I don t want to hurt two men, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-04-26
66 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You have to choose the time. It is necessary to put aside all the external conditions and so on. So as to see which of the two of them is really right

    And this mind is both present and future. It is to treat you now and in the future, and to be as good to you as you are now, and only better. Noisy.

    Such as just arguing. Which is naturally good. But if there is a quarrel.

    If the other party doesn't care about your feelings in the future. What should you be? At the same time, it is a flat talk.

    That's the reality. Because it is realistic to talk about people's lives. So you should be realistic in your choice.

    It also depends on who you really like in your heart. Because you're not just thinking about now. Women should learn to think about their future.

    If there is someone who will always be good to you now and in the future, it means that you know this person better and like this person at the same time, and you will naturally have more. So it's not about your choice. It's up to you to decide.

    Your heart's decision. But remember that if you choose, don't think that you will regret it in the future, you won't be able to think about it, and so on. So as long as you follow your heart, there will be no regrets.

    Hope it helps.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, I used to be very similar to you, I also experienced these problems of yours, when I was dating my boyfriend, the family was also very opposed, we went together, and then lived together, I don't know what misunderstanding you had, but I think our misunderstanding is similar, I can only tell you that the past is let it pass, even if you reconcile, you can't go back to the original color, if you think you still love your ex-boyfriend, then let this love be hidden deep in your heart, but now this boy, It's a good thing that you're very plain together, it proves that he is not a hypocritical person, but a realistic person, don't deceive, the object of your marriage, do you want to find a bland or flowery intestines, I can only say so much, think about it yourself, don't be confused by the illusion in front of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This requires you to look for and weigh the different strengths and weaknesses of two people with more eyes, and make careful and correct judgments, so that you can choose the most suitable one for you from the two. The authorities are obsessed with bystanders, only you can really know which one is your favorite, abandon the inferior and choose the best, cut through the mess quickly, don't break the thread and make your right choice as soon as possible.

    I hope mine can help you, may you have a happy life, and your heart will be successful!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hang them for the time being, tell them not to look for you first, and see after a while which one of them you feel love for?!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't step on two boats, you're going to hurt two people at the same time. You can't have both, you have to choose one, and if you go on like this, you'll have nothing. Make a decision and ask your heart who it really likes.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The best thing to do is not to love the two, so that neither of them will be hurt.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think emotional matters are up to you, although both of you are good to you, but you can only have one, you can try the two of you secretly, you should know who to choose.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whoever your heart is set on, choose the other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Face both ways... Whichever one is biased, the other spare tire.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's break up with my ex-boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's better to really change it for you, and it can be very real.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, you have the answer yourself

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Actually, now men's attitudes are tired of playing and leaving.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hmmm......You can try to make them hurt.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You have two hearts and whoever gives advice is redundant! I feel like a beautiful girl.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then give them a chance to compete, and see who goes to the final point will be the winner of the beauty, because there will always be one who will quit early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You choose a year old to really love you, about the other you will recognize him as a brother, the best of both worlds, and give one if you are satisfied.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Say you don't want to be in a relationship just yet.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The best way you can tell two men about each other's existence is to let them know that there is another man who is also good to you, to see who leaves, to see who has a big belly.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Find a peaceful place and close your eyes. Use your own heart to touch Party A and Party B. It depends on which one you love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't want both, come and be my girlfriend, I'll fulfill you!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Do you think people just want to be really good to you? You take yourself too seriously. Men know men best.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Careful observation, there is always one that matches you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you like them, then you can keep them, and if you don't like them, then you should be honest with them, and don't let them fall deeper and deeper.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Time can precipitate true feelings, sooner or later there will be one who leaves, and the one left behind is your dish (

