Even a sophomore was placed in a freshman dorm 5

Think about your freshman year, you're actually about the same as them! When you first arrive in an environment, you should not avoid it, the first thing you should think of is to integrate into it! You can't talk to them, isn't it that they still have the childishness of high school, it's not because you and they are two personalities, it's just that the stages of separation are different, and you also came from that era!

You should communicate with them more, use the best method, set an example of a senior sister, and take them well to integrate into the real college life, people change quickly in college! I believe that it will not be long before they will learn about the university and feel the university like you, and you will definitely become a group of good sisters! Oh o ( o ....

Okay, you can get to know more people, and you can be the little boss.

Let's say. Your Mandarin is not good. Don't you also think about it, other people are also from other places.

Inevitably, there are also local accents. Perfect. You're a student too, and so are they.

Nothing special. Just find the common ground. Like what.

**。Star. Book.

Movie. TV series or something.

I believe you're in good hands.

Nothing bad, good communication, everything is good, don't think too much, hehe.

I have a classmate who is a sophomore who is placed in a dorm room for his senior year! I asked him if it would be troublesome, and he said, "Someone did!" You're the opposite: you can do the same as others!

Summary. Good afternoon, I think you'd better choose the second dormitory, there is a girl in the second dormitory who is more sticky to you, although she is sticky to you, but what can you say to her, everyone has their own space, she can't stick to you all the time, she also has her own space.

There is a dormitory where there are only two people living now, they have lived in a year and have a good relationship with their grandchildren, and there is a dormitory where there are three people living now, one of whom is more sticky to me, but I don't like others too sticky to me, because I also want to have my own space, but I am also afraid of loneliness, I am afraid that if I choose the first dormitory, when the three of us sit in a row in class, I will feel uncomfortable watching her Shenkai think the two of them talking, which dormitory should I choose? I want to be able to sit with my roommate in class and go to the cafeteria together (I'm a girl).

Good afternoon, I think you'd better choose the second mausoleum to send a dormitory, the second dormitory has a girl who is more sticky to you, although she sticks to you, but what can you say to her, everyone has their own faint space to disturb the hall, she can't stick to you all the time, she also has her own space.

The first dormitory, the first dormitory because of the two people, they may usually play with the stool Hui better, but also more familiar, you are from outside, may not be familiar with you, you are not good at you, you are also very uncomfortable there.

I think you can choose whichever dormitory you are comfortable with, and you can choose according to your inner feelings.

Okay, thank you, teacher.

In this case, both you and B are problematic. First of all, B's actions really don't take into account your feelings, which may be caused by personal experience and personality, or it is possible that she misunderstands you. If you don't squeak for a long time, it's over.

So the next time you're in the cafeteria, you can take the initiative to say, like, "Oh, wait for me, and I'll be fine right away." Depending on the situation, it can be said at the same time that after eating, we will go to the supermarket together, and I will invite everyone and drinks. You have to take the initiative to show that you want to be with them, and at the same time be sincere.

Communicate with each other).

If you want to fit in with a group that is either hypothetically or temporarily excluded from you, you need to change yourself temporarily or pay an equal price mentally or materially, which does not mean that you need to change yourself. If you think about it, if you wait for her to turn 180 degrees towards you, then she is not normal.

If she's still like that, the problem is with him, you ignore her, that's all. (This is less common).

I have a similar situation, but my B is not so obvious, so sometimes I can't tell if she did it on purpose. But two days ago, when I asked A to help me do something, she suddenly interjected and said something very insulting, and I was angry at that time. Later, I asked her directly, and she said it was a joke, but the damage was done after all, and it was many times.

She later said that she would pay attention in the future, but in the past two days, she has relapsed into her old ways, but I don't care anymore, I have tried so many times, and I refused to help her do it, I helped, and you can not help her if you change her sentence. This time I'm completely let go.,Some people just can't get along.,Today I was going to post.,But I just turned to the landlord's post.,Today is the first day I'm estranged from her.,I'm willing to encourage the landlord.。 Some people can't bear some things, even if my heart is bleeding, even if I hold back internal injuries, I will not look back, take this as a warning.

