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Unlike a rich daughter, it doesn't mean that she is not a rich daughter, I suggest you just use a method to try whether she is a girl who cares about material things, and then continue to make your "stupid". Love is not something you can hold in your stomach alone, and it is not something you can unilaterally tell her like a fool that you love her more, at least you have to have a bottom, she will not accept a poor boy with worse conditions than her, and the poor boy will love you if she goes more and she will love you (even if you are not the only one at first).
I'll give you a trick, because generally this kind of girl is rich, but she dresses plainly and rarely dresses up, she won't wear jewelry, and her wealth will not show her eyes. You give her a not very expensive ornament, ask her to have a meal every other week or two, if you find that she deliberately wears the small ornament you sent, congratulations, you have hope. She is willing to deliberately wear cheap goods when eating with you, this is to put gold on your face, if you are not interesting, she will not accept your gift in the first place, even if she accepts your gift, she will not go to dinner, even if she eats your meal, she will not wear the jewelry you sent.
I won't talk nonsense about the rest, let's do it separately.
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It's better to be calm about this kind of thing. Don't worry about that. If you love her, always be nice to her, and she will understand you.
And in such a thing as feelings, details determine success or failure, and it doesn't have to be vigorous. Just have faith in yourself. Go for it and don't care what others think.
Also, you have to work yourself. No matter what the work is. So be it, go first.
Give points.
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Low self-esteem is a problem in your own mind. Who said money and love go hand in hand? As long as you love her, she has you in her heart.
That's enough. Her family has money, but your family has no money. It's not because you can't.
But that's what fate is. Who decreed that the rich should be with the rich? The poor can only be with the poor?
Just because your family has no money doesn't mean you won't have money in the future. For her, you have to show your ability, instead of blindly inferiority.
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You can have 2 options:
First, through their own efforts, change their wealth value.
Second, it is felt impossible to change the current situation, because of the immediate separation.
You still have one more hope:
Her family doesn't dislike you, but don't feel inferior and change your wealth through their relationship!
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Dude, don't ask others about this kind of thing, ask yourself The relationship between the two of you is only known to the two of you, I believe that low self-esteem is not the reason No matter how hard you work, you have to be patient, this is love! I sincerely hope you will be happy!
Love is bold to love.
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If you love true love, you have to be brave to chase it, no one knows what the future will be, and of course you have to work hard to earn money. This society can't help it.
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If you chase it, you may not be able to catch up, and if you don't chase, you will definitely not be able to catch up, even if you give up in the future, is it worse than giving up now?
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Make your own efforts. Bridging the gap.
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Love is coming, who can stop it.
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I hope you really love her well and take this relationship seriously, it's really bitter and tired, she will complain and get angry.
You will also be overwhelmed and stressed out.
You will quarrel from time to time, but you will quickly reconcile because you love each other. Regeneration will also care about each other. You love her so much, and she loves you so much.
If she doesn't love you because she is naïve and ignorant, then she won't break up with you after tasting the hardships of life. If she just complains, then she really loves you very much, and she loves you so hard to persevere.
When you are with her, you are happy. Life is very hard, so you have to work hard, and to talk about vulgarity is to make money, or to seek power.
No one knows where the opportunities are, and they are confused at the beginning, but you have to find some jobs to do, maybe these jobs don't even have a prospect, but what you do is experience, which is your capital. The more you do in this society, the more you may slowly know what you have to do.
Since you don't know anything, you have to learn, and if you don't like to study, learn something professional. Bartending fitness computer logistics, even if you send goods for a lifetime, you still have the experience to upgrade the logistics supervisor! You can secretly do it yourself, high school, junior college. It's just for her parents to see.
You are bitter, she is also bitter, you are both bitter, but you are happy, don't ruin a sincere love because of these mutual complaints.
God knows how many people still don't come together because of money.
I hope you can persevere, a man who is more patient, more does, and more love her.
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Ha ha. Marrying a rich girl is the best and easiest way to fly on the branches and become a phoenix. Let's chase hard.
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In fact, as long as the two love each other, those material gifts are just a little skin. No one is born with money, and it is not up to acquired efforts, as long as you are together, work together, and work hard, those are all sooner or later.
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Of course, be reasonable with your parents! But I hope you hope that you really love each other, otherwise you will regret it.
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If she really loves you, then the two of you can work together.
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If the gap is really big, let's break up.
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Yes. The current society is very realistic, if the boy himself is poor, he will feel that he is not worthy of the girl he loves. will feel that girls will live a poor life with him, and he can't bear to see his beloved woman suffering with him, so he will choose to give up.
1. I can't bear to suffer my beloved.
Many boys nowadays are very responsible, and they hope that their other half will feel happy with them. But because they are very poor, they have to spend most of their time on their careers, and they will neglect their other half. There are many uncertainties in the process of their hard work, he is not sure whether he will succeed, and he is not sure if he and this girl can be together in the future.
When the boy was young, he would break up with his other half and devote himself to his career. If after his career is successful, the girl still hasn't found his other half, he will chase Kaiju back to his beloved girl.
2. I feel that I am not worthy of a relationship.
Boys have great responsibilities from an early age, they have pressure from their parents and family, and they must take on the obligation of their parents to provide for their old age in the future. So when they are judged to have no money, they will not choose to fall in love, they will not be able to give the girl a future, but also cause a greater financial burden on themselves. Even if they meet a girl they like very much, they will give up pursuing their goddess and choose to work hard for their careers.
There are a lot of boys who only think about falling in love after they have a successful career.
3. Don't dare to confess.
Now it is a more materialistic society. In the process of falling in love, the man usually has to buy you some small gifts to create some surprises and romance for the girl, which cost money. These girls will also often post gifts from their boyfriends in their circle of friends.
As a result, these poor boys dare not confess, and it costs a lot of money in the process of confession, and once the woman accepts it, the man's financial pressure will become very great in the coming days.
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Show sincerity, don't pretend, because the more you pretend, the more you can't pretend, you have to live a long-term life, since you have to meet your parents, don't be afraid. ,