Two men, which one to choose? Or neither?

Updated on parenting 2024-05-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's a contradiction, isn't it, but in fact, choose the one you really like. Many people become more practical because they think about the problem of getting by. Do you think you have any requirements for the other person's family conditions?

    If you don't particularly care about family conditions, then as long as you can get by, it's generally fine. Height, the man does have an advantage in growing tall (5555555555 mentioned my sadness), but the two of yours are actually about the same, just 3cm, not obvious, and 173 is not short at all, right? As for whether you want to be handsome, it's up to you, do you think your requirements for appearance are so high.

    As for the work, it seems that they are almost the same, one is a good work unit and has a future, and the other is a good development space, but the unit is well treated (why do you always feel that they are tied when you crack out of the conditions, one or the other, hehe). I don't think the above is a problem, and personality is the most important thing, two people have to get along together, right, if they are together, they often quarrel or are unhappy, then it will be meaningless. It seems that you are happier with player No. 1, but an introvert like No. 2 is more delicate and considerate, but maybe his heart is not completely open to you now, and if he is open, he will still have a good chat with you, such as sullen type.

    So this question can only be decided by yourself. In addition, I don't think the person who asked you this kind of question is not right, are you choosing your other half, and not choosing a commodity, giving product parameters to compare? ? The practical choice of your sincerity is true, which one do you love?

    Or don't you love it? If you don't love, you can be together? Just to get by?

    I don't understand.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Once there is a choice, there will be pain and trouble.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I choose the first one, what's wrong with the money in the family, isn't the first one very capable, and isn't there a lot of room for development? Don't worry about this, the people who will live in the future will bring you happiness, not just to satisfy your material life! If two people don't even have a common language together, what's the use of just having clothes and food?

    Will you be happy? Think about it! ~~

    Height is not a problem, I'm about the same height as my boyfriend, and the boy is over 1.7 meters, hehe

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you're an introvert, pick the first, and if you're an extrovert, pick the second.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Both of them, unless you reach the age when you are about to get married, don't rush, observe slowly!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love and bread cannot coexist, love is illusory! Bread is the reality. Today's girls should be realistic.

    Because the days after marriage are real. It's all about firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar. Before marriage is love!

    After getting married, it's bread! I think you know which one to choose!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The second one is reliable, the first one you have to be attractive enough, and you will encounter more problems in the future, don't believe it, let's see. But to be honest, I'm a little similar to you in that I also like a person like the first one, and the second one doesn't like it, it's not that much love, alas, what to do. I'm not the kind of person who is looking for a husband and then a lover, if you just start dating, it's easier to do it, the first to be a friend, the second to be a husband, don't be like me, trapped in love and can't leave.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's hard for someone else to decide this question.

    The most important thing depends on which one you have feelings for.

    Don't hesitate to believe in your first feelings.

    Don't regret your choice.

    I'm not bad, but my boyfriend is the worst of all my suitors.

    Not necessarily the external conditions are good, the most important thing is how he treats you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Give No. 2 a chance Humor cells and character can be cultivated!

    No matter how much he is given height enhancement pills, No. 1 will not grow taller!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    One is realistic. The second is that his family is rich, but that doesn't mean it's going to be like that forever, and if he doesn't have any skills, he doesn't have to spend it all

    The first one, although the situation of his family is not the same, but he himself has the ability to make money

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No matter what you look like, follow your own heart

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can't have both fish and bear's paws, learn to give up, otherwise you will only be more blind It is recommended that you choose the No. 2 player haha.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Pick the first one

    Men have to be capable. As long as you have the ability, you can't starve to death, and you can earn money. You also have to believe that you can make a lot of money.

    So that you have the ability, and he is also capable. What are you afraid of, height is important. But that's secondary, isn't it? It's okay to be taller than you.

    There are no perfect people in the world.

    I'm rooting for One.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Pure love does not consider family conditions, although family conditions are very important to many people, but I always feel that adding this chip to love will deteriorate.

    There's nothing wrong with being introverted, at least most of these people are very sincere, they don't use rhetoric to make people happy, and their care is always silent and meticulous.

    Who you choose depends on who you like, and who you are happier with and more unrestrained is the most important thing.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Do you choose a boyfriend or money?

    Is the family no advantage also taken into account?

    Then you'd better choose the second one, maybe in the future, even if the relationship doesn't get along, the family environment will support the marriage to go on, and the first one will not have this advantage.

    Look at the two men you wrote about are both appearances and family backgrounds, who is good to you, and who do you prefer can't tell the difference?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You want to talk to people, what's wrong with low height, the most important thing is that people are good, the first one is good, you have said that he has something to say with you, which will at least make you happy, now having a common language is the most important! What can you do if the second one is handsome, and you can't eat it as a meal, and you have to worry about your handsome husband in the future! It's troublesome.

    So pick the first one!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    How can the pursuit of extreme be the second?

    Be what you like!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    After all, you've only just graduated from ......What are your visions for the future???

    If you have a pursuit or a vision, it is recommended that you do not take on the ...... of husband and child too earlyAfter all, a divorced man and a child, dating with you is for the purpose of family integrity, once you have a relationship with him, it is to assume the obligation of husband and children, it is recommended to think more!

    In addition, if you are still in school, if you have graduated and are about to enter the social environment, and the other party is still in the school, it is likely to affect your life plan!!

    To sum up, it is recommended that you do not choose between the two, or pursue your own vision first, work hard, and don't be burdened by emotions or family!

    In a person's life, he still has to have his own pursuit or vision, and work hard for it ......Such a life will be the greatest "wealth" ...... your lifeAs for emotions or family, in the process of struggle, and then grasp, maybe there is a better or more ideal man waiting for you to find!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Neither of them is suitable for you, the student is younger than you and doesn't know what he wants, saying that he likes you may be impulsive, and a divorced man is not suitable for you, he has children, as the saying goes, it is difficult to be a good stepmother, he has the ability to satisfy you with material, and you will regret it together.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    People who come here want to say, who is good to you, choose whom. Think about some of the small details that you usually have.

    If they are all about the same, choose the economic good. If you already have children, you will not be able to suffer less sin.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you have to choose one, of course the first one is better, but you don't seem to like them at all, don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, find what you really like and make you happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you have to choose one, you choose which.

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