she feels that she can't get benefits from you This kind of person is an egoist.

Your question is very complicated, and I really don't know if she (he) is really talking about one person, or two people or three people. If you designate one (him), then whether you are a man or a woman, people are not secretly crushing on you. If you are of the same sex as him, then he is a scheming person, and if he is of the opposite sex, it is likely that he likes you.

Help you be a confidant.

Explain your point of view and attitude to him, let him know that he will lose you by doing this, what your position is, and if you still do this, it is not a pity to refuse to associate with him.

Well, for this kind of person, you change your mobile phone number, pretend to be missing for a few days, see if he is in a hurry, see if he has made new friends, and, do you want to make this friend? If you want to, it's best to ask before making a decision. Hope to adopt.

In the same way, I also have such friends, and I have been putting up with 、、、

Now that you know that he is that kind of person, you can guard against it, although sometimes you can't guard against it, but it's better than being at a loss. When he asked, it was okay to mix the virtual and the real in half, and many things can actually be solved in one sentence, that is, "I don't know", simple and effective, I hope it can help you. In fact, many times girls are more psychologically complex, think more, and are more selfish.

Go around him. Such a person must not offend him. You can ask for some reasons to help, but it must sound comfortable. I used to have a friend like this, and I didn't even provoke him for fear of retaliating against me.

It doesn't matter if you are an ordinary friend, you can't have many bosom friends, but it must be true! Take it for yourself!

You should think about it! Explain that this friend of yours is still okay! It's just that there is something wrong with the way he does things!

You have to learn to live with ......Or calm down and talk to her well, often true friends will tell the truth and be good to you!! Tell him about it! I wish you a lasting friendship!!

Next time, if you still buy something or something, you will politely refuse.

You should secretly break up with her.

Don't think so badly.

First, it may be that he does like to chew on the base of other people's tongues.

But it is not excluded that he trusts you to talk to you about this, people need to confide in the dissatisfaction and sadness they encounter, and they all need to find someone to spit out as soon as possible, he believes you, so he tells you about other people's bad things, and says his own bad luck, because he believes that you will not talk nonsense.

As for you, you are worried that he will talk about you behind his back, you have to believe your good friend!!

If you don't believe him like that, he will be very sad to know.

Also, you have to know: who doesn't talk about people behind their backs, who doesn't say anything behind their backs...

Some people are like this! Just let him read more books! Tell him not to speak ill of others behind their backs! Tell him you're my friend, and if you let other people know you're like this, you'll make others think you're villain! This friend is not bad!

It's never easier to change someone else than to change yourself. If he really becomes a habit like this, you might as well make yourself the only person he confides in, then he won't be like this in front of others. In a stressful society, complaining behind the scenes can also help reduce stress.

And you can go in the left ear and out the right ear and tolerate this shortcoming. Let's see if your best friend is worth it. Because I think it's really hard to get him to change ...

I also have such a friend.,When it is a trash can, I think it's okay not very difficult.,But let it change myself.。。。 It's hard to get to the sky...

It is certain that he is a very responsible person, but he is also a very bad person, and such things can only be changed by himself. Tell him not to say too many things, otherwise he will get into trouble, and he must also learn to restrain himself, change slowly, be more open-minded, and be good to himself and others.

A gentleman doesn't fight with a villain, you are a gentleman, he is a villain, just ignore him!

Bickering may be happy! Me and a friend of mine. Often together! He likes a woman, and I don't think that woman is worthy of him. I said that I slandered the woman, hehe. But seeing his sadness for that woman, I couldn't help but comfort him.

It's a strange conversation between you and you... You don't have to think about what you should do, don't you think it's good?!

A good talker must have someone who is willing to be her audience. In fact, being a good listener is at least you have her trust. And you can additionally choose your audience to be friends.

I think the first thing you need to do is talk to the classmate who dragged you into the water, so that he doesn't bother your life anymore, and it's better to have less time with him. Or tell the current boy the truth directly, you were just deceived, if he really loves you, he should be more protective of you.

As for that, it's really not good, just go to work, but for a high school student, parents shouldn't be supportive.

I think you should tell your parents to ask for their forgiveness and help, since it is very serious, you should be early, that is the happiness of your life!! Imagine, if you can hide it for a while, can you hide it for a lifetime? If you grew up unhappy, would your parents be happy?

That's what lasts!! Are you going to let your parents worry about you for the rest of your life? Now that it's solved, this will be a thing of the past, and if it drags on, you will not only live in fear every day, but also suffer physical torture, and small injuries will become big injuries, is this the result that your parents want to see?

Don't run away, if your parents know in the future that you didn't say that you delayed because you couldn't stand it, it will be even more heartbroken.

Hope you can get soon**.

That's .........

You might as well tell your current boyfriend the truth......

If he really trusts you enough......Love you enough and he should forgive ......After all, that's not your fault.

However, it cannot be ruled out that he does not trust you.

In fact, instead of fearing that the facts will be exposed every day, it is better to say it yourself.

It's better to say it yourself than your boyfriend to hear about it from someone else's mouth. Because, with the character of that friend of yours, it should add fuel to the fire.

When the time comes, you will not only be known by your boyfriend, but you will also be charged with "cheating" ......If, you say it bluntly......

There are several benefits:

1. Don't worry about the facts being exposed every day.

2. Don't be afraid of that person.

3. You may be forgiven by your boyfriend.

That's just my personal opinion.