Why do the things that scared you end up happening?

Love is a sad fairy tale Anyone who has read it has left regrets to a greater or lesser extent, when we finish reading, we will understand a truth, that is, in the world of love, fate dominates everything, if there is fate, time and space are not distances. If you don't have a chance, you can't understand even if you get together, so let's let everything go with the flow. Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose.

Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other. Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish.

Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you?

If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ... Beg.

Walking at night is followed by people.

It was at the end of the college entrance examination, and my classmates and I went to get a driver's license together. As you all know, you can only book the test when you have a full school hour, and then our coach has a good reputation, and there are many students, so that we students practice during the day and take turns to play at night.

Looking at the only three people riding electric scooters on the road, my friend and I chatted and said, "I didn't expect that there were still people sleeping at this point." "Those three people had been driving on the same road as us, and I thought it was just a ride, but I found that they always looked at us, and they went straight when we went straight, and they also turned when we turned, and they followed us not far away, and this discovery scared me a little, and then I whispered to my classmates that we both saw horror in each other's eyes.

Our parents are working in other provinces, for a while, we were scared and didn't know who to find, and then my classmate proposed to the coach to play **, because we played when the coach was accompanied, so he went home at about the same time as us, but after we left, he had to tidy up, will be delayed for a while, after we played ** the coach came, those people saw our coach come after changing lanes and left, which can be regarded as escaping. After we told the coach what had happened, the coach drove us back after school in the next few days, and we were lucky to meet a good coach.

But every time I think about it, it makes my back chill and I feel scaredIf it hadn't been for the coach, I don't know how my life would have changedSo, girls, be sure to protect yourselfDon't walk alone at night, it's best to find a familiar person of the opposite sex to accompany you.

When I encounter bad news from my relatives and friends, I feel very frightened.

No one knows when the end of life will come, and there are too many accidents in life now. No one knows if this time is the last one.

When I used to go to work, I had a good relationship with a colleague. The two of them ride an electric car to and from work together every day, talk and laugh on the road, often eat and drink together, and cooperate very well at work.

One afternoon after work, I went home with him as usual. We also parted at the crossroads laughing and laughing, saying see you tomorrow. As with the scenes of each day, I didn't think anything else was going to happen.

But on the second day, he didn't go to work, and I thought he was on leave. He didn't go to work for three days in a row, and no one picked him up, so I inquired, and no one in the company knew what he was doing.

It wasn't until the 4th day that I heard that he had gone out to dinner with friends that night and had been in a car accident when he came home from eating. It is said that the car hit a large truck parked on the side of the road, because it was the middle of the night, there were few pedestrians, and by the time they found it, they were already dead.

I went to his funeral, and I can't describe the emotions in my heart. A 23-year-old young man, or the only seedling in the family, friends like me who have been with me for two years, feel uncomfortable, how did his parents collapse in their hearts?

For a long time after that, I was depressed. But after all, they were just friends who had been together for a while, and apart from waking me up more, the pain in my heart didn't last long.

But last year I attended several more funerals, all of them my loved ones. My grandmother, aunt and uncle passed away in half a year.

During that time, I was very afraid of receiving my mother's **, for fear that there would be other people in the family who would not be able to do it. Every time I attend a funeral, I always think of my parents, and I feel very scared.

I'm afraid of losing them, I'm afraid that one day I will get the news that they are not in good health, and I am also afraid that one day I will have an accident, and they will send the white-haired people to the black-haired people.

But life has to go on, even if it's in horror, and as an adult, I can't let myself break down before it happens.

Fear is like a chronic poison and I don't know how to deal with it. Everything happens without my will, I can only passively accept it.

Hopefully, as I get older, I'll be able to accept all of this.

Because of some physiological symptoms of the body caused by dance practice:

In order to **, I ate very little at each meal, and the staple food and vegetables added together were only about 100g, but the amount of exercise increased, so hypoglycemia occurred for two days in a row: increased heart rate, chills, vomiting, .....and weaknessThat sense of near-death caused me a lot of psychological pressure, and I never dared to rely on dieting **, and I resolutely did not advocate dieting**, and my concept of fat and thin has also changed:

Make peace with your own body.

In order to practice the rotation of the "head shake", that is, to turn in a circle, at the same time the head to the fixed point and quickly throw to the fixed point, that day practiced 200, the number is not much, but the turn is too violent, resulting in neck muscle strain, there is always an unreal sense of vertigo when walking, every step feels like the body floats up, which lasted for two days. Later, I learned that it was probably because the blood vessels in the neck were not smooth, which affected the blood supply to the brain, and I was so scared that I didn't dare to practice so violently again.

Because of the practice of port de bras (similar to standing forward bending), I always wanted to hug my calf, and directly made my lumbar disc herniation, which lasted for two or three days, and the doctor recommended bed rest, and then slowly did ** training and recovered. After being beaten twice, I no longer dare to hunch my waist to make movements, and I don't easily hug my legs, because the lumbar spine is squeezed very much, and the lumbar spine must be straight.

