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If there is really love, there is no such thing as a different place, and a different place means that the people in it are not willing to sacrifice for love.
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First of all, I think that the mentality should be correct, you must believe in the other party, and you can't feel that there is no future because of the age difference and long-distance relationship, if you really think like this in your heart, you yourself are already pessimistic at the beginning, so that anyone's preaching is useless, and you may not be able to listen. So, I think the most important thing for you in this situation is to get your mindset right.
Then, let me analyze it again, in fact, I don't think you have to worry so much, your situation is still okay, although it is a long-distance relationship, but you are 6 years apart, then, there will always be one party in your relationship who is more mature and will know how to tolerate, so in this case, the problems that will occur in the long-distance relationship of ordinary couples are unlikely to appear in you. Because the other party will know how to take care of their other half better, although it is a long-distance relationship, but now that the transportation is so developed, the long-distance relationship is no longer an obstacle to the relationship. So, you have to relax, you have to believe in yourself, you have to believe in each other, and you believe that your relationship will definitely go on.
Of course, some problems that will arise in a long-distance relationship should also be noted, such as suspicion of the other party's empathy, etc., which is the most taboo, the other party will feel that you don't believe in yourself, and you will definitely be very sad, in that case, it is actually very unfavorable to your relationship. Of course, you will feel that a long-distance relationship makes you insecure, but you still have to trust the other person and believe in your own vision. Unless you see it with your own eyes, don't doubt it at will, and don't listen to other people's provocations, only if your hearts are firm, then a long-distance relationship cannot become an obstacle to your relationship, and the age difference can promote the harmony of your relationship.
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It is said that age is not a gap, and space is not a distance. I want to tell you that these are all good wishes. In a situation like yours, although there may be a future, it takes more effort and sacrifice than others. Otherwise, your love won't last long.
With a six-year age difference, I don't think it's too much of a problem. Now there are many couples who are five or six years apart, and they are all doing well. Moreover, from the point of view of scientific research, a five-year difference between husband and wife is the best combination, which is conducive to the harmonious coexistence of husband and wife.
If you are six years apart, it should also be a good combination, and it will not affect your marriage and future relationship.
The biggest factor that affects your relationship is the long distance. You must know that long-distance relationships are very hard, and there are many long-distance relationships that end in breakups. Many people can't bear the pain of lovesickness, and more people don't trust each other and are suspicious of each other and their romance changes.
Of course, there are also those who like the new and hate the old without the constraints of the other party, and think differently, and as a result, they are dug away by others digging the foot of the wall of love.
So, if you insist on this long-distance relationship, you must be mentally prepared. It is best to move to the other person's place to work or study, and make the long-distance relationship local. You may lose a lot of things, such as a good job or a good learning environment.
However, this is the surest way to solve the long-distance relationship, so as to ensure that you have a future. Of course, the premise of doing this is that you know each other well enough that you are in love with each other. Don't let you be hot-blooded, and people will be lukewarm to you.
In that case, the sacrifice you make is not worth it.
If you want to have a future with each other, then I suggest you do what I say, otherwise your future will be very confused.
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Yes, there is a saying that as long as it is true love, distance is not a problem. If two people are attached to each other, age and distance will not be an obstacle between you, but if one of you no longer has the kind of love that he had at the beginning, and he no longer likes the other person, then there is no need for age and distance to estranged you, as long as any little thing will become the fuse of your breakup.
Everyone has their own view of love, some people like the object to be by their side, they feel more secure, and if something unexpected happens, the object can also come to you in time to help you and comfort you, but I prefer long-distance relationships, some people say that long-distance relationships are very dangerous, and you will break up if you are not careful. There is no sense of security at all.
You're right, but have you ever considered it from another perspective, if a long-distance relationship can last and finally enter the palace of marriage, then your future marriage will definitely be very happy, because you have experienced many hardships than ordinary couples that they have not experienced. The days will be better and better.
With a six-year difference, do you know what that means? This means that he will spoil you very much, and will let you do everything, and don't the elders like to say that it hurts when you are older? Besides, a boy is psychologically mature slower than girls of the same age, if you find someone who is six years older than you, won't you have this kind of problem?
A long-distance relationship with a boy who is six years apart is well worth trying.
It's easy to have feelings between you, because he treats you well, tolerates and so on in a way that boys of the same age can't give you. A girl I know, she met her in her sophomore year, the boy is just six years older than the girl, and they are not in the same place, because of a chance encounter, and then the two slowly have a relationship, the girl goes to school in city A, and the boy just enters the society in city B.
Although the boy is very busy every day because he is a newcomer, he will always give the girl a ** to listen to each other's affairs, the girl knows that the boy is not easy, and does not urge him, he will play ** when he is free, and he will not use it if he is not free, although he rarely has time to meet, but their relationship is better than those couples around me who are tired of being together every day.
