Why can t I forget him, why can t I forget him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Maybe he wasn't completely boring to you before, but you didn't take advantage of the opportunity and kept pretending to be reserved. He doesn't see that you have much to say to him, and it's not just with other people.

    You still can't forget him, which means that you still like him all along, so why not take the initiative? Now that you're in touch with him, keep in touch, and if he doesn't have a girlfriend, you can show him your heart. Don't let yourself regret it anymore.

    If he has a girlfriend, then you should give up, it is immoral to be a third party. It's not hard to forget a person, it's just a matter of time. Delete all his contact information and don't contact him again, and the relationship will naturally fade after a long time.

    Or find another boyfriend, which is the quickest and most effective way to forget someone.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, girls are always more or less shy, but the boys they like dare not recognize, and the boys are different, some like to chase desperately, just like the shameless kind, but some are not, some boys are very shy and well-behaved, I have to tell you, like him to chase, care about him, care for him, and then if you make an agreement, he will give you happiness, because some things are not unattainable, and they are not impossible to be together forever, to believe in love! Otherwise, there will be no true love in the world, so you have to take advantage of the opportunity and cherish it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You.. I really missed it... It's a pity. I can guarantee that he liked you then, and you just need to confess a little and you will be together.

    Suddenly I had a feeling of being connected to the same fate, I had a crush on someone for a long time, and I never said it, because I was very introverted and never expressed my feelings. And that boy is very good, his family is very wealthy and his grades have always been the first in the city, and he looks very good. He and I met at the city's commendation meeting.

    He must have had feelings for me at the time, but we were both too introverted to say anything. At that time, we were confidants and friends.

    Later, he left the city and was sent to study abroad, while I, who was stupid in qualifications, stayed in the city. I was sad at the time. After that, there was no contact.,3 years.。。

    But I think I'm very lucky, maybe it's my fate with him, I met him in a competition in the city, he is the student representative of the city. This time I finally told him that I used to like him very much.

    This year, I am in my third year of high school, and I have finally become a lover for a year, and my goal is to be the first in the city, and I can go abroad with him. (It's a bit impractical, but I'll do my best for him).

    Don't forget the person you once liked, the day when you really had fate, I believe you will come together.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't forget, because he is alone in your love life, so you tend to think about him constantly. If you wait until you're officially in love, you won't be like that. People are like this, the first person to enter their emotional life has the deepest memory, and sometimes they often think about it occasionally when they have a family, but the frequency of thinking is very low.

    So don't be troubled by this. It's also best not to think about it anymore, because she will affect your life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The flowers are similar every year, and the people are different every year!Don't say that you have no chance in this life and wait for the next life; Don't say that the tears are dry and the heart is broken; Don't say that we can't tell the sun from dawn. I'm afraid, I'm afraid, when you don't come, handsome is no more, spirituality is gone, I am already soaked in red dust and condensed into frost for you.

    Sigh year after year, hate the years and years of parting, and the words fall into a sad freehand. The words of the heart turned into smoke and clouds, and it took a thousand kinds of lovesickness. I'm lonely, how can I sigh alone!

    Remember that the dream of this life will not be ruined......

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What's the matter? Isn't it just a love that you didn't dare to confess. Forget it, there's a bounty!

    This kind of thing is more than one person in a lifetime. Don't ask why you can't forget! What you need now is to have a good relationship in a hurry.

    I can't afford to delay for a moment. Then, when you suddenly remember it one day, you will laugh it off. Or maybe you don't even remember it.

    Hehe, have a nice day.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    After going through this period of time, I found that these are beautiful and green, most of them have a beginning and no end, and you can't expect to have a result, just feel the process. If you still can't let go, tell him your thoughts again, if there is fate, these can make the two of you walk together, if there is no fate, or don't struggle in pain.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    When I was in high school, I had a similar experience to you, and when I saw these words you wrote, I recalled the shy emotions I had back then, and I felt that I was cute and silly at that time.

    I still don't understand how my nervousness and shyness make the other person feel about this question, so I asked my husband later. My husband said that this will make boys feel bored, and they should be generous when they meet, and some boys don't like girls who dodge. Of course, this is only my husband's opinion, and it does not represent the thoughts of all men.

    I think you can tell him what you think again, this boy should be a very smart and open-minded person, and you should express your feelings generously, no matter what the outcome is.

    Send you a poem, Pushkin's "I used to love you".

    I used to love you.

    Love is in my heart.

    Maybe it's not completely gone.

    Let's hope it won't bother you anymore.

    I don't want to make you sad anymore.

    I once loved you silently and hopelessly.

    I endured both shyness and jealousy.

    I loved you so sincerely, so tenderly.

    May God bless you.

    The other person will love you as much as I do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The reason why you forgot not is simple, you have not yet found your own lover. When you find it. You will forget all kinds of past events one by one, so faint that it is just a memory of the past.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It shows that 2 people like each other, but they don't have the courage to confess, or you should be generous, confess, for your own love, what is there to be ashamed of!! He should also be interesting to you! If it dragged on for too long, we could have been together, but because it was too long, there would be no drama.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People can abandon other people's emotions, but they can't abandon their own emotions, and time is the best proof. What? Everything is controlled by yourself. Love is actually in an inadvertent moment, but I can't believe it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you love a boy, you have to pursue it with all your might, bravely strive for your own happiness, and give everything for him without asking for anything in return!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Forgetting = Death + Heart, which means that you have to die for what you want to forget! There are also people who say that they forget to stop mentioning it, but once there is a little reminder, they will immediately remember everything!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can just divert your energy, for example, fall in love with other boys, work harder, move around more with classmates and friends, and play games.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Sister, such a young age is the most genuine! I envy you! Cherish it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't fall into it, love is not reliable, only yourself is reliable.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Cut the Gordian knot! Forget about him! Live your life well.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    1 year later. What is left is only memories, not the kind that cannot be forgotten.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    See for yourself and trust your feelings.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You're too small! Not suitable for greedy love!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Question: Why can't I forget him?

    Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you and give you the following answers: A: Reason:

    1. Emotional factors: In the process of falling in love, there may be deep feelings, and a lot of emotional investment is involved, and when the breakup, even if both parties are no longer in contact, the feelings deeply rooted in the heart are difficult to erase; 2. Memory factor: In the process of falling in love, both parties will have a lot of happy memories, which are deeply implanted in their own memories, resulting in the inability to forget him; 3. Realistic factors:

    In the process of falling in love, there may be many practical factors, such as when the two parties are together, they will have a lot of mutual friends, and these friends will make you think of him and make you miss him. Solution and practice steps: 1. Change thinking:

    If you want to change your mind, you need to only think about your current self, don't put your thinking on a certain period of time before, don't miss him, think about your current self; 2. Find new hobbies: You can try to learn some new hobbies, let yourself accompany the chaos of the wilderness, let yourself have more things to do, and you can also find more friends through these new hobbies; 3. Participate in more activities: you can participate in more activities, communicate with more people, and travel with friends, so that you can meet more people and have more new experiences, so that it is easier to forget him; 4. Communicate with friends

    You can communicate more with your friends, share your heartfelt words with your friends, let your friends give you some advice, and it can also make it easier for you to release the emotions in your heart.

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