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1. You lack a sense of accomplishment, or the people around you like to belittle you; Disrespectful to you. – for a long time.
2. You lack care and don't have real friendship. Your parents don't care enough about you, or their expressions of love aren't acceptable to you; Your friends around you are not confidant, and they are unlikely to really care about you. - Perhaps, you simply don't know how to be cared for and care for.
3. You have many troubles, but you have nowhere to talk about them; Or I think it's useless to say it. - You don't know how to properly soothe your emotions.
In short, the current you are caused by the external environment; It has nothing to do with yourself. - Everyone is affected by the environment.
You already know, "I'm just a bad boy and a bad person", and if you know your shortcomings, you can't be a bad boy. - Actually, you are a naughty child at best; Many adults don't recognize their own shortcomings. Your "being happy when you bully" is only a childish sign in the eyes of mature adults.
Since it is a child, naivety is normal behavior. You want to grow up, you want to mature, what do you do?
We can't change the external environment, but we can revise our thinking. The best way, the most efficient choice, is to read, read more, read good books: read books on Chinese studies, read the world's famous ,......It won't be long before you change – your mind will be "sunny", and that's when you've really grown up.
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You may have had psychological trauma when you were a child, typically building your happiness on the pain of others, and there is also a possibility that you like the person you bully.
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Don't talk about yourself like that, bullying people also depends on which one is bullying.
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Don't be too inferior, you're just nervous because you're too nervous, sometimes I'm like this, and then I'm very self-blaming afterwards, I think I'm sorry for him, but I still don't change, it's not wrong, but don't "bully" too much, because you're bullying others and hurting others' self-esteem.
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You're not a bad boy, you're an insecure child. If you have a shoulder to lean on, everything will be fine.
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What a big deal! Just bully hard, just don't cripple people.
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No, you have a shadow in your heart.
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This phenomenon is indeed many, and it is impossible to prevent it. As a good child who is bullied and embarrassed, it is traditional to tell the teacher a little bit and give feedback to the school; If you are more radical and resist hard, the dog will jump over the wall when you are in a hurry, but it is very risky; The best way is to provoke the thoughts that you can't hide from, improve yourself, and pull the level, and then you won't have any intersection with them, and naturally you will be less and less bullied.
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If you are a little more fierce than him, he will not dare to bully you.
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