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1. The utilitarian nature of the blind date is very clear and strong.
2. The blind date is a stranger and has no emotional basis. The man's economic base plays a decisive role.
3. The two parties on the blind date are basically unsuccessful in free love.
4. Both parties on a blind date are generally older and have certain social experience.
5. Blind date women are basically very materialistic, and they pay great attention to the man's conditions (appearance, economic income). Some men with good conditions can find a beautiful woman in their 20s in their forties and fifties.
6. The society is very realistic, blind date love marriage is more realistic, and the man's economic income is the pillar of the whole family. The blind date woman's economic needs are tactful or direct, they will be revealed, and their gentleness and thoughtfulness need to be paid by the man's economy.
7. If the concept and values of the blind date are appropriate, they will talk, otherwise they will refuse euphemistically, and both parties should not waste money and time.
9. On the first side of the blind date, at most a cup of tea, don't spend too much. After all, the blind date is a stranger, if you are satisfied, you can talk, if you don't like to find a reason to leave, even a cup of tea money will be saved.
10. No matter what the result of the blind date, it is best to report to the introducer, and there are some things that the introducer can say better.
11, if the blind date is successful, it is the best, everyone is happy. Even if the blind date is unsuccessful, be natural and generous. The blind date is a stranger, and both parties have not invested too much, and it is okay to be a stranger if they don't succeed.
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Trinkets, delicate snacks.
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Men buy chocolates and give them to women.
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When it comes to adult blind dates, there are many other activities to choose from besides eating and watching movies. Here are a few activities that are suitable for blind dates:1
Cafe dating: Meet in a café, sip a cup of coffee, and chat, which is a perfect place for blind dates. Cafes usually have a cozy and cozy environment that doesn't feel too formal or oppressive.
You can try different coffees and drinks with each other, and at the same time experience the romantic atmosphere unique to the café.
2.Walking: Walking is a very healthy and enjoyable activity, about a park or a warm place, enjoy the feeling of a relaxing stroll, chat with each other, and it is also an activity to relax, get physical exercise and natural beauty.
3.Playgrounds: If you mix them up properly, playgrounds can be a great way to get to know each other and even complete some fun games and activities together, such as bumper cars, Ferris wheels, and more.
Moreover, the atmosphere of the whole playground is very convivial, which makes each other feel relaxed and happy.
4.Sports: Many singles are interested in sports, and it's been said that playing sports together is a great way to increase mutual affection and build friendships.
You can practice yoga, swimming, cycling or playing tennis together, etc., which can not only increase the amount of physical activity, but also exchange some mutual information and opinions.
No matter what kind of activity you choose for a blind date, you want to provide each other with a memorable, relaxing and enjoyable experience. Of course, it is important to relax in a stressful and unfamiliar environment, and to allow enough time and energy to get to know each other and communicate with each other.
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For the first blind date, the question of who pays for it cannot be generalized? I think it can be seen in three ways:
Clause. 1. In the process of blind date, if the man has no feelings for the woman, the man will take the initiative to pay. If the woman proposes the AA system, don't refuse, it's normal to choose the AA system for dinner, and you can't ask a person to pay for it.
Each pays out of his own pocket, and each buys his own bill, so that no one owes each other a debt of favor.
If the woman doesn't mention the AA system, you don't mention it either. Isn't it just a meal? If you look up and don't look down, if you meet it after making it with eggplant, you won't owe someone a favor.
Clause. 2. If the man is interested in the woman and tries to invite the woman, if the woman has no love in her heart and does not want to continue the relationship, the woman should try the AA system. If the man insists on paying, the woman can moderately return a small gift, or a dessert after a meal, a shiver or a cup of tea, to give the man appropriate psychological compensation, and not take advantage of others.
Clause. 3. In the process of blind date, if both men and women are interested, they still want to continue dating. The man must take the initiative to pay, if the man is too stingy, no girl can communicate with you.
Girls can also wait for the next time to invite each other out for dinner, so that they can also create a second chance to meet.
This is my opinion on who will pay for the first blind date. So, what do you think about this issue?
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Generally, the man pays, because it shows more generously, and it is easy to disturb the girl's favor.
I'm a girl, even if I can't look down on boys on a blind date, I don't dare to mention AA easily, because I don't know what the other party thinks, and I'm afraid of hurting other people's self-esteem. However, I basically go to very cheap places (basically about 100, and more than 200 for boys who are more pleasing to the eye), especially for boys who don't like it at first glance, I even ordered ** for more than 20 yuan.
Blind date with my husband, the first time we met, he invited a guest to eat hot pot, chatted during the meal, he asked me if I watched a movie, I said okay, by the way, the mobile phone group two movie tickets, I wanted you to invite hot pot, I invited the movie We are flat, I went home and told you that it was not suitable, I didn't expect him to understand that I was very optimistic about him, and I agreed to watch a movie with him, and I paid for a ticket, and after I went home, I chased and beat hard, and then we were together, and there was a week of marriage.
To be honest, if the man doesn't want to pay for the first meal of the blind date or wants to AA system, basically the other party will not continue with you. If you think it's expensive to eat, you can make an appointment for afternoon tea and a drink. Of course, girls can't take other people's money for granted.
If it's a café on a blind date, I usually only order one drink, because I don't necessarily accept the other person, so I don't want to spend so much money on the other party. However, I can pay the bill, but I will definitely lose points to the other party in my heart. Now my boyfriend and I basically take turns to pay when we go out, and even though he pays more than me, we don't care about that.
Sometimes I use hundreds of dollars of skincare products directly for him.
I don't think it's anything, if the other party is too concerned about money with me, I will definitely not go down with him, everyone's income is about the same, why bother so much about men who don't have the ability to pay to go on a blind date? The so-called blind date, most of the objects are recommended by elders or friends, the rate of cheating is very low, the blind date is over, the two sides look at the menu and count the money, what kind of system is this, it seems that Wang Han is too stingy.
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On the night of the blind date, if the other party sends you a text message saying that he is happy to meet you tonight, looking forward to the next meeting, etc., if you feel that you can continue to develop, reply to him, you are also very happy to know him, in short, you must respond positively, which is very important for the man. If you don't want to continue to develop, you can send a good person card and praise him. Whether you want to continue to develop or not, it is still important to respond positively, and let the man know what you really think, which is in the interest of others and yourself.