A soft start class, was forced to move the front leg by the traditional concept of the teacher, and pressed down hard for too long, what hurt me was not the myofascia or ligament, but the ** on the back of the thigh! Can you imagine that my skin was being pulled and in severe pain, just like five horses splitting their bodies, **** can withstand this stretching? After class, I saw that there were a lot of small blood spots and purple-red blood marks on the epidermis, and the next day they all turned purple and black.

Since then, I no longer dare to let others press my legs for a long time, and I avoid violent soft classes, and the stretch reflex is secondary, and I am afraid that the ** will be pulled and broken.

When I was a child, I played by the river, the river belongs to the tributaries of the Yellow River, once it should be open to release water, the ankle-deep water began to rise slowly, because it just started to rise very slowly, we still continued to touch the conch in the river, until an adult saw a few of us called us up, up less than a minute, and then came a big volume of water instantly rose a lot, now I think about it or afraid, if you can't come up, you can't say that you will definitely be drowned, but it will definitely be washed down by the torrent anyway is very dangerous.

being pitted and framed; Until tonight, I will wake up.

I'm just afraid that everyone will litter, litter pesticide bottles, use medicines, children who are sick and eat all kinds of medicines, and the township health centers will prescribe medicines

When the elderly are sick, I am so scared that I have to go to the hospital to take care of them, and I am physically and mentally tired!

1. In the fifth grade, I secretly climbed over the wall by myself (the wall is particularly easy to turn), and I went to the river to secretly catch snails, and the slope of the river was more than 80 degrees, and I almost fell into the river, and I couldn't swim at that time.

2. In the dormitory, I lived in the upper bunk in the dormitory, and in the dormitory, I inadvertently touched a live wire, and immediately loosened it, feeling very painful.

Being left out in the cold (emotionally affectionate, friendly. Insects and disgusting things

As a student, my biggest fear was being called up to ask questions while I was thinking.

The college entrance examination, the stereotype and psychological shadow of the college entrance examination are really too heavy.

I can't pull out and doubt life.

Put the mobile phone on the rooftop outside the railing, and with a slip of the hand, the whole mobile phone fell down and only grabbed the pendant.

That's the telecom scam.

I didn't finish my homework in the last few days of winter vacation.

1At twelve o'clock in the middle of the night, some people were screaming, afraid of something dirty.

2. The school is located on the grave mountain, and I go home alone for self-study in the evening.

Summary. It's true that the more you fear and worry about something happening, the more likely it is to happen, and that's Murphy's Law: if something is likely to go bad, no matter how small the odds are, then it will happen.

Is it true that the more feared things are, the easier them are to happen.

It's true that the more you fear and worry about something happening, the more likely it is to happen, and that's Murphy's Law: if something is likely to go bad, no matter how small the odds are, then it will happen.

This hints at the adverse effects of one's own negativity, although for those who don't believe it, it may feel that it is nothing more than a coincidence and not scientific. But this law actually has a certain warning effect, if we can think about the problem from a different angle, and don't think about the worst outcome of things every time, maybe we can break it. What attitude you use to face life, it will give you what kind of results, always give yourself negative psychological hints, thinking that the result will not be good, in fact, this will affect the process, will promote the occurrence of this result.

And if you maintain a positive and optimistic attitude at the beginning and go for good results, you will be more confident and motivated in the process of action, and often the final result will be more likely to be as you wish.

There are many things that we fear from childhood to adulthood. Or that they are afraid to walk at night; Fear of teachers asking us questions; Afraid to stand on the podium and speak. But these are nothing compared to death. Therefore, there is nothing more frightening than facing death.

Recently, the topic of death has been hotly discussed on Weibo and WeChat. Shanghai Jiaotong University young doctor suddenly died in the early morning hospital; 35-year-old Gao Yixiang died suddenly. When I browsed this information, I was deeply moved, but I still felt that illness and death were still far away from me.

However, tonight I suddenly received a call from a relative, who said: "I went to donate blood a few days ago, and they said that my blood did not meet the requirements and that I was tested for hepatitis B in half". She knew I was a medical school graduate and wanted to ask what it was.

When I first heard about it, I felt that sickness, death was all around me, that some things would be lost gradually, and that some family affection would fade away. In the face of illness and death, money is not worth mentioning. In recent years, the number of people who have been detected with hepatitis B has been increasing.

Although it is not a big disease, if you are around her, she or he was a healthy person like you before, and her or his physical health is declining, and you even think that one day they will leave you, what then?

At this time, there were suddenly a lot of thoughts in my head. Recently, I have been working overtime to make money, what is it for? It's good to have enough money to spend, but if you pursue too much, you also have to think about what you will lose.

If you have time, you might as well go home to see your parents, and enjoy this beautiful world with your friends. You only have one life, how to live a wonderful life? How not to regret it?

It depends on what kind of environment you are in, for example, if you are a disabled person, will you worry about whether you will be the first? Worried that you will be married by your parents before you do a good job? Worried that you won't be able to find a job?

And so on; It's like if you are very young, you are home alone at night, and your parents are not at home at night, you will be afraid; For example, students, afraid of teachers; At work, I am afraid of being fired by my boss and squid ......It depends on what environment you are in, and you can't generalize!