Why do I always break up with me after letting guys understand what love is?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
43 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Breakups are very common and many factors lead to things. Perhaps, "It's as if I taught them what love is, and they turn around to love others with what I have taught." "It's not a reason, it's a statement that you always fail in love and can't find a reason.

    Try to find your own reasons, maybe it's not that you teach them, but that the love in your eyes is different from what they see, so they go to find someone who understands them, and in the same way, you go to find a boy who understands you and has a common point of view.

    I hope it can help you, and may you find happiness soon.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you don't love enough, it's just two words [not enough]. If it's true love, how can you be willing to lose you, if it's true love, how can you turn back to be with others, it's just that love is not enough, it's good to get together and disperse, and it's not a man's patent to be able to afford to let go, women also have to know how to bear and let go, and good men are still behind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    These kinds of boys are not sincere, they think that you have a lot of emotional experience, so they come to teach them, this kind of thing does not need to be taken to heart, the big deal is to do better, and then find another one to love him well Don't let him have a chance to leave you, come on

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Two people have been together for a long time, and their respective shortcomings are exposed, so sometimes the other party knows that the original confidant is not what the confidant wants, and another reason is that two people feel very tired together, and they choose to give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe it's because of your personality that they think you're a good friend.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How do I think we seem to be, mainly because we didn't meet the right person.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Maybe she really doesn't love anymore, it just makes you feel like she still loves you. Also, after he weighed the pros and cons, you are not worth it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    A boy loves you and wants to break up with you, maybe he has difficulties, such as poor family conditions, or parents who do not agree, and he has physical problems, etc., because of love, so he will let go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe there is a reason to last resort, or it is the opposition of the family, it is possible. It depends on the two of you to communicate well to understand why he broke up with you, and if a person really loves you and is responsible, he will not run away from this.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It may be that the personalities are incompatible, as well as family and background problems, which lead to not being favored by both parents, so that they break up, which is heartache and sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because he feels that when he can't see the future of his relationship, he will choose to separate, and the long pain is better than the short pain, and the boys are more rational, and they will make a better decision. will not be blindly together, what he cares about is the future of the two people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's because he has low self-esteem, he thinks that girls will be wronged if they follow her, he hates himself for having no money, and can't give her better living conditions, in fact, this kind of boy is very pathetic, it's better to fight once than to give up, it should be a breakup between a boy and a girl, right, a boy lets you listen to the breakup happy This is not the point. The focus is on the later one.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that if a guy loves you very much, he will not break up with you, and if he breaks up with you and says he loves you, then he is definitely lying to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Guys who love you won't break up with you, so breaking up with you won't love you, except in individual cases. Very few though.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I must have someone I like, so I will break up with you, but I also feel that I have no common language or common topic with you, so I want to break up with you

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because he is not sure whether you really love him, he is afraid that he will fall into it, but you don't like him, which will make him more sad, which is called timely stop loss.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    To love you is to fulfill you. There are many reasons to break up, and there is always a reason to fit. Love and marriage are two different things.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because he has a last resort, breaking up with you is for your own good, so he will break up with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are many possible reasons, it may be that you cannot meet your family's bride price requirements, it may be that you love others more than you love, it may be that you have deep inferiority complex, and you feel unworthy of you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A guy who breaks up with you just doesn't love you anymore.

    It's really silly to believe that I still love you at this time.

    How can someone who loves choose to break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Breaking up is not love, how can you break up if you love, don't believe the words that boys want to break up.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think if a guy loves you, why should he break up with you? There will definitely be many reasons, such as asking for too many conditions, or the reason why you feel too inferior to be worthy of you, right?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    When a man says he broke up, it wasn't necessarily because he was tired.

    But when a man is tired of love, he will say break up sooner or later.

    The word "tired" originally meant "accumulation", and later extended to "tired" to represent fatigue.

    One word, in fact, can vividly describe the biggest problem in intimate relationships.

    If there are more contradictions, you will be tired.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because your parents found him and gave him a check to leave you, and he was seriously ill and didn't want to drag you down.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The decoration you described, in fact, everything is normal, the phenomenon, the pressure on the society, there are more than 1,000 for all, so. I don't know the extent of them and break up with you like this, but it's useless for us, but. The question of how much money we need is also a problem.

    In the past few years, there has been pressure to start an industry, but they can't help it, thank you for your question. You order!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, don't take the initiative to find him, it means that he doesn't love you, be strong after a breakup, don't cry, there are still good men! If you are unemployed, you can't just find another job. Don't be sad like this.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    In real life, love and marriage should be two different things, so he wants to break up with you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you fall in love with someone at the wrong time and in the wrong place, even if you meet the right person, you may not be able to get together in the end.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    In this case, there is only prestige, no love, that is, there is no sincerity that is not reluctant, only the joy of male and female love.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It is said on the Internet that except for death, all leaving is not enough love, and I have never been in love, next!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Men still love you very much, will say some comforting words, will also prepare some small gifts for you, often look through your circle of friends to show that this man still loves you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Will take the initiative to care about themselves, take the initiative to take care of themselves, no matter what they encounter, the other party will help, saying that they don't care is a trivial matter, in fact, they will spend a lot of time and effort to complete.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I care about myself very much, no matter what I encounter, the other party will help, and I will find a way to help me solve it, I will inquire about myself through my colleagues or friends, and I will also silently pay attention to my circle of friends.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Maybe because of family reasons, although the two of you are very affectionate, they are not suitable for being together.

