What do you want to be like when you die?

I hope that my children and grandchildren will be around me and encourage me to be strong and brave to live, and then I feel very happy.

Surrounded by children and grandchildren, my loved ones held my hand and accompanied me through the last days of my life.

It's peaceful, and I don't want anyone around, so I'll be sad.

Alone, a small boat, a piece of uninhabited sea in the middle of the Pacific Ocean, empty, calm, silent, smoked the last cigar in one of the most comfortable chairs, opened the safety of the grenade, and a few seconds later, his head was blown to pieces in an instant, and half an hour later, the time bomb installed on the ship** Everything disappeared cleanly. ‍‍

All my life, I longed for freedom but couldn't, so I hope that when I die, I can fly away freely in an empty and quiet place. ‍‍

The easiest thing is to cross the street and be hit by a speeding car, in that case, it is an accident that no one can avoid! ‍‍

I once fantasized about tying my hands and then tying an iron ball around my waist and jumping into the river. I also fantasized about how it hurts to die of picking up sweat hairs one by one. ‍‍

It was late autumn, and the leaves outside the window were falling one by one, and I counted the leaves, slowly lost consciousness, closed my eyes, and died.

I sometimes fantasize about my suicide, slitting my wrist and the blood slowly flowing out, and the more I think about it, the more excited I become. ‍‍

My family was all around, telling stories about my past, and I listened to their voices, then closed my eyes and swallowed.

The thought of death brings me first relaxation, then fear, and finally the reluctance of the person I love.

I was quarantined in the hotel for 14 days in order to go to work, and the long-distance bus station is downstairs, and the city viaduct is not far away. The square in front of the station is bustling with people, large trucks, small cars, and battery cars flow endlessly under the traffic lights.

I was very repulsed in my heart for a day or two at the beginning of quarantine, all the food, drink and daily necessities were delivered to the door of the room regularly, and the farthest distance I walked was from the window to the door to pick up the meal, house arrest? Squatting in the shift room?

There are so many wonderful outside, although the crowd is busy, but you can move around freely, go to the place you want to go, and see your favorite scenery. Income may be tight, but you can buy your favorite food, fruits, and clothes.

And just like that, the days of quarantine began ......

Playing with mobile phones day and night, watching TV, there will always be a meal at the door when the order arrives, wifi is fast, there is hot water to take a bath at any time, and a cup of hot water is held to watch the crowd outside the window.

Outside the window, there are still those busy figures, hurrying, big bags and small wraps, and occasionally there is a downpour, like a whip urging people who are already running, faster, faster.

And I can quietly watch all this, a window apart, leather chairs and sofas, holding fragrant tea, these have nothing to do with me, there is no oil, salt, sauce and vinegar at home and baby noise, there is no tiredness and running around when I go out, I am tired of watching, the curtains are drawn, everything has nothing to do with me.

I felt more secure than ever.

However, I know that there is a time limit for all this, and the time is 14 days. For a moment, I wish time had stopped, and I wouldn't have to face the competition and exhaustion of life outside the window.

Some people always say that there is a moment when they always hope that they will die so suddenly, that everything will end, that all the struggles, all the pain, all the efforts that have to be made, all the requests that cannot be found, are no longer important, and the fleeting fantasy of death actually brings them an extremely relaxed sense of security, death, a hundred sense of security.

I know it's an escape, it's a way to let myself go, knowing at any time that this will most likely not happen.

I want to stay in this "safe house", and the competition outside the window never stops for even a minute, and I live in my own world.

Thoughts, how could it not have been.

We always stay in our own mindset, wanting to change but refusing to change, for the sake of this rare sense of security.

If someone wants to die, it means that he has encountered some difficulties that he cannot solve and wants to die. Escaping such difficulties, in fact, I don't think there is any difficulty that can stump me, only if I solve the problem by myself, then I will definitely see the light. Dead, nothing.

This kind of person must be particularly depressed, and he does not fantasize about the beauty of the world, and it is recommended to go out for a walk and live well.

It is a mental illness, misanthropy.

Why do anyone specifically want to die? Such a person must have taken a very big blow in his life.

A classmate who didn't know if he was joking or not, just said that I want you to die or something, and I didn't understand what kind of mentality this kind of person was, and he was scared and angry.

The reason why a person wants to be completely because he has lost faith in life, so in this case, he wants to die and say goodbye to this trouble.

I especially hope that I will die in an accident, such a psychology is unhealthy.

In a sense, it is also an irresponsible, evasive idea. From the perspective of the family, it will cause great pain to the family and drag down the family. The cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behaviorIt is likely to be a long-term emotional depressionCaused by psychological stress, there are delusional manifestations.

It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude of blind burial and self-regulation and inhibition.

It is recommended to go to the hospital for examination and go to the psychiatric department for adjustment. Encountering setbacks is not terrible, and temporary setbacks should not be the cause of depression, but should be the starting point for continuing to struggle. Avoiding setbacks cannot solve the problem, not afraid of setbacks, brave to face, so that they can gradually grow up, bravely face setbacks, in order to achieve success.

