My husband is already someone else no matter what the occasion, how can I communicate so that I can

You ask your husband how to focus on others no matter what the occasion? Communication can value you? Your husband is doing this for the sake of others. Paying attention to others on the outside is human|Esteemed. This is the merit of people. It's okay to be nice to you at home.

Your husband may be very attentive to what others think of him and want to show himself as a gentleman in front of outsiders, you see, if he cares about you very much at home and takes care of you, it's fine.

It shows that this man does not cherish you enough and loves you very ordinarily, and tells him that I hope you can be together well and hope to have a happy future.

Confess to him directly. Why do you want to be psychological? But I think that my brother cares about it, it is necessary to divide the occasion, and I am showing affection whenever I am uncomfortable.

It's good to think about it, you are already his person to take care of him or not, and you are good to him and have no punishment. If he didn't take care of you today and immediately lost 200 yuan, he would definitely not turn around, your friend was too attentive, eating what was in the bowl and thinking about what was in the pot.

You communicate with your husband in private, you say that I am your wife, you don't focus on others on any occasion, it is the occasion that it should be, and I am OK, but in any situation, whatever I will think, I will tell him everything you want to say.

Your husband's personality must be very outgoing. The communicative skills are definitely relatively strong. To think. Let him value you, you have to exercise. Improve your communication skills.

Obviously, you care a lot about your relationship with your husband, then you pay attention to your husband's preferences, do what he wants to do, say his hobbies and answer questions, and communicate gradually, so that he notices your existence is more important to him, and makes him feel that you are an indispensable communication object for him, I think he will take the initiative to communicate with you in the future, and you can also deepen your relationship.

Love: to understand, but also to unravel; Want.

Apologize and thank you; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; To be considerate and to be considerate, is to receive.

to receive, not to endure, to be tolerant, not to conniv; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It is to communicate with each other, not to explain everything: it is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many things from each other, it can be romantic, but not wasteful; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.

My husband and I would quarrel when I talked.

Communication is inevitable in the life of husband and wife, and if you want to solve your problems, simple communication alone is not enough. Personally, I believe that you have to clarify a few issues first: 1. There are differences in the way you and your husband express themselves; 2. Your understanding of married life; 3. Views on children's growth; 4. The method and time of reconciliation of problems between husband and wife, as well as initiative; 5. The image of you in his heart.

Figure out these problems, only then will you know how big the difference is, find the crux of the problem, if he originally thought you were wrong, and you went to communicate that no matter how much karma was in vain, he would find you very annoying. In fact, marriage didn't have to be so tiring, but problems had to be solved, so I had to bother.

Sometimes you don't have to solve it yourself, you can rely on your children, parents, and friends to resolve the conflict. Don't ask any questions directly, he may not realize it, you can let him know about the problem from someone other than you, of course, this requires brainstorming.

People are there.

BAI Strengths and Weaknesses.

Du point,Problems always have to be solved.,You can't just stop solving the problem because you can't communicate.,Yes, answer.。

Try to understand each other more, be more understanding, more tolerant, more considerate, and more comforting. It's not that they don't understand, it's because they think about each other and each other, and they don't actively face problems and look for solutions.

When two people who don't know each other come together, they need to understand and tolerate each other, don't give each other a chance to change because the other party has done something wrong, or find a lot of shortcomings, and want the other party to change according to their own ideas, so that each other is very tired, try to change, and try to accept what can't be changed. Everyone has their own way of life, I heard a little story, the story is about a couple who got married and found that the husband loves chili peppers, and the wife never eats chili peppers, what should I do? The husband can't eat without chili peppers, and the wife can't eat with chili peppers, and then the wife still puts chili peppers every time she stir-fries for her husband, but when she eats, she eats dishes with chili peppers with water, and she eats them with relish, and after her husband sees it, she is very moved to comfort his wife, and persuades his wife to stir-fry without chili peppers in the future, but his wife smiled and said that she is willing to do it for her husband.

My husband never puts chili peppers in the stir-fry, and he also laughs and says that if he doesn't eat chili peppers, he will have a son. Learn how others solve problems, this is mutual, I believe that as long as you and your husband both actively face the problem and find a solution, I believe you will live a very happy life!

The first step is self-reflection. No matter where the problem is, a slap in the face doesn't make a sound, so when there is a problem in communication between husband and wife, it is necessary to reflect, self-reflect, think about what your problem is, and then carry out other solutions.

Don't run away when you encounter problems, this is also a proof response that couples should make when they encounter communication problems, don't try to escape or pretend that there is nothing, this is not conducive to the stability and longevity of the relationship between husband and wife, unless you are unwilling to continue to be with each other, otherwise you need to face it positively.

Think about it will be because of where he has always wanted you to change but you have not changed the problem, or you have had some knots that have not been opened in his heart before, if you don't know yourself, you can understand the problem through a third person, he is unwilling to communicate with you and you have a conflict does not mean that he has a conflict with other people, in how to mature and stable people, once there is something close to other people will more or less still show.

Use words to express love and gratitude, many people think that my love for him, he should know! I think he, he should know. I'm grateful to him, he should be able to feel it! But the result is that he doesn't feel these "shoulds" and doesn't know.

Husbands and wives come from different family environments, and their views on some things bear traces of their own families, and the differences between the sexes also make it impossible for us to think the same about each other all the time. So gratitude, or love, is not something that anyone should feel. Rather, it needs to be clearly expressed.

In many cases, it may not be understood when it is expressed, let alone not said?

