Anyone else has gone home for the New Year? Why do people go home?

I haven't been home for Chinese New Year in years. It was uncomfortable at first. I'm used to it now.

Nothing. Learn to live on your own. This is important on the outside.

It's not fun to spend the New Year alone, but you can make good use of this holiday to do things that you don't usually have time to do, in short. The New Year is just a few days. It was not long in coming.

Don't worry too much about it.

Anyone will feel that after a long time of going out, they want to go home, go home and see their relatives and friends who they miss day and night. But why is that? What is the meaning of going home?

What is that feeling of home to me personally? The meaning of this home is so far-reaching, this feeling of home is indescribable, I don't know how to describe it and put it into words, so that I can be drunk with this bowl of soul aging while my mind is floating.

As for "home", for my personal reflection, it is not deeply related to time or age, but more I think it should have a lot to do with people's hearts. The definition of a young home is very simple, it represents the hometown of "disturber care". As long as you are hungry, you will have something to eat when you go home; As long as you are wronged, you must have your parents to care for you when you go home.

But think about it, when you are young, the love given by your parents should be compulsive, no matter how strong their love is, it will always go to a higher level, and even whether we accept it or not, they will ask us to say two words - "obedient", just like no matter how much you eat, your parents always want you to eat more, if you don't want to eat more, they will let you be obedient and eat more. And when we grow up, the definition of home has not changed in any way, and it is still the hometown of "care".

Because the love of our parents has never changed, no matter how old we are, we are still just their children to them, and since we are children, they should give us that full of love. It's just that when people get bigger, their hearts change, they become disgusted with bondage, and they become easy to refuse.

The reasons why many people do not go home for the New Year, my opinion is as follows:

1. Visiting relatives and friends is time-consuming and tiring, the New Year is not easy to go home, everyone is the most Qi at this time, of course, it has become the best time to visit relatives and friends, the first year of junior high school in their own village neighbors' house for a hundred years, the second uncle and grandmother's house, the third year of junior high school until the end of your holiday has been the New Year's greetings of seven aunts and eight aunts, if there are many relatives at home, you have to go to at least three relatives a day, otherwise you can't finish before the end of the holiday, if you can't arrange the time, it will attract gossip, It was supposed to be a good Spring Festival to go home to rest, but it was arranged clearly and properly, and there was no time for me at all, so not going home became the best choice.

2. I can't stand the comparison of others, and there is no harm if there is no comparison. When I go back to my hometown for the New Year, there are always some curious seven aunts and eight aunts who ask questions, knowing that you don't earn much money, and you don't have enough scenery outside, and you suddenly have a sense of superiority, showing off how much money your children have given you, how many clothes you have bought, how many high-end health care products you have bought, how to honor yourself, and so on. For a good year, I went home happily for a reunion, but I was ruined by these messy things, alienated from the feelings between relatives, and felt congested when I thought about it.

Therefore, some people would rather work overtime outside to earn money during the Chinese New Year than go home.

3. There is a difference in urban and rural life, and it is easy to say that people who are urban at home have similar working conditions when they go home and work outside, but it is cold and inconvenient for rural people. It is too cold not to make a stove, and Wang Han is dusty when he makes a stove; I have to go to the toilet in the middle of the night and go outside against the north wind; Or the kind of person who digs a small pit and squats without a light and turns on a flashlight, especially if the hometown is in a remote rural area, there is no free Wi-Fi, you can't play with your mobile phone, you can't get on the Internet, you have lost contact with the outside world, and you're bored and anxious. There are more topics and hobbies, and the customs and ways of celebrating the New Year at home can no longer be adapted.

Just send some money back and don't go home for the New Year.

For people who study and work in their hometowns, it is very simple to go home, but for wanderers who are away from home, the meaning of going home is very different, so for different people, the meaning of going home is different.

The meaning of going home first lies in the longing for loved ones. There are their own relatives at home, you can see your relatives and reunite with them when you go home, for people who go out on a long trip, the meaning of going home is first reflected in this aspect, when you leave your hometown, the thoughts of your relatives, you will always linger in your heart When you have the opportunity to go home, the thoughts of your relatives will be more intense, and you will hope to be able to go home as soon as possible to see your relatives and reunite with them, so that you can experience the feeling of home, which is the meaning of going home.

Second, for wanderers who travel far away, the meaning of returning home also includes the expectation of returning home. Going home means that you want to return to your hometown, for the wanderers who travel far away, the concept of home and hometown is equally important, going home means that you want to return to your hometown to see the familiar mountains and rivers, and hear the long-lost finch and imitation of the country sound, this feeling will make you very moved, so for people who are away from home, going home, including the homecoming, expect this feeling will make them very moved.

