How did you and your significant other come to be in a long distance relationship?

I have been with my boyfriend for six years and have been in a different place for four years. It is also expected that the next few years will be off-site. At one point, we parted peacefully.

I couldn't get through the hardest two days. Call him, but he is on the phone. At that moment, I thought of countless possibilities.

Hung up**, but found that his ** called in, and the first thing he said was to ask me who I was just talking to**, and why I was on the phone. Since then, I know that nothing can ever separate us anymore.

My boyfriend is in Dalian, I'm in Jinzhou, long-distance relationship for three years, all rely on ** and letters, during the holidays, I will go to Dalian to see him, at that time there was not such a developed network as now, and it was impossible to ** or something, with love for each other, and loyalty, we finally settled in Dalian.

The important thing is not a long-distance relationship, but whether you love her, my girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, and now that we are married, nothing can stop a heart that loves her and wants to see her, and those who are in a different place can go to her when they have time.

Long-distance relationships are testing. If it is persistent love, loyalty, and love, no matter how far away the two hearts are, they are closely connected.

Although I don't see each other as often as we do together, I will create some surprises and surprises for her every once in a while, which I think is very important to maintain a relationship.

We were together in high school, and now one is in the south and the other is in college in the north, as a boy to be more proactive and caring, I will fly to her if I have nothing to do, even if it is just a weekend, it is the same.

Although there is a distance, I can't resist the heart of the two to meet, so I can buy a ticket to find her every Saturday in order to see her.

He and I trust each other and communicate with each other every day. Meet regularly, and when you meet, you will create surprises and express your feelings.

I'm afraid that the long-distance relationship will not have any good results, the long-distance relationship that I have maintained for five years has ended, and there is no end in sight to how to persist in going on.

Of course, my partner and I have had the experience of long-distance relationships, we worked in different cities when we first fell in love, and we didn't live together until three years after marriage, after all, long-distance relationships will affect the relationship between two people.

When I was in love, the other party and I were alone in Sichuan and one in Xinjiang, which led to the long-term long-distance state of the two people, but it did not affect the relationship between the two people at all. The other party has relatively more vacation time, so he will go home every time he rests, after all, we are both from Sichuan, and when he comes back, we can enjoy the world of the two to the fullest, so as to establish a deep relationship, rather than just hearing each other's voices. Although in a long-distance relationship, fortunately, there are still a few times a year to meet, which will also comfort you and make you feel that the other party has not disappointed you.

Although he and the other party were in a long-distance relationship at the beginning and were usually sloppy people, on their first birthday after marriage, the other party bought himself a watch in advance, which was enough to move him. I thought that the other party would not remember his birthday, after all, the other party was very busy at work, and he couldn't even remember his parents' birthdays except for his own birthday, and it was very touching to be able to give himself gifts. In fact, I am a person who is willing to be plain, as long as the other party has himself in his heart, it is enough, but the occasional small calendar surprise will make me very happy, thinking that I have met the right person.

However, long-distance relationships do require a lot of tests, and long-distance relationships cannot give people a sense of security, and will make them unable to arrive in time when they need each other. We must know that everyone will have a vulnerable time, especially when the other party can't accompany them during special periods, they will let themselves be disappointed, which leads to the need for long-distance relationships to have firm beliefs, so as not to affect each other's feelings.

For me, a long-distance relationship is really hard, but as long as I get through it, I can at least let myself reap the sweet love. When you are in a long-distance relationship, you must give enough trust to each other, so that you can bring confidence to each other, which will help each other's feelings.

On my emotional path, I had a long-distance relationship with my partner, and after graduating from college, the two of us experienced a long-distance relationship for 2 years. I was very touched by the fact that the subject had a quarrel with his family and gave up a stable job in the system for the sake of me. Because of this, he gave up his career, and the two came to a city to start working hard again.

The ancients once said: "You can't have both fish and bear's paws", and between love and career, we must make a choice. Some people choose career, and some people choose love.

My lover and I belong to the latter group and have given up our respective careers; At the moment, although life is dull and the family is not rich, we live happily.

My lover and I met in college, and at that time I liked to go to the library, and I often met my lover in the library, and after a long time, I got to know each other. Because we like to read, we have a lot of common topics, and the relationship has changed from strangers to ordinary friends, and finally Tachibana and Tachibana have developed into lovers step by step.

Because the two majors are different, the employment units signed during college are also different. After working for half a year, his lover was called back by his family and began to concentrate on preparing for the civil service exam. As an engineering man, after graduating from university, I went directly to the construction site to "move bricks".

