How can you tell a person s upbringing from the way they eat?

In the process of eating, on the one hand, the content, style, and taste of food are the points we often pay attention to, but we will ignore some of the cultural accomplishments of eating. Gradually, I discovered that eating is not only a culture, but also a kind of cultivation. At the dinner table, the simple act of eating presents a variety of attitudes, some people eat rudely, some people eat elegantly, some people eat alone, some people like to share, some people ignore etiquette, and some people are thoughtful everywhere.

When I was a child, my father often told me, "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand." In fact, it means that if you don't learn etiquette, you can't gain a foothold in society. Etiquette is a person's external image and internal quality of the concentrated embodiment, we often take politeness as a sign of the degree of civilization of a country and a nation, for individuals, politeness is to measure the level of morality and whether there is a ruler of education.

The demeanor and demeanor at the dining table can directly reflect a person's civilized cultivation. Therefore, it should be noted that dining is not just a meal, but more of a social activity, and your every move, word and deed is the embodiment of your inner temperament and cultivation. ‍‍

You should also pay attention to flossing, it is quite disgusting, and if you really want to vomit, please cover your mouth with a napkin and spit on the tissue. When the toothpick is used up, you can put it on the plate, and don't bite a toothpick in your mouth to talk to people, it looks like a hooligan and a scoundrel, which is very ugly. Some people even walk around with toothpicks in their mouths after eating, which is even more outrageous. ‍‍

You can persuade others to eat more, or suggest a certain dish to be tasted, but don't take the initiative to take the initiative to pick up vegetables and add food to others. Not only is it unhygienic, but it also makes it difficult for the other person. ‍‍

I've been in love many times, and one of them is very impressive, he is the kind of gentlemanly boy, but people don't like me, haha. We made an appointment to eat in a restaurant, he was already sitting there waiting for me when I went, and when he saw me coming, he got up and helped me pull out the chair, and when I ordered, I kept asking if I had any taboos, and I also ordered a ** salad, anyway, I felt very happy with him, very harmonious. Later, when I left, I was sent home.

I thought he liked me and did it, but the matchmaker said he didn't think the two of us were suitable.

When eating, don't eat with your head shaken, loose clothes and belts, your face full of oil and sweat, and the juice and soup will flow sideways and make loud noises. ‍‍

People who eat Xiangsven are generally calm. The stomach is also good. Those who eat in large gulps generally have a stronger appetite and a weaker spleen and stomach.

It is very rude to burp during the meal, if it is really uncontrollable, you can drink water, hold your breath to reduce the symptoms, if it still does not work, it is best to go to the bathroom and wait for the exhaust to subside before returning to your seat. ‍‍

A meal can see that a person's upbringing determines a person's life.

If the sneeze is only temporary, of course, you can cover your mouth with a napkin to minimize pollution. If you keep sneezing, it's best to leave the table and deal with it somewhere else, if you really can't handle it, you might as well leave the table first, no one will mind. ‍‍

Many female compatriots in China do not know this etiquette, and makeup should be done in the bathroom or in a place with fewer people. Touching up makeup in public is like combing your hair, dressing, etc. ‍‍

It can be seen that there may be many people who don't pay much attention to this aspect, but you can observe more in the future.

It is impossible to completely see through a person's eating appearance, because eating is only a small part of a person's behavior. It does not represent the whole of a person, but sometimes we can observe some details from a person's eating appearance, so as to have a certain understanding of other personalities and behaviors, the following are some possible observation points, first, dietary preferences, a person's dietary preferences can reflect their cultural background, health awareness, personal hobbies, etc. Second, table manners, a person's mannerisms and manners at the table can reflect their upbringing and social skills, and third, eating speed, the speed at which a person eats can reflect their personality traits.

Fifth, eating attitude, a person's attitude towards food can reflect their values and attitude towards life. It is important to note that these observations are only a reference, and cannot be completely accurate in judging a person's character and behavior, which is complex and diverse, and needs to be integrated and considered in many aspects. in order to have a more comprehensive understanding of a person.

It is inaccurate and unscientific to judge the character from the appearance of a person, and the appearance is only a demeanor and performance when he sees it, and cannot directly reflect his moral character and personality characteristics.

My friend told me something like this:

My boyfriend is an only child, and he has been more spoiled in the family since he was a child, and one of the characteristics of his meals is that he will eat more when he likes the dishes, completely forgetting that there are people next to him.

A stewed pork rib with radish, he ate seven or eight ribs, but he didn't eat a single radish, and in the end, my parents basically ate the radish.

A stir-fried chicken offal with green peppers, he would turn the bowl inside and out to find the meat, my dad had a black face at the time, put down his chopsticks and took a sip of stuffy wine.

After eating, my dad cut a plate of fruit to eat, and everyone naturally chatted more casually, and talked about some topics.

It was obvious that when my boyfriend encountered a topic that he was not interested in, he would wander and often play with his mobile phone, which made my dad very embarrassed.

Later, after I sent my partner away, my dad talked to me about it with a serious face, and he didn't approve of continuing to date the two of us.

He said that if it is a person with a hard life, everyone can understand it, but my boyfriend is also a person who can live a decent material life, so he only picks what he likes to eat, and he has no scruples about other people's feelings, which can only show that he is very selfish.

Secondly, when it comes to things that interest you, you are impassioned, and when you talk about things you are not interested in, you immediately distract and perfunctory, this kind of person will only think from his own point of view, and he is very disrespectful to his elders.

Finally, when my boyfriend first came to our house, he was enthusiastic and sweet-mouthed, but after he really let go of his nervousness, he was too casual and didn't make a good impression in the end. Can you imagine what attitude he will have towards me after the hot love period? 】

Of course, with the development of modern society, a lot of communication is talked about at the dinner table, and it is impossible not to speak, as long as you control that degree at the dinner table.

If you pay attention, you will actually find that people who eat poorly usually have a bad mouth, such as blowing fire, covering boats, pigs, crucian carp, and wrinkled mouths.

Oral Physiognomy Knowledge Points:

Blowing fire: Usually the lips are pointed and convex, open but not closed, always not closed, and look as if they are blowing fire.

Covered Mouth: The lips are dark red, the middle of the lips is high, the ends of the lips are low, he is greedy, ruthless, and has a strange temper, and he is not easy to get along with.

Pig's mouth: The upper lip is very long, thick and wide, the lower lip is pointed and small, the corners of the mouth are often drooling, and the back of the mouth likes to say right and wrong.

Wrinkled mouth: As the name suggests, its mouth is covered with wrinkles or markings, giving people a crying appearance, and people with this kind of mouth have bad luck in their later years.

And people who eat well usually have a good mouth and overall appearance, have a good upbringing, have reasonable manners, know how to consider others when acting, and speak clearly and relaxedly.