How is he? My boyfriend, I don t know what to say about him

Very good, I love it.

Don't try to change him, even if he can change, he is no longer the real him, and his heart is painful because of the forced change, such a change is better than not.

This is not a disadvantage, no one is perfect, if you find another "self-motivated" person, it is likely that you will be very rough with a bad temper, besides, Seon is not blessed, everything has two sides, this "shortcoming" may also be an advantage in a sense.

Figure out what you want. Is it a real and natural stretch, or is it a "perfect" him under repression? is a person who cares for you, or a so-called successful person who can make you have good material enjoyment and a lot of face.

You've probably heard a song that says, "Some people can't say what is good."

But no one can replace it."

In fact, there are some things that we don't need to think about too complicated, I think his boss can give him so many opportunities to show that his performance and strength are recognized by everyone, then he doesn't want to seize this opportunity, and the reason for giving up this opportunity is that he is afraid of offending people, then I think your friend should be a person who thinks about not being able to bear it, because he doesn't want to be a step up to the sky because of an opportunity, and distance himself from his colleagues who have worked with him for so long. You should also be glad that you have a friend who values affection, people have their own ambitions, maybe he wants to be obscure for a lifetime, but he will also give you happiness, the company is a collective, no one can lack it, especially to your friends such a valued elite member, if it is missing, it will be a loss.

Hehe, if you love him, you have to accept everything from him, what you said is a shortcoming in your opinion, but I don't think so, he has a good personality, aren't you satisfied? As for what you said about him not being motivated, people, not everyone has the same way of thinking and living, your boyfriend seems to be a person who is not confused by money, as long as he is happy, isn't it? If you really love him, then why shouldn't his happiness be yours?

It's not a lot of money, it's good to have enough! If you really want him to be a supervisor, you can also try to convince him to be a good supervisor, of course, you have to tell him that you don't have to offend people if you don't have to be a supervisor, of course, it also depends on your boyfriend's own ability to do things!

I think you have different views on the definition of success. In fact, there is no right or wrong in many things, so people should not absolutely distinguish between good and bad people.

Maybe you feel that achieving a certain status in your work and earning a certain amount of money is success. But your friend thinks that it is enough to be able to work happily and have you by your side.

Anyway, the evaluation of others is not the most important, but how you continue to get along with him. The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change. Trying to change him, is a naïve idea. So you have to think about whether to submit or give up.

Life is not simple, and love alone will not do.

I think it's very good, he knows what he wants, what kind of life he likes to live, since then he feels happy, why not let him be happy, not everyone likes to keep climbing up every day and dreaming of soaring, people have their own ambitions, if you love him, respect and support his decision, people not only need dreams, but also need a partner who affirms their dreams.

I think this is your problem, how can he not be considered motivated? If you're not suitable for management, can you still catch ducks on the shelves? You love his people, not money or status; If you can't get used to him and don't seek to be motivated, you are motivated, everyone's values are different, you can't change them, you don't think it's suitable for you, you don't want to be together, whoever is motivated, you can find whoever goes

A good old man. If he really doesn't want the opportunity to be promoted, then you have to be mentally prepared. For the rest of his life, maybe he made this choice (my friend's husband is like your boyfriend, and she is also helpless, but she found out later than you). You can't change him.

If that were the case, would you still choose to join him? That's what you're going to face.

There are different ways to walk on the road, I like to take technology, don't let your boyfriend live according to your life pattern, then he will live a very tired life, maybe management may not be suitable for him. If you really like him, you should support his choice.

What a boyfriend! Don't try to change your lover's personality and habits, love someone to respect and adapt to the other person.

If you like him, don't change him, change him, that person is not the person you like anymore, all you have to do is accept his shortcomings and get used to everything about him...

The essence of life is the pursuit of happiness

If he is ignorant, you can remind him; If he likes to live like this, please respect him.

It is a sin to destroy the happiness of others because of one's own stubbornness!

If you can't get used to it, leave him.

Well, you have to be careful. There may be a lot of troubles after following for a lifetime, but it is better than a ruthless man. It can't be changed.

As long as you have a sense of responsibility, the kind of man who wants to make money is not necessarily good.

If you don't want to, forget it, don't hurt your anger just to see the money you can't get.

Lifestyle man, meet the status quo!

What is the happiness we want to sustain in the age of money?