Why grow up, the more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and the more you grow up, the more tr

Because you have to grow up, you have to be on your own, and you can't rely on your parents for a lot of things.

Growth is rewarding, but it is also losing. It's simple to be happy when you're a kid, and it's simple and happy when you grow up.

Because you have grown up and matured in your thinking, there must be more troubles.

It's wrong, it's because I know too many people, and I just think too much.

Only a coward asks this and asks, and you should try to adapt to it, not run away from it.

This thing is normal in adolescence, mental reaction.

That's the inevitable result of personality change, it's not that the more you grow up, the more lonely you are, but as you get older, your friends will be entangled in your life and work, so you will feel lonely when you have less time to communicate, in fact, you can enrich your life, and you won't feel lonely when you find that half of your life! People always have to grow up! Alone is also the road to go through in life!

If there is no one alone in one's life! Then how does he understand the road of life and how to grow up Because everyone grows up has their own ideals, they have to find their own future, and they are destined to go their own way, so they are more and more lonely that is the effect of the heart, because people grow up and think about more things, it will ignore the people around them, such as parents, so we should think about not being good to me, so that we will not be lonely and lonely. More and more can see the hypocrisy and artificiality of people, which makes people not want to get close to it anymore.

I feel less and less credible friends, and I can't confide in many people, so I feel more and more lonely! I always remember how happy so many friends were when I was a child, and now that I am getting bigger and bigger, my friends have their own lives, and I am indeed getting more and more lonely as you said! Because I understand, I didn't have to think about anything when I was a child, I just knew how to play, and I was carefree all day long.

I think a lot about it, and I have it in many things, like falling out of love, etc., and sometimes I feel the same way. Maybe it's because I've grown up. There are so many things to think about.

I can't live as carefree as I did when I was a child. It's okay. I want to open up a little bit, sometimes maybe.

When I was young, everyone would have a lot of friends, everyone was very innocent and pure, playing together, learning together, and there would be no miscellaneous things. But when I grow up, I have to face more social problems, and some enthusiastic help may not be out of kindness but more for profit, and it is difficult to find the best friends who talk about everything like before. Many problems need to be faced by oneself, and there will not be much help from others, so you can only solve them by yourself.

In fact, no matter in **, after going to society, you have to live independently, but people who are far away from home have a deeper experience. Think back to when you were very young, **know what it means to be lonely? The boy doesn't know what it's like to be sad.

However, as long as we live our lives to the fullest, do more meaningful things that we like, make more friends worth making, and most importantly, believe in ourselves, we will never be alone.

Maybe it's forced by life, and there is less contact with others, so you can make more friends, so you won't be lonely, maybe the pressure is too great, and you will feel lonely in your heart, you can go to the gym to vent, it will be better.

Loneliness is that you have no goals in your heart, such as love, work, money, etc., find the goals in your heart and work hard to accomplish them, even if you are alone, you will not be alone.

When you grow up, you all want to have your own career and have your own things to do, so if you want not to alienate your friends, you can take the initiative to contact your friends! Friends will be too busy with their own careers to contact you, but if you take the initiative, I think your friends can still find some time for you!

As you grow up, others will understand you less, your parents can't love you like when you were a child, your family is the same, not all of them, you have friends, friends are an indispensable part of growing up with you.

The older you get, the more lonely you become - milk coffee. ***

I'll send you high sound quality, wait a minute.

In fact, it is not your heart that is lonely, but your people, and the people around you come and go, and no one stays. Restless, because there are too many strange things. Troubles, that's the price you have to pay for growth

Hello, this is a song, you can listen to it, of course, if you say your own words, I can help you analyze it: generally speaking, you can feel that friends in primary school are the most intimate and sincere, and they are good friends for life. Because everyone's thinking is not mature in elementary school, everything will be turned into a big thing and a small thing, and they are still good friends.

But as we grow older and our minds become more and more mature, we will have a feeling of boredom and dislike for everything around us, and I also have this feeling. After falling out with friends, it won't end like this, although it will still be reconciled in the end, but as long as you quarrel once, the relationship is not as good as once, and over time you will be lonely, and you will feel that the people around you are not your confidants.

But don't be in a hurry when you encounter this situation, you have to try to open your heart, accept everyone, avoid quarrels, walk around outdoors with friends more, go on outings together, watch movies, picnics, and try not to refuse. This time you will win more friends. In this way, your personality will gradually become extroverted, of course, the opposite sex is also very important, and friends of the opposite sex are also very good!!