Open your heart and create value

The very nature of life is a constant process of change, growth, decay and death. The purpose of life is to learn, and we must first learn how to face death calmly, so that we can better learn how to survive. Everything that happens to us helps us learn.

As long as we open our hearts and accept the natural law of life and death, we will be able to cherish our own lives and the lives of others, actively create, make our lives more meaningful, and enjoy a happy and joyful life.

There will be the idea of making a will in advance, and I very much hope that the whole society will comprehensively, correctly, reasonably and scientifically carry out life education, life and death concept publicity, and also carry out life education-related courses in schools, so as to let people establish a correct outlook on life and death, revere life more, cherish life more, and no longer easily give up their own lives or easily hurt the lives of others. In our traditional culture, there are two things that have always been considered taboo by our elders, and that is sex and death, so we have received very, very little education in these two areas. Everyone is just an ordinary person, they all have birth, old age, sickness and death, joy, anger and sorrow, greed and hatred, birth, old age, sickness and death are natural laws, as long as they are ordinary people, they can't escape, so there is nothing to taboo.

Death is not terrible, it is a process that life must go through to be honored, because there is a limit to the end, the process will be worthy of enjoyment and remembrance, every moment of life, every sunshine, every drop of rain, every person you meet, every scenery you have met, will become precious. Life is long or short, there will be an end to it, what we need to do is to be an ordinary person before death comes, to be happy and hard when we are alive, and to be calm and relieved when we die. Many things in life are not brought by life and not brought by death, but the breeze on the river, the bright moon in the mountains, the true feelings of the world, and the ideals in the heart are the most precious.

People can't escape birth, old age, sickness and death, only accept them calmly, put them in their hearts and continue to move forward, a person is forgotten is the eternal departure, they will always live in my heart, those departed relatives and friends, we need to put them in our hearts, and then continue to move forward according to our own life path. Everyone has only one life, so we need to respect, cherish and treat our own life well, as well as the lives of others, and do not easily do things that hurt ourselves or others. Only by understanding and accepting death can we better understand the meaning of life, cherish our lives more, and cherish everything in the present.

Summary. Dear, hello, I am very happy to serve you, I especially hope that I die, this is because you may be more stressed about this life now, you feel that life brings you only pain, but I hope you don't think like this, don't think that you are going to die, because you may be more painful after you die, you have to think about what you can do when you are still alive, what kind of attitude you have to fight back against the pain that life brings you, you have to become better, stronger to live in this world.

Dear, hello, I am very happy to serve you, I especially hope that I die, this is because you may be more stressed about this life now, you feel that life brings you only pain, but I hope you don't think like this, don't think that you are going to die, because you may be more painful after you die, you have to think about what you can do when you are still alive, what kind of attitude you have to fight back against the pain that life brings you, you have to become better, stronger to live in this world.

Hope mine can help you.

Before dying, people most want to see their deceased or living family members, and they want to see their future selves, but at that time they no longer have the ability to speak.

Every time we see a loved one pass away, we are curious about what they saw before they died, and even what they wanted to see; In fact, everyone wants to see different things before they die, after all, different people will have different expectations.

1. Dying people want to see all their relatives, so much so that many people say that dying people will see "deceased relatives pick up themselves" When a person is really close to death, in fact, what he is most looking forward to is to see all his relatives, after all, there is only one life.

Due to the high expectations of relatives, it has been said in ancient times that "before death, you will see your deceased relatives pick you up"; From a scientific point of view, there is no such phenomenon, but it cannot be ruled out that it is a situation where people are overly expected to see their loved ones, and they "fantasize" about their deceased relatives to pick them up in a dying state. I feel that the human soul cannot always exist, and those deceased relatives may have already passed away, and will not reappear after the death of each relative.

Second, the most important thing that dying people want to see is their future self, everyone hopes that they can live longer, see longer, for the things that dying people want to see, I believe that many people are more looking forward to seeing their own future.

The dying person is actually unwilling in his heart, maybe the body function has declined, but the consciousness still exists; They may know that they don't have many days to exist, but their hearts are indeed full of expectations for the future, and what they want to see most is of course the good days they live. When we visit people who are dying in the hospital, please remember not to show their uncomfortable expressions, after all, although they cannot move, their brains are still conscious, and they are waiting to see their loved ones actually leave.

Everyone who is dying expects and sees different things, but it is indeed their loved ones who are most concerned about them.

What people want to see most when they are temporary is that their children and grandchildren can live a happy life and be happy every day.

It must be the most hope to see everyone by your side, let yourself take a last look, and your own heart can be resolved, and what I hope most is to see family harmony.

I feel that people want to see their loved ones before they die, so that they can look at their eyes and fulfill their wishes.

If a person is single before he dies, he hopes that his parents will not feel sorry for him, if he is an old man, he hopes that his children can be united between brothers and sisters, and he hopes that his children will be successful without any burden.

I think the most important thing is to achieve my final goal, and I want to see my family safe and healthy, and then I want to be reunited with them again.

I think that before dying, people want to see the people they love the most, because they want the people they love to live well.

What people want to see most before they die is that their relatives are by their side and send them on their last journey.