Eight years of relationship will not be like this for no reason, he has pain in his heart, but why don't you want to communicate with you, have you thought about it? I think it's possible that after closing the distance, you will suddenly find that he can't adapt to your shortcomings. Also, the slow marathon has finally reached the finish line, and I can take a breath.

Don't ask for anything more than his ability. You still have to communicate, not many times at a time.

No matter what it is, two people should communicate with each other, if you don't communicate, you will always rely on guessing will be very tiring, and you will not know what you think. So it's better to communicate more, but I can't communicate...

It is true that there are too many men and women who talk to him, but he only says a few words, or even does not answer at all.

In fact, this hurts a woman's body and mind, because the heart is very blocked, and the body is also blocked.

I can understand this state of wanting to be blocked!

If you have QQ, you can create a new QQ and add your husband Start talking to him from a stranger Don't rush to ask about these aspects at first Or write down your own feelings Find a way to deliberately let him see Hold him when you sleep Say something that you are happy about Usually go out shopping alone or something My husband and I used to set some time At least once a week at night to talk about our recent feelings and heartfelt words Only communication can make your relationship better.

If you are already very rational when communicating problems, (not to complain about your temper or let the other party let you), but the other party is still unwilling to communicate, then maybe the other party does not regard the two of you as equal person-to-person relationships, but as "me" and "women", and first substitutes "women are all petty tempers", "women love more seriously, if you don't understand, it must be that she has a problem and not that I am stupid", "how can a big man be stupider than a woman, I am very smart, and the other party is too serious to communicate with her, it is better to ignore her" and other prejudices. It is conceivable that the result is that the other party can't understand your expression at all, because they have thought wrong from the beginning.

Good communication is a comfortable way to chat because you feel acceptable to each other, rather than just talking and exchanging ideas.

Men tend to regard women's communication as a kind of venting and dissatisfaction, or even an accusation, and will repeat a topic, when men have such feelings for a long time, they will be disgusted with such a way of chatting, and it is easy to close themselves, so they are no longer willing to say more, and even if they say it, they can't understand each other.

Therefore, the way of communication is very important, the way is correct, the other party is easier to accept, you can't communicate well, I believe it is because he has decided that he can't talk to you about anything, and the repetition is some topics, so he is closed to you.

Your husband is always online...You can pretend to be a stranger through some chat tool or something on the Internet, get close to him first, and then slowly talk to him...Paraphrase his words....Or get a friend of yours to help....She didn't know it....Strike up a conversation with him....The rest is omitted....Anyway, find a way to figure out why he is like this...And then find a way....But be seamless and don't be discovered.

For what not to communicate with you.

Take the initiative to find your husband to talk about it, and a small problem will become a big problem after a long time.

Explain that the other party still has feelings for you, don't want to lose you, communicate well with both parties, and solve any problems together. Instead of using divorce to solve the problem. It's not easy for two people to come together, don't lose to not cherish.

If you can, make up and make up.

If you really can't do it, you can get rid of it as soon as possible.

My husband is like that, I don't know what to do, why do they have to be like that, sad.

First of all, when you have time, you should talk to your husband and tell him the importance of communication, otherwise there will always be conflicts between you, tell him that there is something to talk about.

The most important thing between husband and wife is communication, there are many communication skills, your husband is unwilling to communicate with you, you have to find out the reason yourself, why does this happen? In fact, you can take the idea of telling him the story you want to communicate with your husband when he talks a lot, and then tell him when your husband gives an answer or suggestion, this is what you want your husband and wife to think like this, so that everything is OK.

It seems that your problem is a bit complicated, and you are not in a very good mood, I suggest that you first calm down, think about the real problem, and then combine yourself, as well as your husband, your in-laws' consistent behavior, think about the solution to this matter, and finally, sort out your thoughts, find a suitable opportunity, and discuss the solution with your husband peacefully.

Here are some of my thoughts.

First of all, you have to calm down, this is the key, when you are in a hurry, things are more likely to intensify, and judging from your statement, your husband is not calm, and he is also emotional, or he is also excited.

Secondly, you should think carefully about whether this time the contradiction has always existed or whether it happened suddenly. Although I don't know the cause and effect, I think it's easier to solve the problem of money alone, and I'm afraid that it is really for another purpose under the pretext of money. For example, your in-laws think that you live at home, that you don't do housework when you go home, that you don't know how to care about your husband, that you spend money lavishly, and that you are dissatisfied with some things, which is more troublesome.

But this is also the most likely)

Thirdly, if they have another purpose, you see if you can change a little bit as they want, maybe it's okay, if not, it's better to move out and live separately from your parents, or rent a smaller house nearby.

Fourth, if only for money, it's simple, meet their requirements.

Then when the matter is a little over, ask your husband to post a copy of the extra part to your parents. In fact, it is the obligation of children to support their parents, but sometimes parents feel sorry for their children, but they don't want them, but they stick to them, but this is not natural, I think people still have to rely on themselves.

Fifth, your husband is already under a lot of pressure, don't put pressure on him in the small things in life, so that the husband and wife will gradually come together, and there will be some common opinions, especially in the attitude towards his parents, even if you think that it should be, then right, but also based on his opinion, respect for his parents is to add a layer of protection to your marriage, I think, if your marriage has problems, what you need most is the support of his parents, isn't it?

Sixth, your husband's income should be quietly controlled in his hands, so that he will have some compromises when making any decisions. (However, from your husband's words, it seems that this is the case, no wonder he is a little resistant and wants to regain financial power).

Finally, I would like to remind you that it is much better to be calm and solve the problem peacefully than to lose both, good luck.