After two years of long-distance relationship, we had quarrels, and I personally thought about giving up. But the lover has always been unswerving, and it is her persistence that makes our love come to fruition.

In order to be able to be with me, my lover wanted to quit his job in the system and come to the city where I worked, despite the opposition of his family. Such a persistence deeply moved me, and I couldn't bear to let her work hard for love alone.

After quitting his job, he came to a city not far from his lover to work and live, and everything started again; Then she quit her job, persuaded her family, and came to the city we had agreed to and started to create our own future together.

The relationship is so wonderful, so that two strangers who have never known each other come together because of love, and they also become husband and wife because of love, and begin to raise the next generation.

I had a long-distance relationship with my other half, and the most touching thing that the other person did to me was to buy a ticket from his school to my school without my knowledge, and then he appeared downstairs in my dormitory and gave me a very big surprise, which made me feel very happy.

Everyone says that after a long-distance relationship is over, it will be forever, but it is conceivable that if a couple does not see each other often and is not together, it will make the other party insecure. Long-distance relationships are not like other lovers, although long-distance relationships can often hit **, but they can't stay by the lover's side all the time and feel the care of the lover. Some people say that a long-distance relationship is similar to online dating, two people can't see each other, they can only communicate with each other on the Internet, fall in love on their mobile phones, and when the other party is sick or has something, they can't come to their lover's side in time, which will make couples feel insecure.

My boyfriend and I were in a long-distance relationship when we were in college, and we would talk to each other after class every day, even if he was opposite, he would turn ** on while playing games, so that he could feel each other's existence. Even so, if you have been in a long-distance relationship for a long time, it will be easy to have conflicts, two people always quarrel because of a little thing, and the ** who quarrels is nothing more than insecurity, feeling that each other is not around, and always feeling that he is doing something we don't know on the other side.

In my impression, my Shenyin boyfriend did the most touching thing for me, that day we quarreled, I was very angry, and then ignored him, and didn't even reply to the message, a few hours later, he called me **, asked me to go downstairs, and when I went downstairs to see him, at that moment I really had all the grievances or something that had been relieved, and I felt very moved.

In love, two people need to understand each other and think about each other, after all, love will be better if they run towards each other. When we choose to fall in love, don't doubt each other because of a long-distance relationship, a fate can not end because of the place, as long as we survive the long-distance relationship, then we are rushing to the idea of marriage.

Yes, my boyfriend and I should be regarded as a different tenant to mark the country, and the most touching thing should be to participate in the signing and selling of my favorite boy group for me, because I know that I like this group, and I also helped me collect all the ** records and peripheral magazines of this team.

I have never been in a relationship myself, let alone a long-distance relationship. But I heard that the moving thing about a long-distance relationship lies in crossing thousands of mountains and rivers, working hard to meet, and although the meeting is short, it makes the shirt feel long.

I think I'll do it, but it still depends on the actual situation, if I say that I am very busy at work, I don't have time, I won't force it like this, two people don't care about meeting for a while, and the New Year's Eve is not how important it is, there is no need to be entangled because of this matter!

1. A correct understanding of the sense of crisis of Zhishen, the sense of crisis, the fear of losing the other party, and the fear that the other party will betray him. These are some thoughts of both parties in a long-distance relationship, and if you keep thinking about these bad places, you will also subtly and automatically list some of the other party's behaviors among them. Think about it the other way around, is this an opportunity?

Real gold is not afraid of fire, and this is precisely an opportunity to test both sides.

You can understand it as blind optimism, but that's the way it is, it's better than being suspicious and suspicious of each other. Away is sometimes really more cherished than close: I'd rather be away from you and feel close than close to you and feel far away.

If online dating that can't meet makes people feel very good, then long-distance relationships also meet this feeling.

2. Communicate regularly and in a timely manner, but avoid excessive regular communication, just like a normal couple saying hello in the morning, good night in the evening, chatting within the same time These regular communication will form a habit, so that the other party feels loved and cared for every day. Timeliness means that some things that are easy to cause misunderstandings are timely, communicate with the other party in advance, and let them understand your approach, which is what we often say about getting vaccinated in advance. The purpose of communication is also to reassure the other party about what your itinerary is and what you have to do, which is mostly said to make the other party feel safe.

3, there are common hobbies, both parties are involved, and if you don't have one, you can cultivate one, hail and take land, for example, if the other party likes to chase dramas, then you also chase that drama, discuss the plot together, and discuss your own feelings. If you like to play games, then play a game together. In short, both parties are involved, there is a topic, there is companionship, and there is a common experience, so that the other party feels that they are not alone, and there is less loneliness.

There won't be so much anxiety.