Third, the solace of one's soul is the most meaningful embodiment of going home. The most meaningful manifestation of returning home is the comfort of one's soul. When I leave my hometown, I will be full of thoughts about my hometown all the time, no matter how smooth my work outside and how happy my life is, the situation of not being able to go home will also make me feel empty.

Therefore, for oneself to be able to go home and take it away, one's soul will be comforted, and one will feel very satisfied, very down-to-earth, very happy and happy. This is the greatest meaning of going home to me, and it is under this belief that I will be deeply moved to go home after every long trip, and my feelings for home and family will become deeper.

Some people can't go home for the New Year for many years, and they have to divide into several kinds of psychology:

The Spring Festival is one of the traditional festivals in our country, people far away from home will go back for the New Year, the Spring Festival is a day for people to reunite, but in the countryside, some people do not go home for many years for the New Year, what kind of psychology is this?

First, I don't dare to go back.

Some people are far away from their hometowns, and when they go out to work, they set up great ambitions, and say to the villagers that they must make a lot of money and go back only if they mix well. As a result, it backfired, and I didn't mix very well outside, so I didn't dare to go back, for fear that I would be laughed at and pointed at when I went back.

Second, I am too busy with work and really don't have time.

Some people are still working during the Spring Festival, maybe it is not that they want to make money, but arranged by their superiors, and there is no way.

Or there are some people whose work is very special, they have to work all year round, and there are almost no holidays, such as border guards or comrades who stick to the front line, they also want to go back, but the work department does not allow it, and there is really no time to go back.

3. Being forced into marriage.

In the countryside, as soon as the Chinese New Year arrives, the family will arrange for young people of appropriate age to go on blind dates, today it is this, tomorrow it will be that again. It's been nagging in your ear all the time, why haven't you found a partner yet? Lifetime events are decided by themselves, and it is the turn of outsiders to decide?

Fourth, various cross-examinations by relatives.

After the Chinese New Year, the seven aunts and eight aunts will get together and ask you questions, if you are a student, you will be asked how your grades are? Reading a book? If you go out to work, you will be asked how much is your salary? If you are not married, you will be asked if you have a partner?

All in all, in addition to being at home, you will be interrogated by neighbors and relatives as soon as you go out.

Fifth, disgusted with the wind of comparing with each other.

It's the New Year, and it's inevitable to participate in all kinds of gatherings, but now the rural gatherings have long changed, no longer a simple gathering to reminisce about good times, talk about friendship and family affection, but become a gathering where everyone compares with each other, and those who have money ridicule those who have no money, and those who have no money don't want to get together again.

For each of us. Go home for the Spring Festival. It is the greatest sustenance and expectation in my heart.

Although I myself did not have the experience of not being able to go home for the New Year. But I fully understand the feeling that many people feel when they can't go home for the Chinese New Year for various reasons. Specifically, the reasons why those people can't go home for the New Year are because they can't go home for the New Year because they are busy with work.

Studying in a different place and not being able to go home for the year of defeat. There are three situations in which you are unable to go home for the Chinese New Year while developing your career in other places. First.

I can't go home for the New Year because I have to work in the unit because of my busy work. Some people can't go home for the New Year because of their busy schedules. These people may not work far from home.

But because of their busy schedules, they have to work in the unit during the Chinese New Year. So they don't have time to go home for the New Year, for these people, although they are close to home, they can't go home for the New Year. The feelings in my heart are very, very complicated.

But it's worth it for the sake of work. Second. Studying in a different place, too far away from home, to go home for the Chinese New Year.

The reason some people can't go home for the Chinese New Year is because they are studying in a different place. These people go to school far from home. And he's busy with his studies.

They didn't have enough time to rush home for the New Year. So I had to spend the New Year at school by myself. So for these students.

Although I feel very sorry that I can't go home for the New Year. But being able to learn more and master stronger skills in school will make you more capable. The future development prospects will be broader.

Therefore, it is understandable for them not to be able to go home for the New Year for the time being. Third. I have a career in a foreign country, so I don't have time to go home for the New Year.

There are also some people who are also unable to go home for the Chinese New Year because of work. But their specific situation is different. Specifically, the reason why these people can't go home for the Chinese New Year is because they are developing their careers in other places.

So there is no time to go home for the New Year. For these people, they can't go home during the Chinese New Year, and their hearts must be full of longing. But when I think that my career has been developed, I can have a better life in the future.

The knot in their hearts can be opened. They're going to work harder. Work hard for your own good life.

Although they will not be able to go home for the New Year for the time being, they will feel very fulfilled in their hearts.