People in the mixed workplace say that they are tired, will you grasp the scale?

It can't be represented, but to a certain extent, it will escalate to heart death.

As far as the nature of society is concerned, your current mentality should be partly due to the rebellion of your own three views and social normality, so it is tired. Because in terms of the nature of human evolution, in the past few thousand years, and now, in fact, the basic pattern has not changed, and we are all slaves under desire. As far as modern society is concerned, laughing at poverty is rampant, and everything is for profit, which is already a tacit fact for many people.

And this fact itself is actually different from the education received when I was a child, many times, especially the family environment in which parents are more honest and kind. And the existence of these differences will cause us to feel out of place and a lonely monster after entering society. Those with a realistic mentality may blend into it and become a part of it, at least pretend to be confused.

And what the concept has not changed for a long time is that it has become the dust of history, and when you walk there, you will feel wrong, and you will feel uncomfortable doing anything.

As far as my own concept is concerned, what you need to understand now is what you are pursuing and what kind of life you want. If you don't have much need for material things, and you don't see your false friends lightly, then you can't let go of those things that you can't ask for, and live a simple life, at least, freedom. If you feel that material cravings are still necessary, then the concept needs to change, at least, to do it, it is rare to be confused.

It's rare to be confused, not to let you give up your own concept and indulge yourself, but to learn to go along with the dirt when protecting yourself.

I don't know about you.

How is it now, I feel that your experience is similar to what I am now, I don't know why, as long as I go to work, I will panic, I am afraid of encountering things that I can't do, people are indeed not born to do everything, often think so, but I just can't relax, I am also very repulsive to the new environment, and new people will be afraid of contact, maybe timid, or social fear, I want to know how you are now, can I also change, I am now in this job, I really can't do it, I feel so tired, and my heart is even more tired.

What I want to tell you is:

Your psyche is fine, it's yoursTimid and unconfident.

Playing tricks!

Why do you feel that others look down on you?

When you arrive in a new place, you are a new person and you have a lot to learn. A new working environment, new colleagues, a new starting point. It's something you need to adapt to.

You haven't met any of your new colleagues, so what's there to look down on? It's just a strangeness that people don't know each other！It takes a process for people to get acquainted with each other, and you won't be very enthusiastic when you meet strangers, right?

If you can't stand even the slightest bit of social pressure, how can you still do your job? How do you meet new people? How do you go about achieving your goals?

To overcome these two points, I suggest that you go before going to do a new job that your friend introduced1;Carefully understand the content to be done in advance, so that you can better get the first influence of the unit and colleagues.

2: Walk with your head held high, speak in a higher voice, smile and behave naturally

3: Don't care too much about other people's eyes, there's nothing to be afraid of, you don't know them well

4: Think about your goals in life, think about your parents' expectations and your friends' concerns, don't let them or let yourself down.

5: When you are usually at home, study more and practice reading aloud more. Greet and make contact with people, smile calmly, and nod your head.

And so on, you have to learn little by little. Remember: this is just a minor drawback, not a psychological problem. You can't use your shortcomings as a reason or excuse for not working hard.

May I be happy.

I think my thoughts are different from them, first of all, you are a woman, and secondly, you are either afraid of contact with people, or you are not confident, this is the root cause, because of your lack of confidence, you will be afraid to communicate with people, so some things at work will be hindered, so you will be afraid of work, which is why you don't want to do it after working for a few days, because you don't fit in, you always feel excluded, In fact, this will be the case when you enter every new job, so you are constantly changing new jobs and quitting, and then you are very dependent on your boyfriend, which will also be a dangerous thing, because although men and women are in love, they are also independent existences, and long-term dependence is only afraid that they will be disliked, so you have to be confident is the key.

1.Do you feel particularly lazy? 2. Do you feel that you don't like to do things with your hands?

Try not to do what you can. 3. Do you feel that your house is always dirty and messy, 4. Do you feel that as long as you do tired work, you feel that you are going to be sick. All sorts of excuses.

5. Is there a feeling of liking to rely on others...

Don't change your behavior because of other people's attitudes

No matter how much others evaluate, they can't match their own affirmation.

Be decisive, don't need to be afraid of the consequences, people can't be prophetic.

Therefore, failure is inevitable. The important thing is that we can accept it.

Ability to find success in failure

Your mentality + working environment I understand your feelings. First, the work does not feel fulfilling. There is no return for what you give.

There is no sense of accomplishment. Doing so is not only physically tiring. My heart is tired.

Give yourself a day off. Make it easy for yourself.

This is a matter of your mentality, and it is recommended to watch more chicken soup for the soul to relieve your emotions.

In addition to the difficulty of the work itself, the body is often tired of the habits that you neglect.

For example, serious air pollution in offices and indoors, long-term failure to clean air conditioning filters, and serious indoor air standards can seriously deprive your respiratory health, lack of oxygen in your blood and lack of oxygen in your organs. This is a serious problem. It is also common and ignored by many office workers.

Not just exhausting, but can lead to serious physical illness. This is the reason for the high incidence of lung cancer and respiratory diseases.

This is true in the workplace, and the same is true in your bedroom when you return home, you must ventilate and open the windows for ventilation, and you can't rely on air purifiers.

With a good body, any problem can be solved, and time can open the treasure box of all secrets.

I wish you health and happiness.