As long as there is love, age is not a problem, and distance is not a problem. On the contrary, there is a gap in age and distance, and love is what we need to look forward to.
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Summary. Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you.
1.The love with a five-year difference, or a long-distance relationship is the most testing of people's feelings.
2.As long as two people don't change their minds about each other, there is no problem in keeping in touch with each other.
3.In the end, we have to stay together.
A long-distance relationship with a five-year difference.
Hello, it is a pleasure to serve you. 1.The love with a difference of five years, or the love of the different macro clusters is the most testing of people's feelings2As long as the two people don't change their minds about each other, it's no problem for the two people to still keep in touch with each other3In the end, we have to stay together.
I am only sixteen years old now, and he is already in his twenties, I live in Guizhou, but he lives in Qingdao, Shandong, I can be sure that I will never change my mind, but I don't know what he thinks, whether he will wait for me.
I met him in online dating, I have suffered a lot of emotional injuries before, and he also has his first love girl that he can't forget.
I disappeared for a few months, and he was looking for me, and then he lost his phone, so he could only go to the shed to search for me and send a message to find me, and I accidentally found out that he had been looking for me.
Sixteen years old, ......That means you still have a long time to go.
He made me feel very insecure and didn't feel like an unimportant person, and I only established a relationship with him a few days ago. Even if Fu Youmu can't be admitted to college and go directly to work, it will take more than three years to grind and tease.
He said he would always wait for me, and I was afraid that he would not be able to wait like others.
You can choose to continue to develop step by step, continue your studies with peace of mind, and then successfully enter the university and then continue to work with him after graduation. Or don't worry, he can't wait, because when the time comes, Litong Qi will break up with you, and you are in your prime, and you can't suffer a loss.
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I think I'm a very cowardly but very rational person, so if it were me, I would choose to go with the flow, not too much entanglement about whether we can end up together, and whether to separate now. Usually chatting and chatting, you don't need to spend special energy and effort to do the so-called things to maintain this relationship, and let Sun Ji take the lead in time. If you find that your relationship has faded that day, it means that you can separate, if your relationship is getting better and better, and when you graduate, you are willing to go to him, then you will really be together.
In short, let time and your heart decide. Don't be fooled by the eyes of the world and do what others think you should do.
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The difference is too big to say that there is a generation gap, the two people can't say that they have the same views and opinions on the same thing, whether they can agree, whether they can understand and tolerate is very important, if it is a short-term relationship, it is nothing, if it is a long-term relationship, it is more long-term, and the relationship needs to be carefully examined. Do you say age isn't a problem? Distance isn't an issue?
Are you sure? I think it's also a score situation, socks line, love is the premise, and the three differences are very important.
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It's exactly the same as my original situation, the two of us are nine years old, in a different place, he is still a doctor, I think very naïve, he was very good to me at first, and then he was impatient, the long-distance relationship of the same age can not stand the test, let alone so much worse, you will be more and more tired, you will find that his concept of love and your concept of love is not at all the same, in his place love is only a small part of life, his heart is basically Qingtong wheel in the career study, and for you love may be a large part, This will make you feel that the reputation is unfair, the full of dissatisfaction will increase, he will change some of your perceptions, and you will be miserable after the breakup, and he is just understating it.
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After graduating from the college entrance examination, I stayed in the province, he went to Shanghai, and added sisters and brothers in different places, well, in my opinion, this is not a matter of consideration, as long as you love each other, then you can be together, distance or anything is not a problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and seven months for more than a day, and we have been in a different place for a year and a half, hahaha, and we are far away and the two are poor, so naturally we can't see each other often. I love him very much, and I feel that he loves me a little more, although I feel very uncomfortable when I start to see others, but after a long time, it fades.
I think of him every day, I am happy to see him, he smiles at me, and I feel that the whole world is blooming. What is age, although I am older than him, but I am very dependent on him, although we are far away, but we still love each other.
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These two kinds of relationships have a layer of imprint: unreliable, and if the distance is in the heart, then it is the same. If the estrangement is in the heart, the scum or the sister is not the same, the psychological age gap is more important than the actual age gap, the concept is complementary and the feelings are taken from each other, and the excuse that too many lovers are not loving enough has become a long-distance relationship and a sibling relationship.
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The age gap is not a problem, the psychological age gap is; Long-distance relationships are not a problem, Wang Yu has no plans to run together. To sum it up: the important thing is that you believe in the future and work hard for it. Sleepy hand rolling.
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How to say it. Growing up, all the girls I liked were older than me. And none of these girls want to be with me, for a simple reason:
I don't like people who are younger than me, who are insecure and can't take care of people (even if I'm a cancer). When I was in high school, I finally met a girl who was not oozing her age, and I haven't caught up with it yet...In fact, I don't care about age, as a man, since you dare to like a girl older than you, it means that you have the ability to go to the state to take care of her. It's just about whether the other person likes you or not.
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