Enduring loneliness is the first step to my success, and her shadow will only be an inconspicuous speck of dust in our lives.

First of all, no matter how others treat you, you should maintain all respect for others, and never support the same"Hmph, what's so great about you,""I don't want to be friends with you either"The idea that you are already a college student, you should have the cultivation and quality that a college student should have.

Secondly, the other party's performance is very immature behavior. At this time, maintain due respect for her, and then, you have to have your own interests and hobbies, you should know that you don't necessarily have to have a hot fight with your dormitory classmates to be considered a good friend, because there are some people who may not be worthy of being your good friends.

Can't you see the exclusion?

You see that I am not pleasing to the eye, and I look at you after a long time, and this is how the rival comes, sometimes there is no one who is wrong and who is right, some people like to look at people with their eyes, for example, he sees some of your behaviors in his opinion is taboo, and you will not like the person you taboo, but I hope that everyone will understand this kind of exclusion for a long time.

I have had you like you, when I used to send to school, the dormitory was divided into two factions, one was the "rich people" who had a bit of makeup and makeup, they looked down on us "honest and rigid turtles" people, who were together for two years, and the surface was peaceful, wishing that the other party would laugh.

Having said all this, I actually want to say that you are not RMB, not everyone likes you, of course, it is not just the two of them who make friends and make other friends. The second is that she is so obvious, and you are still with them all the way?

It's very simple, although they are in the same dormitory, but in the future, they can have less contact, and they can get by on the surface, and that kind of person is too self-righteous.

At this time, you have to show high energy, you have to show a kind of performance that I don't need to ask you for. Otherwise, if you talk to it, it will always treat you like his little brother and ass, you know what I mean?

One of the threesomes must be redundant, why bother with them, be yourself, you will have other friends to make friends with you.

Ignore that b and make other friends.

Be your own and take care of it.

Are you not dressed properly, and your demeanor is not elegant?

Then stay away, it's obvious that you are the light bulb among them, why bother to wronged yourself if you don't agree.

Your last sentence is indeed a bit short-term, what is it that she is embarrassed to want to pay (meaning that you don't want to accept it?) If she didn't mention it, she didn't ask for it. In addition, she should be considered to have lived for a long time, and it is not that she "often comes to live" but is not "permanent" as you said, you are obviously biased here.

It should be characterized like this: It's okay not to pay, but to mention it, or show favor from other aspects (share snacks), is to be a person! Otherwise, you didn't mention it, even though you are full of gratitude in your heart, but who knows?

If you don't express it, it's nothing! It's like you don't know how to be grateful and don't mean that you just live like that.

Pay two electricity bills? It's your own business! It doesn't make sense to say this to others, who told you to live in two places?!

So you explain, you also have to explain and comfort from the perspective of your roommate, instead of only thinking about refuting and turning big things into small things, is it selfish for you to take advantage of yourself and then make things that others are uncomfortable about? On the surface, it is a problem between your roommate and your friend, but it is actually a problem between you and your roommate, and you bring someone here, and you are responsible! Whether it's your friend's statement or your statement, there must always be one of them, and then, you give it, people don't accept it, it depends on people's minds, people can have a good reputation and a good mood if they don't accept it, but you don't give it directly, people don't even have the opportunity to say no, and they want to mention it.

School is a small society, don't worry about dozens of dollars, you can use this thing to practice interpersonal communication in advance.

Child, you go to college and you are assigned to a mixed dormitory, and you have bad feelings in your heart, and the counselor can understand it. As you said, it is impossible to change dormitories or majors, and it is impossible to drop out and repeat your studies, and you seem to have no choice but to continue living in this dormitory.

