How do you deal with villains at work?

This kind of person is indispensable, and the best thing is to stay away.

Then you should know that if you can avoid it, try to avoid it, and don't have this head-to-head confrontation with them.

I don't have much communication with them when I work, and I don't deal with them if I can do it myself.

It is better to offend the gentleman than the villain, keep a distance, and avoid conflicts.

If people don't respect me, there is no need to fight with him, and use some means to retaliate with a tooth for a tooth.

When encountering principled things, never flinch and fear, otherwise, you are a soft persimmon; After a long time, the villain will do different things with you, so he will naturally not provoke you.

In fact, in life, there is never a shortage of villains around us. Villains are always jealous of being jealous, hating others, and laughing at others. Therefore, we must always guard against the assassination of villains at work.

Try to avoid unnecessary conflicts, don't take the initiative to associate with them, and avoid them if you can. When you meet, you can only nod your head and avoid talking too much. Because villains always like to inquire about your privacy and your family trivialities, and then, adding fuel to the slander, they will give you a fatal blow unprepared, make you ruined, and make you difficult to argue.

Villains are hateful, and they can be met in life and work. We are to be tolerant of him. Don't be a villain. The belly of a gentleman.

If you do your job well and meet the requirements of the leader, even if the villain will be bad, it doesn't matter, because the leader pays more attention to the result of the matter than the process of the matter.

Villains generally have a lot of energy to figure out how to rectify people, so don't offend villains. Keep a certain distance from the villain, and try to control if there is a conflict at work, so as not to be used as the main opponent by the villain.

I think it's better to stay away, don't get entangled with it, if you eat a small loss, you should feed the dog, don't ask for it, because not only does he not know how to be grateful and will not reciprocate, but he will blackmail you even more and calculate you, this is the hateful thing about villains. But you also have to believe that good people have good rewards, evil people have evil rewards, cause and effect are good reincarnation, look at the sky, and forgive whom. Retribution will eventually come to them, and the boss who knows the hero will also make the villain untargeted, and they are not too reckless.

If you can avoid it, you can avoid it, and disdain and contempt are far wiser than head-to-head confrontation; Correct your attitude, do everything according to the rules, you can be upright, and there is no chance for the villain to succeed and take advantage of it.

I don't think we need to go around, do our own work, and do our job well. You don't need to be angry, just adjust your mentality.

Who doesn't talk about people behind their backs? Who is not told behind their backs? The most disgusting thing at work is that there are villains, jealous of you, always secretly saying bad things about you, ruining your reputation, what should you do in the face of this situation? Learn these tricks, and ordinary people won't dare to mess with you easily!

First, the calculation will be calculated.

Tell a story, when Cao Cao was young, he was "a good flying eagle lackey and wandering excessively". His uncle couldn't stand it, and often reminded Cao Song that he should discipline this son well. When Cao Cao found out, he came up with a ghost idea to deal with his nosy uncle.

One day, Cao Cao saw his uncle coming from a distance, and immediately made a crooked mouth. When the uncle asked why, he replied that he had a sudden stroke. Uncle immediately went to report to Cao Cao again.

When Cao Song called Cao Cao to take a look, nothing happened. Cao Cao took the opportunity to say, what kind of wind will I have! It's only because my uncle doesn't like me that he speaks ill of me.

There is such a story of "the wolf is coming" at the bottom, naturally in the future, when the uncle talks about Cao Cao, Cao Song doesn't believe it, and Cao Cao is even more nonsense. The reason why some people listen to the villain's bad words and some people believe them is because others don't understand you, when you let everyone see it differently from what the villain says, everyone will naturally not believe the villain's words in the future, and they think the villain is very hateful.

2. Contradictions are made public.

Tell a story, Chairman Li, the most annoying thing, is that he was used as a gun by his subordinates, to repair someone, I believe this is also a thing that 99% of the leaders are very disgusted with, since the Yuan Sheng, he has been used as a gun by his subordinates, this is really a shame! But Mr. Li's own level is really limited, the most trusted Lao Shi is just a villain, he likes others to say bad things behind him the most, and his level of speaking is still very high, which always makes Mr. Li feel that Lao Shi is just for work. Xiao Zhou, because he was not right with Lao Shi, was worn by Lao Shi several times, and he was accused many times behind his back.

Others persuaded Xiao Zhou to be soft, worship the dock, admit his mistake to Lao Shi, and laugh at nothing anymore! But Xiao Zhou, I don't believe in this evil, once when Mr. Li was also present, Xiao Zhou deliberately made an unpleasant relationship with Lao Shi, made the contradiction between the two public, and told Mr. Li in detail in front of Mr. Li that Lao Shi had framed himself before. Mr. Li's face was blue and red when he heard this, it turned out that he was used as a gun by Lao Shi, and he didn't believe what Lao Shi said in the future.

You must make the conflict with the villain public!

How to get along with the "villain"? Remember three mantras in order to suffer less!

Look at the gentleman and the villain! Learn from each other's strengths and be careful not to lose yourself.

Patience and wisdom to overcome him.

Everyone wants to be successful at work. There are many factors that determine success, but choosing your own attitude is the most central one. Different attitudes produce very different life experiences and outcomes, because mindset can influence our cognitive approach.

A positive life mindset can help us overcome low self-esteem and fear, help us overcome inertia, explore our potential, and improve the quality and efficiency of our work.

I think it's important to regulate your mindset. The so-called "official level crushes people", besides, this may not be your own problem, in short, do your own work, participate less in the company's gossip, treat the villain as a test or an experience in life, and make yourself happy and confident! Because, there is no shortage of villains in this world!

Generally speaking, we don't care about these people.

There are good people and bad people in life, and good people who are kind and kind are good to get along, if we encounter villains with crooked thoughts and bad behaviors, what should we do? Through the cultural essence left by the ancients, we can learn from the way the ancients treated villains.

When you meet a villain, avoid a villain, and it is inevitable to encounter some people in the workplace who do not agree with your own three views, so it is normal to do your job well.

As the saying goes, "When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds." "No matter what you are working at, it is impossible to meet gentlemen who are united and friendly and help each other.

Basically, everyone comes across one kind of person at work – the "little man" in the office. The typical characteristic of this kind of person is that "there is something to stir up, and nothing to do". When any newcomer arrives in a new unit, this is the kind of person to be wary of.

Now that you think about it, whether you are a newcomer or an old man, you have to beware of this kind of person. Such people "do not achieve enough, but fail more than they do". How do you call it "not enough to achieve, more than to fail"?

In a simple folk language: "Sugar is not sweet, but vinegar is sour". It doesn't necessarily make a difference if he goes to your boss and says something bad about you, but if he says bad things about you in front of your boss, it will definitely affect his boss's opinion of you.