You feel tired, because you have not achieved results, so you must work hard, improve your level and ability, improve the moral cultivation and theoretical knowledge of ideological awareness, as long as you work hard to meet the above conditions, why worry about not finding a job, why worry about not working well. Here I send you eight words on the road of life: truth-seeking, kindness, beauty, diligence, exploration, and innovation.

These eight words can solve all problems, all things. I wish you new achievements in life.

I also have this problem, mainly because I look down on myself and always feel worthless. It should be a problem of kidney qi deficiency.

This is not a psychological problem, and it is useless to find a psychiatrist. I've also experienced it, and it's good if the kidney qi is restored.

In fact, like you, I have never been in a job for a long time, I don't know what I want to do, I don't know what I want to do in the future, and I don't know what I can do. I can't stick to everything, and I don't have dreams, I don't have motivation. You don't want to move, you don't want to go out all day, in fact, it's your own problem, because you want to get to the sky in one step, you want to get what you want without doing it, or it may be because you are too dependent on someone, something.

Find a job you like, no matter how much money you have, at least what you like, your life is still long, slowly, you will understand that in fact, many things are not as important as what you like to do.

I'm like this too, I have no choice but to force myself to persevere.

It is recommended that you go to rest and rest, it may be that the pressure is too much, adjust your mentality before working!

I'm so tired too! It's physically tired! It's like doing physical work.

Let's be the same, do you want to add a friend and communicate. I'm also level 10.

This is because you have been too morally collective since you were a child.

It's okay, just look at other people's lives and you'll know.

I'm like that now, too dependent on my boyfriend, I want to ask what happened to you?

Change yourself, learn to enrich yourself, learn to please others, otherwise you will be really tired.

Then why don't you do it the other way.

Don't worry too much about it, give him more space for himself.

You have restrained him too much, you can grasp the scale, especially important things, you intervene in matters involving principles, and small things can make him autonomous.

Give each other space and don't be too harsh.

You treat him too much, and he feels pressured in his heart.

In fact, you don't understand the meaning of his words, he doesn't want to talk to you anymore, which can be said to be an excuse.

Your boyfriend made it clear that this was just an excuse to break up.

It feels like a euphemism for a breakup.

I also copy sales, and we all have the same.

Bai feelings, but I have been insisting on it for 2 years, zhi has suffered from the cold eyes of others, distrust, and discrimination, but these are all things that we have to find a way to overcome, aren't they? We are always thinking about how others will believe in me and how to cooperate happily, but we should think more from the other person's point of view, what would you do if you were him?Start simply, let others understand yourself, and you won't be so tired of doing anything, of course, not everyone is ruthless, and there are many people who understand us.

For those who understand us, we must also persevere!

I don't have the ability to bear it at all!Everything is from difficult to easy, only if you persevere!Think of setbacks as a grind for yourself.

There will always be some difficulties in the workplace, it can't be smooth sailing, don't think about having suicidal emotions, suicidal life is irresponsible to parents and irresponsible to yourself, for the better tomorrow, come on!

Over and over again, if you want to die, hurry up and die.

In fact, in this impetuous society, many people can't find spiritual sustenance, and they don't have someone they trust to confide in. Troubles piled up in my heart, and it became more and more uncomfortable. Soncone Confiding is for them, you can choose to confide anonymously here, and there are many little brothers and sisters with good voices to give you advice and help you wholeheartedly

Ask the reason and communicate well. Seeing this, it should be the rhythm to be separated.

Obviously, if you want to break up, either the two people have no space for each other, and they are too depressed, so they should be separated appropriately.

My boyfriend told me that he was tired because I didn't understand him, that I was not doing well and that I was asking me to correct it.

I told him I was tired and wanted to break up with him.

The woman is in charge of everything, the king is the hegemon, unreasonable, and now the man is tired and wants to give up.

You can't be stalked, give each other a little space, and be quiet.

At this time, he needs your comfort, and then you give him a kiss gently, and nothing will happen

Give each other a little personal space ,,, calm down...

That is to say, give each other a little space.

After learning the technology, let's break up!Marry's!

He loves you so much that he is tired and wants to let go.

I'm not interested in you, I'm about to break up.

If you are reluctant, then slowly run in, it is not easy to find someone to understand each other.

Tiredness is something that both of you feel is not as good as before, so you should talk about your heart.

It can be adjusted appropriately, and some words are really tired or they still have to communicate with each other, and there is no hurdle that cannot be passed.

When you are tired of love, you want to break up, and you don't know how to cherish it.

That's how life is. It's impossible to be romantic every day. Mutual tolerance,

There are many reasons why you should pay attention to the maintenance and care of your relationship in the long run, and there will be problems if you find it in this way.

Yes, but everyone understands.

You're not wrong, everyone's personality is different, you don't need to change if you don't like that, but others are not you, so don't care what others say, just understand yourself!

You may be more simple and casual and don't like complicated things! But people are social animals, and if everyone thinks that you are not in groups, then you should find your own reasons? Getting along with colleagues is not about trying to please anyone!

It's just that you should have a lot of colleagues, and there will definitely be one or two like-minded people, and it is impossible for everyone to think that you are not easy to get along with, right?

You're right, you can choose to keep going, you can look at it in a different direction, but you have to have the courage to start all over again.

You're not wrong, it's just that most people in this society are used to pleasing others and their superiors, and equality between people has long since ceased to exist, leaving only superiors and subordinates.

Of course, the work circle can not always rely on your own personality, you think this is the true temperament, others will think that you are willful, think twice about everything, and colleagues and friends are different, just grasp the appropriate scale.