What do you think about accepting a new relationship immediately after a breakup?

Updated on amusement 2024-05-15
32 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Accept new feelings, as long as you are happy, so that you have no troubles, it's okay, I ran out in the middle of the night today just to end it, I still feel a little heartache, but time is medicine, you feel that you can't accept it all at once, you can not express your position first, be a good friend first, hehe!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Either they didn't take their previous relationship seriously at all, or they wanted to forget about that relationship as soon as possible.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's not a bad thing to step out of the shadows of the past and start over. The key is whether you really let go of the previous ones, or do you do it just to dodge.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I haven't really loved that person. It is also a manifestation of irresponsibility to oneself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This is not the case, whether it is just ending a relationship and wanting to have another partner as soon as possible, or just breaking up and not knowing whether to accept the next one, or embracing the state of being single, returning to their own needs and allowing themselves to grow quickly. No one in this world is a true master of love, but everyone has a heart, and no one's broken love is so chic. If you want to get out, you can do it in many ways, such as traveling, working hard, learning a skill, and more.

    If you want to save him, you can adjust your emotions, eliminate distractions, and find a professional mentor to help you improve yourself and repair your love.

    Of course, if you feel that the previous relationship is not worth cherishing, then it is okay to start a new relationship again. In psychology, a new relationship that starts immediately after a breakup is called a ** relationship, which means that after a romantic relationship ends, a new relationship starts immediately, and the problems of the previous relationship have not been completely resolved. After a breakup, can it really hurt to start a relationship again?

    Let's take a look at psychoanalysis. What are the benefits of relationships? The previous relationship has just ended, and the next one is quickly filled, and if the previous problems are not resolved, a new relationship is established immediately.

    Distract and relieve the negative emotions that come with falling out of love. I have to admit that quickly entering a new relationship after a breakup can alleviate the negative emotions caused by a broken love. Studies have shown that people who enter the best relationship after a breakup will get rid of their emotional attachment to their ex, as well as negative emotions such as loneliness, anxiety, and sadness brought about by the breakup.

    But this is only the effect of the honeymoon period of the new relationship, and the lasting effect is not long-lasting. You may lose your mind and find someone you can be with without a detailed examination and testing of a person, so you are not responsible for yourself. If you find someone who is unkind, you will be hurt again.

    The new relationship has not yet shaken off the shadow of the ex, especially the one that was broken up. You may still love your ex and miss your ex. As long as your desire for your ex doesn't go away, this can affect the quality of your new relationship.

    You're not an actor and can't keep performing, and your true psychology will be felt by your new partner, who will have serious doubts about whether you chose him as a substitute because you love the other person. The poor quality of your new relationship will make you miss your ex and feel that your ex is good, which will make you fall into a vicious circle. Once caught in this vicious cycle, your love life can be extremely bad, and you will be living with the torment of your ex and the present on a daily basis.

    You will use the standards of your predecessor to choose and treat the psychology of the present. This phenomenon is known as the phenomenon of empathy, meaning that they may look for a new partner who has some similarities with their past partner and project their feelings for their past partner onto the new partner.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After a breakup, you definitely can't start a new relationship right away, because you haven't come out of the previous relationship, you go to start a new relationship, and it's easy for you to make mistakes. This will only make you more miserable in the end. Therefore, you must let yourself completely forget about it before you can start a new life, so that you can get what you want.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, after a breakup, you have to start a new relationship immediately.

    Because you are hurt by the other party after the breakup, you will feel very empty and lonely inside. This is when someone is needed to comfort you.

    And after you have a new relationship, you won't think about the old days again.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think that after a breakup, you shouldn't start a new relationship immediately, because if you just broke up, then you must still have nostalgia or nostalgia for the previous relationship. Then you should think about it, think about your last relationship, what went wrong between the two of you? If you have your own problems, then you must correct them, you must think about them well, you must think about them, and then you can start the next relationship, so that your feelings for yourself will be more durable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think I can start my current relationship after a breakup. Because not being prepared, it may even be a disservice to the other party. The best thing to do is to calm down for 1 or 2 months, then go out and make more friends, and then choose the right way to do it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think you should start a new relationship right away. Because after a breakup, you can't immediately owe me a relationship, and you can't just forget your ex immediately, and it may not be irrational to start a new relationship at this time. It's not good for relationships.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think you should start a new relationship immediately after a breakup, because after two people break up, your mood is very low, and you can't get along with another person well, and you can't devote yourself to another relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think that after a breakup, you can't start your new relationship immediately, I think because this is a blessing or you need to adjust your mood, or keep yourself in a good state, only in this way will you make your state better and better, and you can make your heart feel at ease, so don't start your new relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You shouldn't start a new relationship immediately after a breakup, because there will be a certain amount of trauma after a breakup, and you should give yourself a calm time to think about why it is a failed relationship, and then start the next relationship after thinking about it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think I can start a new relationship immediately after a breakup. First of all, it is not responsible for the current situation, and it is also irresponsible for yourself. It takes a while to calm down, say 3 to 5 months before thinking about starting a new relationship.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It depends on the situation, if you are older, you can start a new relationship immediately after the breakup. If you are not very old, you can adjust your mindset and wait for the right person slowly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After breaking up, you should not start a new relationship immediately, you should precipitate it first, let yourself think clearly about what kind of lover you want to find, and then look for it according to the actual situation, in addition to using this time to try to improve your quality in all aspects.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it's not suitable for me to start my new relationship immediately after the breakup, because at this time, I still need to summarize the experience and lessons, and only in this way will I have a better harvest in my next relationship, so let's summarize the experience and lessons.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If a new relationship is involved, I think you should start a new relationship, if not, adjust your mentality, and then look for it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Breaking up is harmful to any lover, they should not look for a partner during the window period, they should use this period to work hard to correct their mistakes, so that they can find a more suitable person and have a longer love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It depends on whether you still have each other in your heart, it can only be said that everyone's thoughts are different, I believe that most people will not start a new relationship immediately after breaking up, they will adjust their mood, and after completely putting each other down in their hearts, they will start their new relationship again.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it takes some time to buffer, so it shouldn't be.

