What do you understand when you are 25 years old?

When you enter the society, you will find that relying on yourself is the best in the future, except for your parents, there will not be too many people to pay for you without asking for reciprocation.

Don't be embarrassed to say no, because many people who are embarrassed to be difficult for you are not good people. ‍‍

Society is never as simple as I imagined, I am still not mature enough, I may not know that my parents have begun to get old, and I should work very hard, and I really have reached the age when I should talk about marriage.

When you ask someone for help, if they don't readily agree, that's rejection, rejection in the adult world.

When interacting with friends, don't blindly ask for it, people are not your parents.

This society does not believe in tears and sympathy, only believe in yourself, and it is more or less profitable for others to help you. ‍‍

Ambition and ambition are two different concepts! And look at those who have big ambitions and are willing to work hard for their ideals, often want to do the little things in front of them well, because they know that success requires accumulation. ‍‍

If you don't have money, what do you rely on to maintain your social relationships, and do you rely on your mouth? Don't make a fuss, everyone is busy. ‍‍

What is the best way to improve your social status? I think only power and money will do. ‍‍

No one should be nice to you, no one in this world owes anyone, and doing your own thing is the most important thing. ‍‍

In the past, I only knew poetry and distance, but now I understand that more money and less things are close to home is the hard truth. ‍‍

Only when raising children can we know the kindness of our parents, and only when we have children can we understand the difficulties of being parents, and only then can we feel and understand. ‍‍

Do you know what there are a few truths that you must understand at the age of 25?

After the age of 25, if you are poor and not self-disciplined, then you basically don't even dare to go to class reunions, what should you do? Listen to it, first, always remember that there is food in hand, and there is no panic in your heart. No matter how much you are earned, you must save money to learn to invest.

Most importantly, stay away from the trap of consumerism. People who have the habit of saving money are all people who have plans for the future, and panic never appears in their eyes.

2. Don't dwell on what has already happened. Today's embarrassing situation is likely to be the sum of the bad decisions made in the past few years, but from today onwards, it will be dead, and falling into remorse will only make you more unwilling, and it is best to start learning from the lessons learned and avoid it later.

3. Face each day in a different state. When we first graduated, we always felt that there was enough time, paddling and fishing, and getting by was the living state of most people, but this state was very addictive and slowly destroyed your precious youth. Starting today, please remember that your time is running out, and face every day with an enterprising and vigilant attitude.

20 to 30 years old, not ten years, is a car, a house, a circle, is the best time to change the layer, so ah, you have to stand up.

4. Be financially independent and learn to manage money. Having a job you like and having the ability to make money is, in many cases, a kind of confidence, because it means that when you make some choices, you can think more about whether you like it than whether it is worth it. Only financial independence can keep yourself from falling into trouble, and you don't have to lose any self-esteem because of money, nor will you be wronged because of money, and you won't live a very comfortable life.

5. Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. What you like may not be liked by others, don't take what you think is right, so that others will have the same opinion as you. Your view of things is only your own.

Don't force others to accept what you don't like, and the joys, sorrows, and sorrows you perceive have nothing to do with other people. Don't let everyone understand you, because there is no such thing as empathy in this world.

You must learn to love yourself, you must know how to dress up, you must work hard, you must work hard to make money, you must not rely on others, do not rely on men.

No matter what you do, you must ask yourself what you really want, learn to distinguish between the truth and the falsehood of things, learn to think independently and judge some problems, and don't think that everyone is a good person.

I know, at all times you have to be clear about what you want, at all times you have to know what kind of people you are with, the world is true and false, you have to have independent judgment and thinking ability, strive to improve your emotional intelligence, and be better when you get along with others.

In more than 20 days, the first batch of post-90s generations will enter the 30-year-old mark.

Among them, some people get married and have children, and live an auspicious life of two points and one line.

Some people, who are still single, think it's good to be alone. Stupid Duan occasionally wants to have a companion, but fate doesn't come for a long time.

Once you are over 25 years old, it means that you are ready to grow up. The pressure on your shoulders, the responsibilities on your body, slowly you will find more and more.

When people are over 25 years old, they should understand the following truths:

1. Know how to control your emotions.

Society is progressing, and it is constantly growing.

The world of every adult is full of difficulties, and they will encounter troubles and difficulties.

Troubles make people irritable, and difficulties make people confused.

And then we are constantly manipulated by emotions.

If you feel uncomfortable, you might as well read a book quietly.

If you feel lost, you might as well let go of all your thoughts and go to a hot sweat seriously.

When our minds are calm, we find that many things are not so important.

Because, the most important thing is to be happy!

2. Understanding the body is the capital of the revolution.

We don't need to say more about the importance of health! With a sullen reputation.

Now in society, a large part of the post-90s generation has begun to advance"Fortune"。

I always feel as if I've just turned 18, and when I think about it, it's been many years since I turned 18.

If you can go to bed early, try not to stay up late, and if you can drink hot water, try not to drink cold water.

The world is so big, everyone is busy with their own things, so let's love ourselves more.

3. Love life with your heart.

The beauty of life is not just about kings and eating chicken.

The beauty of life is not just Douyin and Kuaishou.

When you're not working, take a walk outside, breathe in the fresh air, and feel the nature with your heart.

We are all constantly speeding up the pace of our journey with the rhythm of society.

When you are tired and tired, then stop and feel what your heart needs!

We may need a little peace in the bustle, maybe we need a long night of conversation with friends in the loneliness, maybe we need a trip after work.

Life is so beautiful, we need to feel it with our hearts.

Some things don't mean that 25 is what they are, and Dan Xun should learn and think about them all his life. The world is very big, and as the Buddhist scriptures say, you can't know everything, and you can't know everything, and you can't hear or see everything. People should continue to increase Chi Qing's knowledge. and wisdom, just follow the fate.