    Secondly, it may be because of some external reasons, and it may be because although he says that he loves you, he is also very afraid of facing the future life, so he will break up with you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have a very irritable personality and will quarrel with your boyfriend over some small things. You can't share the ups and downs with your boyfriend, your parents don't agree, your boyfriend is very poor, and he can't give you the life you want, so he will choose to break up.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I don't think there is any factor, because since two people can break up, it can mean that these two people are very inappropriate, because there is no need to force the relationship at all, only if both parties like each other very much, then they can really be together. So we must look at it rationally and never be so narcissistic.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    When the two people have no results, although the man still loves him, he still chooses to break up. Because this is my own experience. I met a well-mannered boyfriend, and it also had to match my personal taste.

    However, since he didn't have much expectation of love, he couldn't see the result and finally let go.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This person still loves himself, but he still breaks up with himself Because of many reasons, sometimes the other party wants to enter the palace of marriage earlier, but he feels that his career is not completed, and he does not want to get married Sometimes, it is because he has no way to accept his family There are many reasons that can cause a breakup, and there is no way to change it.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Maybe he doesn't believe in his ability to make you happy. He doesn't really think he has what it takes to make you happy. In order to make you happy, he may give up on you.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It may be that love is tired, or that you brought it up. Then he thinks that giving up will make you happier, so that he will still love, and break up.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Generally, it is family factors, family members do not allow it, and there are economic factors and personal special factors.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There is a possibility that you love him as a person, but when you think of reality, such as practical problems, you love him very much, he can't give you a house, a car, a high-quality life, and you can't become a person who is suitable for you or worthy of you in everyone's eyes, even if you love him very much, it is difficult to go on, and there is little hope of persevering. Of course, this reason is not excluded, that is, due to objective factors, such as being in a different place, there is no way to endure not being together for a long time, you love someone very much, and you will want to share your life with him, but if you lack long-term companionship, it can only become spiritual love. For example, countless quarrels and disappointments.

    Or maybe it's the girl's actions and vexatiousness (I've experienced it) that make the other party too tired to let go.

    You should find the existence of the problem yourself. Instead of suspecting that the other party is not in love! The two sides know better than anyone whether they love each other or not.

    Both people feel that they love each other very much, but the reality is that they can't give each other the life they yearn for and want, and they feel that loving each other is to let each other live the life they want, so they choose to break up and hope that each other is happy! And this possibility makes me feel very regretful, and even makes me feel that "hate iron does not make steel", if two people really love each other, they must love each other together; If one party gives up love, it will fulfill the so-called happiness of the other party, it can be so simple, then two people are bound to not love enough!

    Loving someone is not necessarily happy, sometimes it will be very painful, she loves you very much, maybe you have some shortcomings that he can't bear, once or twice he may deal with the problem emotionally, whether it will be the best choice to be together, until the end can bear it anymore will be painful to cut love. Breaking up doesn't mean not in love, so choosing to break up is to love each other better, there is a saying called "If you're okay, I'm a sunny day" This sentence is really good. Feelings can make people lose their way.

    You have to be in a relationship, some because of love all the breakups, and some are uncomfortable.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    1. After breaking up and separating, I understood and realized that we really love and care about our ex, and our ex loves us very much. I found that we couldn't forget, and we couldn't let go, and we couldn't find anyone better than our ex.

    He is the best MV + likes to love us + makes us better ourselves.

    2. After breaking up and separating, completely losing him and her, and completely breaking the love relationship, I found out how good he and she were, and my value was lower than that of the other party, but how good the other party was to me, I knew that I was in the blessing and did not know the blessing in this relationship.

    3. After breaking up and separating, I understand and know that we don't love our ex, and our ex doesn't love us anymore.

    We can already let go, come out, forget about our ex, and find a better quality partner, the ex is a low-value low-MV + doesn't like to care and doesn't love us + makes us worse and worse in life, work and state. After really breaking up and separating, I realized how good I was, how valuable I was higher than him, and how good I was to my ex but my ex was very bad to us. This is a very unstable, insecure and unhappy relationship, in fact, it should have stopped the loss in time and separated and broken up early.

    The previous situation may be regretted, but in fact, both men and women have a contrasting psychology. We always hope to be able to successfully choose the best among the limited choices, whether it is a person or a thing, most of the "good" is obtained through comparison, whether it will be regretted only you know.

    Will you regret separating from someone who is really good If you regret breaking up, should you turn back.

    I regret breaking up and whether I should go back.

    Everyone's needs for emotions are different from those for their other half, so it is difficult to have a standard to define what kind of feelings are worth redeeming and what feelings are not worth saving. When you ask if you regret the breakup and should make it back, your core concern is not whether I should save it, but how I should save it, and whether it will be a shame to save it.

    For someone to win back, it's like reloading a file from a failure in a video game, you need to start all over again, this time you learn from your last failure, know which mistakes to avoid, and how to take each step. However, unlike video games, the content and difficulty of the game do not change, and you will have to deal with a new TA when you redeem it.

    Therefore, if you want to successfully recover, what you need is a complete and detailed summary and review of your failure in the last relationship, and you need to have a very valuable ability to summarize and learn, if you can't learn from the experience and lessons of failure in the previous relationship, you can't recover.

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