Where is my pain, do you know how much my pain is?

Updated on healthy 2024-05-19
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life is not too complete, there is a lack of blessing to others is a very beautiful thing, in a society that pays attention to packaging, we often can't help but envy the glamorous and gorgeous appearance of others, and the lack of their own nostalgia, but as far as I have observed for many years, I found that no one's life is complete, everyone is somewhat missing something, some people are married to each other, hundreds of thousands of monthly income, but it is a serious infertility, some people are both talented and beautiful, capable and wealthy, but the road of love words is bumpy and difficult, some people have hundreds of millions of wealth, but their children and grandchildren are not filial, Some people seem to have a good life, but their heads are empty all their lives, everyone's life is marked by God, you don't want it, it follows like a shadow, I used to hate the lack in my life, but now I can accept it with ease, because I realize the lack of life, like a thorn in our back, always remind us to be humble, to know how to be compassionate, if there is no suffering, we will be proud, there is no vicissitudes, we will not comfort the unfortunate with empathy, I also believe that life should not be too complete, It's a beautiful thing to have a gap that allows blessings to flow to others, you don't need to have everything, if you have everything, then what do others eat? I also realize that every life is lacking, I will no longer make unnecessary comparisons with others, but can cherish everything I have, I still remember my aunt, an entrepreneur called Taiwan Ashin, told me before she escaped into the empty door in her seventies, "I don't know how many dignitaries I have met in this life, and their personal expressions are really enviable, but when I dig into it, everyone has a scripture that is difficult to read, and even miserable", so don't envy others how they are, and count the grace that God has given you, You will find that you definitely have a lot more than you don't have. And the missing part, although not lovely, but also a part of your life, accept it and treat it well, your life will be much happier and open-minded, if you are a mussel, are you willing to suffer a lifetime of pain and condense a pearl, or do you not want a pearl, would rather live comfortably?

    If you're a rat and you suddenly notice that you're in a rat trap and there's a fragrant cake in front of you, do you eat it or not? The early puff is full of pottery, once there is full of money, it will be broken by someone, there is such a puff full, there has been no money to invest, has been tiled to this day, it has achieved valuable antiques, what kind of puff do you want to do? Write down your answers every time you think about them, until one day your answers don't change, and that's when you're mature!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't take yourself too seriously, relax, the root of everything lies in your own mentality, and if you have a good mentality, nothing will be a problem.

    Life is like that, nothing is perfect at all.

    When I was a child, I thought that unhappiness was only short-lived, and it would be smooth sailing in the past, but when I grew up, I realized that in fact, unhappiness is the main thing in life, and smooth sailing is just a passing cloud.

    Go with the flow, try to live every day, don't deliberately pursue many things, slowly get used to it, and it's all right!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Everyone will have a lot of troubles Life itself is hard Many times don't always think about your failures or unsuccessful places, and after a few years, you may look back and find that it may be a very interesting thing to appreciate the flavors of life

    Love life and enjoy him! He will only love you if you love him! It's true!

    Find a way to vent when you're in a bad mood, smoke if you really can't do it, or get drunk with your brother!

    A lot of people's lives are dull, and no one has so many earth-shattering stories! Iraq is indeed in full swing every day, but we really can't stand it!

    When you start to love yourself and enjoy life, love may be close

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go to the outside world more, you will learn more about this society, 10 days of fantasy is not as good as an hour of practice, go out, believe in yourself, everyone will have a lot of opportunities or opportunities!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The guest asked Master Xiqian: How is liberation? He replied, "Who binds you?"

    Again: How is the Pure Land? Answer: Who is the dirt of you?

    Again: How is Nirvana? Answer: Who will live and die with you?

    It does not matter. Jiang Yuezhao. Pine wind.

    What do you do in the eternal night? This poem illustrates that life is born in a world as confused as the eternal night. Nor can we steal our lives.

    Choices should be cherished. The arrangement of fate was predestined. The choice between good and evil is all mine.

    I want to be a fanatical pillar of the world in this life. Ask who can stop between heaven and earth?!Life is like a dream.

    Born to be human. You should know that you must correct your mistakes. Don't give in.

    Good samaritan. Live up to the enthusiasm given by heaven and earth. Don't linger sentimentally.