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Give both to him, and both to him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Both are separated, and they are looking for it again.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You're not an angel, so let it go when it's time to let it go.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's good to be able to live! Materialistic society!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Just pick the second one, because if you really love the first, you won't love the second!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You love that person the most, the one you think he loves you the most, you choose whoever you want, there will always be someone who gets hurt, and the sooner it hurts, you know.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's you who is talking about stepping on two boats, one is a husband and the other is a confidant.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you don't choose both, in fact, it is a harm to both people, if you don't love both, then learn to refuse both, because the more such things are delayed, they are harmful to others and yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    In our lifetime, we will meet the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love; Because you understand what it feels like to be loved, you can discover the people who love you the most; When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I am a man, from my starting point, since you love two men at the same time, it is better to let the two men and yourself, the three of them meet separately, talk to each other, you really fall in love with one person, and the other person can let go, I am speaking from the heart, in fact, it is up to the woman to decide.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Ask your own heart, who you really love, the entanglement of feelings, if you don't make it clear, sooner or later all three will be hurt. If you love, you will strive for your true love, and if you don't love, you will make it clear, so as not to hurt each other and cause a lot of chain reactions.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    You can choose whoever you have a crush on, and there is no such thing as having it both ways, because you will hurt one of them anyway.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Listen to your own heart and do what is in your heart. Don't do anything you regret while you're young.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    You're in love with your brain, not your heart.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It doesn't matter how old you are, if you just want to be in love.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Pedal two boats and sleep with this today. Sleep that one tomorrow.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Neither is far away. Find someone who loves yourself and loves yourself.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    You can let them try to date you for a few days, and then you can choose whichever one you think is good, so that the other person can be your friend, and they will be convinced.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Hello, dear. Don't think too much about it, in fact, it is your ability and ability to make girls fall in love with you is the most important. A person who doesn't love you, a person who doesn't know how to cherish it, is not worthy of your love, choose someone who loves you, and there will be a better tomorrow. Hope for happiness and true love.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    The person who loves you and the person you love, others can't make decisions for you, but they want you to make a decision that you don't regret.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    All things considered, you can only choose one.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    None of them are chosen, and no one is hurt.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    When you ask like this, it is actually a kind of injury, and if you don't make a decision, it will hurt them, and it will hurt more and more.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Don't ask for both, unless you're the type of girl you can give without trying to reciprocate, which you obviously aren't. Listen to my sister, find someone who is older than you and pleasing to your eyes, but the point is that he loves you more than you love him. And don't ask for those who have just left school!

    Iron thou art his passerby.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    ( I've been in a situation where if you're really hard to decide, just tell them you don't like them anymore, and if you're obsessed with them, choose him.)

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Hello, between two men, the key to choose is to see which one makes you feel more suitable for you, which one is most comfortable to chat with, and which one cares more about you. First, if you fall in love and marry a man, it depends on whether the boy is considerate, whether he cares about and loves you, and whether there is a conflict with you in terms of personality. Second, it is best to choose a man who can talk to you and be able to really talk to you, so that you will not feel lonely.

    Third, if everything else is similar, then choose a good career or a better family.

    Question: Hello, I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, I deleted the contact before, but he will still contact me, and I also look forward to his contact, and I am actually quite sad in my heart when I broke up, sometimes I feel that I want to get along with each other in the way of a friend, but sometimes I really miss him, his family is two brothers, and a younger brother is in school.

    But my dad didn't agree before.

    Later, when I went back to my hometown, I met a boy who was 4 or 5 years older than me, and I felt that I was protected, and my dad was quite satisfied.

    There is also a question about this, and there is also a question of yourself, I don't know what I like.

    But it's so sad to be separated from him.

    Sometimes I feel like it's the right thing to do.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I forgot about the first one, and if the second one is true, it's okay to try to get along, after all, I feel like he's okay to hear you say that.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Kicked both of them!! There is no grass at the end of the world, it is true to be good for yourself...

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    What are you hesitating about, do you want to continue to be a substitute for others? The true love he gave will not be rekindled for you.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    Go with the feeling. You can't regret your decision.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Choose the person who loves you. This will be happy.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    One is what you love and the other is what you love. If you have to choose, you will be happier to choose the one who loves you.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    No matter who you choose, it's better to make a decision early.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    Tell them directly, don't be afraid to hurt them, if you don't like them but you are with them, not only will you be very annoyed, but you will also hurt them more in the future, tell them that you have a boyfriend, if you have other reasons then there is nothing I can do.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Two guys want me to confess to them?

    Or did two guys confess to me?

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    Cut off all contact with them as soon as possible.

    A sharp warning! Otherwise, they will fall deeper and deeper!

    Oh, thunder in the east and rain in the west, the road is sunny but sunny.

    I don't know if you can be so ruthless.

    I hope you can think of a perfect solution and help me if you think of it.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    Just hint at it, don't drag it out, it's not good for everyone.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    You tell them that you already have a boyfriend, and that your boyfriend is very nice to you, and you can comfort, "You can find a better girlfriend than me, and you're a better fit for you."

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    Wow, you're in demand, hehe.

    Just kidding, just tell them, I don't like you for the best.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    Don't like both? Then don't toss yourself, don't them at all, and calmly tell them you don't like it.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    Say I don't feel it, you don't make me feel in love, or say that the 9th letter doesn't like the 21st letter.

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