Since you have to live in this dormitory, the environment can't be changed, we can try to change ourselves. The classmate in the same dormitory with you, she actively tried to find other classmates, in fact, no one has a prejudice against anyone, you are just not familiar with each other, after a long time, everyone can become good friends after a long time. The reason why students who live in the same dormitory are easier to get close to each other is that everyone is often together, communicates a lot, and gets acquainted with each other quickly.

You can also take the initiative to communicate with them, maybe they are not as enthusiastic as you think at first, or because they are not familiar with them. You communicate with them a lot, everyone understands you, feels your enthusiasm, and is willing to become good friends with you.

You don't need to be wronged, you just need to change your mindset and you will get better. If you have any questions, you can continue to communicate, and the teacher wishes you a happy and happy life!

The relationship between roommates can be improved. They are actually similar to you, they are all people who are afraid of being lonely and afraid of being alone, and they are afraid that they will be left behind as soon as they come, so they find the circle of friends early.

There is no need to worry, the circle of friends in college will be combined back and forth, which means that sometimes good friends suddenly become bad, and bad friends suddenly become good friends. Only time will tell, so that everyone can see clearly what kind of friends they are looking for and what kind of friends they are suitable to be with.

What you have to do now is to be cheerful and generous, and help your roommate if you can usually help your roommate. Don't feel that this is a grievance, the face is heavy, everyone will not be friends when they get along with each other with masks.

After a long time, they think you are very good and will take the initiative to get close to you.

Is it okay to find a teacher to transfer the dormitory? Of course, you can slowly integrate into your classmates, don't worry, don't be afraid to disturb them, they actually want to join you in the same class for a long time. Don't be in a hurry, slowly find friends with people who share your life hobbies, and you will soon come out of this uncomfortable process.

Alone, alone, how afraid you are of a person.

If you don't learn to be independent in college, when do you want to go to college?

Friends can't force it, you work hard yourself, naturally someone will be attracted to you, why bother to look at others who don't know whether it's true or false.

Work hard, make progress every day, and work hard.

In fact, sometimes college roommates are just roommates, acquaintances are just acquaintances, and they can't be friends, so it's good to have more independent space in college, you can do what you want to do, enrich yourself more, and don't have to be bound by a small group. Also, don't you have a roommate who gets along well? Cherish it, there are not many friends.

She deliberately doesn't want to be friends with you, so there's no need to think about it so much. You can live by yourself and believe in yourself.

Do what you want to do, don't change yourself for the sake of others, because everyone thinks differently, you can't do everything you want, it's good to be casual.

Why care about these It's enough to be yourself.

Read more books, cultivate some hobbies, such as dancing, musical instruments, photography, etc., you are interested, being alone is the norm, loneliness is also the norm, learn to be friends, roommates ignore you, then just get along normally, don't take it to heart and make yourself uncomfortable.

You'll start to think it's good.

Scholars eat alone, sleep alone, play by themselves, it is very common in today's society, not all friends have nothing to do, this thing, you have to slowly accept him, if you still don't change, you will suffer a lot in the future, everyone in this world will leave you, so you have to adapt to it.

It's there, I'm going to accompany you,

Turn on the light at 6 o'clock in the morningSome people are afraid of light, they will wake up and sleep badly, if you want to use the lamp, it doesn't cost much to buy a small table lamp online.

Don't feel inferior, be strong, you don't have to do it yourself.

I will send you a 100-year-old testimonial of Yang Jiang.

Maintaining a contented mindset is the best way to refine the mind and purify the mind. All the enjoyment of happiness belongs to the spirit, and this happiness turns patience into enjoyment, which is the victory of the spirit over the material, which is the philosophy of life.

After a person has undergone different degrees of exercise, he or she will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. It's like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance becomes. We were so longing for the waves of fate that we finally found out:

The most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness ...... heartWe had been so hopeful of recognition from the outside world that we finally realized that the world was our own and had nothing to do with others.