    As long as you pay true love, it will be very sad to break up. So I think I need to leave a certain amount of space for myself to reflect on the problems that arise in this relationship. Then it is more appropriate to start a new relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think you should start a new relationship immediately after a breakup, mainly because you have invested in each other's sincerity in the previous relationship, and it is difficult to calm down emotionally at the beginning of the breakup, and it is difficult to devote yourself to a new relationship. In this way, it is not only irresponsible to yourself, but also irresponsible to your other half, it is best to have a period of time, your mood has completely calmed down, so that you can better start a new relationship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Personally, I feel that it is not suitable to start a new relationship immediately after a breakup, so I should first think about what is wrong with myself, and then make a change, make an adjustment, and then make life normal, and then think about what new feelings are in place.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think so, because you will definitely be very sad when you just break up, whether you still love each other or not, you will definitely be very reluctant, because you used to like each other so much, you have become accustomed to the existence of each other, and then as soon as you break up, you will start a new relationship immediately, you must not have the heart to start a new relationship at that time, you force yourself to start a new relationship, it is irresponsible to this new other half.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This depends on what kind of mentality you have to look at the previous breakup, I broke up before because I really didn't like each other, then I think you can find someone you like when you start another relationship, in fact, it's a good thing, at least it won't be so painful for yourself, but on the contrary, if you are still in love with each other and separated, I advise you not to start another relationship Why because it's unfair to that person, you still love each other, If you are separated for unavoidable reasons, you will definitely miss it, and if you miss it, it will be really unfair to the other person.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You shouldn't start a new relationship right away.

    Because you always have to save some face for your ex, you have to have a window period, and you are too anxious to start a new relationship, which will make you at a loss.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't make this choice, because I think that after I break up now, my mood is very sad and very sad, and I want to come out of such a failed relationship before starting my new relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Generally not, two people have been together for a long time, how much will have feelings, it is very sad after the breakup, you must be sad for a period of time before you can come out, if you break up and find a new love immediately, it means that you have no feelings for him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Entering into a new relationship right away is a reckless attempt by a man! If it is a female compatriot who is very unlikely to do this, it does not mean that there is none, but it is just a matter of thinking about it before thinking about it, and I don't know how many girlfriends have worked hard to take this step. Anyone who can kick the first step will regret scratching his head and smashing his head after a few years.

    If two exes sit together again, do you know what they will talk about? Alas, why bother in the first place! No matter how rich you are, no matter how handsome you are, there will be people who don't like you.

    No matter how poor and ugly you are, there will be someone who will fall in love with you.

    A new relationship will allow you to get rid of the haze left by the previous relationship as soon as possible, don't say that you need to precipitate, precipitation can be at any time, but the right person, the person who will make you excited will not appear every day, the last relationship makes you exhausted, are you not afraid that the right person will disappear in the sea of people as soon as you turn around? In short, if this person can make you feel excited, and make you feel like you want to start a relationship with him when you are the saddest, don't be afraid, how many people can you meet in this world who can have this ability? Emotional matters, as long as he is sincere and sincere, how do you know the result if you don't walk in and get along with each other sincerely?

    The best ** good prescription after emotional injury, all kinds of tried, so many people will have a spare tire, just to prevent this kind of thing from happening, so that the healing is faster, and the effect is very significant, so when I am in love, I will always leave some love for myself, can not use it all, have a personality to tell me, if you want others to love yourself, you must first love yourself. When I am emotionally hurt, I immediately want to enter the next relationship, which is very refreshing, because when there can be no vacancy in my emotional world, I especially like to do this in order to love myself, I don't care what others think of me, I care about my feelings, because no one can replace my pain, and I am not so strong.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I don't think you should start a new relationship immediately after a breakup, because it takes a while to get out of the previous relationship after a breakup, and if you start a new relationship immediately, you will start a new relationship in a bad state, which is not conducive to the relationship between the two parties.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I feel that I should not start a new relationship after a breakup, I should leave a certain amount of time for myself, make a summary of the previous relationship, and then let go completely before starting a new relationship.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I don't think it's appropriate to start a new relationship right away after a breakup, because starting a new relationship at random may start another tragedy before you get out of the sadness, so it's better to calm yourself down for a while before starting.

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