So, will you still be lonely? No, this is my personal experience, I hope you won't be alone in the future.

That's because the feelings when I was a child were very innocent, without any interference from external factors, it was easy to get along with people, like is like, dislike is not like, and making friends is simple and simple.

And when they grow up, people's feelings are disturbed by external factors, they like to become afraid to like, they hate to become afraid to hate, they think a lot about making friends, they think about interests, they think about interests, and people always seem to be interacting with each other through a membrane, so they will feel more and more lonely.

Many factors mainly depend on the disturbance of society's emotions on one's own mentality. Let go of your mood, you must learn to face this society with a different mentality, mainly the circle of friends, my friends often say, a person who does not deliberately harm you, you can be a friend, see what kind of way you want to talk to him, haha, understand.

It is right to grow up lonely, and to be able to appreciate loneliness means that we are still alive.

Because you are an introvert, but you lack the innocence of childhood, you are frustrated in the face of the reality of society.

Everyone has such thoughts, but this is reality, there is no escape, only face. Find a way that suits you, adjust your mentality, and accept the reality. I used to think like this, I'm a girl, I will cry a lot when I have this kind of thought, but I am also very strong, so I can only slowly adapt to this kind of life, slowly change myself, this requires a process, go through this process, it's good, now I'm very happy, look down on everything.

As long as you don't have a stake in me, who loves it. Don't ask, just do your own good life.

Because as you grow up, you lose a lot of things, like friends.

Because of the different choices you make, so will the distance.

Then even if the friendship is, it has faded a lot.

So people will be lonely. But we will also make a lot of new friends, but they can only come and go on our growth path, and they will only stay in the future.

So loneliness is also a sign of growth. Negative, positive depends on your attitude.

Therefore, we are distressed, so we choose to escape or even close ourselves, so we feel lonely, in fact, you are not alone, you still have many friends, boldly confide in them.

The more you grow up, the more you want in your heart, the more dissatisfied you become, and people are greedy. In fact, it is not a good thing to be sensible, if you know too much, the more you are afraid of being understood, you will disguise yourself, and you will be tired of living. It's the result of a vicious circle.

Because when you grow up, your ability will be greater, and your responsibility will be greater, so bearing is also part of the maturity experience!

The more you grow up, the more you understand, the more reality you discover, the more defensive you become, and the more withdrawn you become.

Because when you grow up, you have a lot of responsibilities to bear.

It can't be as carefree as it was when I was a kid.

The responsibility is great, the burden on the shoulders is heavy, and there is too much thinking.

Because I've grown up, I've thought about it a lot.

This question.

To bring the actual age, there are different ideas for each age stage.

Are you alone? What do you want to say.

Everyone has this rush.

The more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and the more you grow up, the more uneasy you become.

Me too, feeling more and more that I don't like to talk, and I have few friends.

The key to finding happiness for oneself lies in one's own heart.

Isn't it, the more people grow up, the more unhappy they become, and the more they grow up, the more lonely they become!

It's easy to be happy when you're young, and it's easy to be happy when you're growing up.

When I grow up, I have more desires, more worries, more ideas, more complicated ways to see things, and the world in my eyes is full of hypocrisy, interests, and competition... Gradually, I don't dare to trust people easily, and I don't dare to confide in people, so the more lonely I become.

People will gradually mature as they grow up. The outlook on life, values, and the world will become clearer and clearer, so the differences between people and people will continue to grow. Coupled with the different living and working environments, there will definitely be a lot of estrangement, resulting in the loss of intimacy between former friends.

This is normal. Almost all of us are experiencing, not your failures.

We always have a lot of things to do, we always have a lot to fight for, we miss a lot, friends don't often contact, there are fewer words, the people who can talk to us are scattered around the world, there has been no news for a long time, one day suddenly you suddenly find that you want to find a shoulder when there is no one to rely on, we must grow, some things must learn to face by ourselves. Everyone is like this, this is the price to pay for growth, but we have to be grateful for that beautiful time, we also have to strive to cherish those former friends, don't always say that there is no time, feelings need to be managed, no matter how busy you are to say hello, at least let friends know that you care, one day you will find that no matter you are not alone, you will always have someone around you to support you, this is your backing, your strength!

The more I grew up, the more uneasy I became, and everyone was like this, and I couldn't open my heart anymore.