    There's no need to back down.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After reading your problem, I really don't know what is bothering you Old decay I can only tell you that love will have bread There will be two plain sentences If you understand, you won't be troubled.

    Why don't you get bothered when you understand this sentence? Because you're anxious right now, or you don't have a clear purpose, in short, it's just vague and muddy, is that true? So, please think seriously about what I said above.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I wasn't happy -- there was one of the cartoons I watched when I was a kid called "Unhappy" -- and now I think I should be called "Everybody has everybody's pain, and if I traded my pain with you," you'd just run away.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hard work pays off!

    God's unfair fate, I'll handle it myself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't hope for someone I love.

    I know I'm willing to wait a little longer.

    I can't hurt someone who loves me.

    A moment of tenderness, he can't deceive people.

    I'm not a heartless person.

    but it hurts you the most.

    I can't bear it, I can't.

    Don't take it seriously. Forget my people.

    I can't do without the people I love.

    I know that love needs fate.

    I can't let go of the people who love me.

    Because understand how serious he is.

    Why the most true heart.

    You can't meet the best people.

    I don't ask, I can't.

    Embrace in your arms. Until he got cold.

    The people who love me have no regrets about me.

    But I grieve for the people I love all my life.

    The people who care are always wrong.

    Who doesn't have to be hypocritical to whom.

    Those who love me give everything to me.

    But my heart is broken by the ** tears I love.

    To love is to be loved as to be sinned.

    Why don't you know how to refuse the encirclement of infatuation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know, because I am like you and ordinary beings, but Amitabha Buddha knows that this Buddha is unfortunate and compassionate, and the pain in the body of sentient beings is like pain in his body. Therefore, this Buddha has a transcendent wish to benefit all ordinary beings.

    I have built a transcendent wish, and I will reach the supreme way, and my wish will not be satisfied, and my vow will not be realized.

    I have become a Buddha on the way, and my reputation is more than ten directions, whether I have heard of it or not, and I can't wait for enlightenment.

    I am immeasurably eon, not stupid as a great benefactor, to help the poor, and I will not be able to wait for enlightenment.

    Leave the desire to be deeply mindful, pure wisdom to practice Brahmanism, and seek supreme respect for the sake of the heavens and people.

    The divine power plays a great light, illuminates the boundless land, eliminates the three dirts and the underworld, and brightens the calamity of the people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Pain, sadness, loneliness, these negative emotions and happiness, happiness, joy, are actually on the same level. It's just a two-sided split.

    On the positive side, there is joy and happiness, and on the other hand, there is pain and sorrow.

    Perhaps this is still a failure to understand that everyone in the world is actually not divided into happiness and pain, just like an arrow, it is not long and short, and in order to prove that it is short, (and do not destroy the method) the only way is to take out an arrow longer than it and compare, and when the comparison, there is a difference between length and shortness, and happiness and pain are essentially the same as this arrow, but you have tasted the taste of joy and happiness, but once it passes away for a while, you can't get it. The bone-eating pain will come to you.

    Pain, in fact, is just the other side of happiness. , to mention a nonsense: pain and happiness are because on a horizontal plane, as long as you magnify the happiness, the pain will shrink because of it, and naturally those negative emotions will come less, and the magnification of pain is the opposite.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    People who love each other can't be together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Question: Because I am unhappy, there are many ways to go in life, and I dare not face it if I am unhappy and create a happy road, and I have been avoiding and being unhappy.

    I don't know, I don't think about anything sometimes. It's going to be painful.

    Question: I'm working, I'm almost 17 years old, and I've been out of society for three years, but the exact age is when I was a student.

    Ask why am I unhappy, because unhappiness means nothing to anything in the world.

    There is no goal in asking questions, but I know that life needs money, and I can't think about it, but my actions are always moving forward.

    AnswerOh, you need to change the way you look at the world and the way you look at things from a positive perspective. For example, when dealing with the problem that they don't have much money, negative people will think, what should I do, I can't buy a house, I can't marry a daughter-in-law, what's the rush these days? Positive people will think, not only can I support myself but also have small savings, I am too capable.

    I am also in good health, work hard, and I will definitely be able to buy a house and marry a daughter-in-law in the future.

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