My husband yelled at me! 50

I don't think it's necessary.

It's been four years, as long as he likes you and loves you now, isn't it enough?

He said he forgot (of course he won't), but that meant he wanted to forget

If he's dancing in front of you about his girlfriend from four years ago, I don't feel right!

Since you don't want to talk about it, it means that he really wants to forget, why do you have to force him to recall the past, aren't you reminding him to recall?! No good.

What can you have when you are in college? On the other hand, what can you do if there is really something?

So, if he doesn't want to say, don't ask, even if he tells you, what can you do?

It's only going to be troublesome, if it's me, I'm too lazy to know, he took the initiative to tell me, I don't even want to listen, I know, it's really asking for trouble

Each of us will have a first love, think about yourself, and you will understand your boyfriend.

Now that he is yours and you are in love, that's enough, don't keep talking about the past, and look forward to a better future

If you tell your husband about your bright future, I think he will be very happy to imagine with you, so that you will deepen your feelings for each other, why not?! Isn't it

In fact, the last thing a man wants to ask about him and his past girlfriend is the most important thing for a man, especially if you are still the woman he loves the most, my husband is the same, he is very taboo for me to ask about his ex-girlfriend, and he loves you now, so he is not confident in his heart for you, men should also have their own private space, be more considerate, hehe!

Hey, maybe it's really too stressful, maybe I've been sad for a long time, and I'm depressed again if I don't listen to you when I patiently explain to you, since you know that he's baby, you're enough, why bother asking too many things that were irrelevant before, after so long, it wasn't him who was with that girl at the beginning, but it's really wrong to scold people like this, punish him well, and see his attitude of admitting his mistakes

Cough. I advise you not to ask, it's been a long time since it happened. Besides, your husband really shouldn't, it's been so many years, but he still cares a lot.

Alas, in fact, everyone is reluctant to mention the lover in the past, especially when you have been hurt in it, now you should think more about your husband, you also said, he was dumped, which means that there was a wound for him. If you don't want to give up on your current life, you have to learn to give up on some things.

This, though it does seem like something. But the skill you are asking about is problematic, and since he doesn't want to, it's not interesting for you to stare at people so urgently. From night to morning, I still ask for more than an hour during work hours?

In this way, the company has a bad impact?!

Everyone is classmates, of course, they have a deep impression of each other, how long you have spent with them.

I think you're right, you're not right, men hate this, if you do it again, see if he divorces you or not.

I think you should trust your husband. There is really no point in pestering him with the problems of the past. Why should you influence your present life for a person in the past tense?

I'm a girl, and I think there's something wrong with you.

Now that it's over, why are you pushing him? I'm also a girl, but I don't think it's right for you to do this, so why should you punish him for his classmates' faults? After all, it's been 4 years

Hey, it's good to have no domestic violence.

Husbands often use foul language at their wives, you can try to deal with them like this:

1. Find out your own reasons

There is no such thing as a gratuity, it is best to ask your husband why he is always scolding, is it your problem or because of his mother's problem, or because of something else. Isn't it, when he wants to communicate with you, you ignore it. That's why he used this way of scolding to vent his anger!

If it's because of the mother's family problem, such as bride price money or other things, etc., it's best for two people to sit down and talk about it, assuming that it really can't be solved, you can tell your husband, you are you, your mother's family is your mother's family, as long as the two of us live a good life.

2. Separation

If you can't continue, you can try to separate first. Feel it again during the period of separation, if you really have no feelings, you can divorce by agreement or sue for divorce.

I guess:The reason for the vicious circle of this may be because you care about your work, so you ignore his business, and even if he insults you, you will not talk back, this situation is like:The feeling that the opponent punched but hit the cotton ball.

How could he have stopped so easily? That's why I will keep scolding.

If you want to calm down, you should respond and learn to communicate. You should also know that initially, the two got married because they fell in love with each other, and they would have feelings more or less, so it was better to sit down and communicate well.

This incident of yours reminds me of my cousin, who is a more introverted person. She doesn't like to talk, she has no quarrel with the world, and she just lives an ordinary life anyway. As for my cousin-in-law, he was a good person at first, but then he learned to drink, and slowly his life changed.

He always looked for his cousin's stubble after drinking. After drinking, he scolded and scolded, and all the things outside the house came outSeven were not satisfied, and eight were not angry, which made the family unpeaceful all day long. Because my cousin's personality is introverted, and she is worried about her neighbors, she always swallows her angerIn the end, the cousin-in-law became even worse.

Eventually, my aunt found out about it and brought my cousin home, and then the two separated, and finally divorced.

Judging from the whole problem, a slap in the face doesn't make a sound. If you learn to communicate, instead of having that kind of attitude, many things will be solved well. Therefore, it is also recommended that you take this step bravely, and there may be unexpected results.

As a woman, it's a sad thing to have such a husband, and if I meet such a man, I will do it!

1. When he insults you, you can choose to dodge.

It is not right for a man to insult his woman, and it is not the right behavior; And when a woman is scolded, she can't be hard-hitting; You must know that if he scolds you and you scold him, the final result may develop to the point of doing things to each other; This is the last thing that should happen in married life; So the best way is for you to choose to hide when he insults you;

For example, you can leave the house, go outside for a walk, and take a walk on the road outside. Think about it more, the contradictions of the Lingsheng, quarreling with each other, insulting each other and arguing with each other, is it worth it or not; As long as you think about it a lot, you will definitely find that between the two of you, it is just a trivial dispute, which is the least worthwhile thing.

Second, when he calms down, communicate well.

Communication is the best way to deal with anything; There must be a reason why your husband scolds you; He can't insult you for no reason; So when he is calm, calm and traveling, you can communicate with him well; Deal with what happened between two people in a conversational way; And tell him clearly not to solve it in an abusive way;

Between husband and wife, there is actually no big deal; Many times, it is two people who are too good and strong, and compete with each other for a little thing; If your husband is better and stronger, you should let him be a little bit and don't worry about him in general; Learn to let go, and everything goes.

3. Learn to love your husband, and life will be more comfortable!

Many times, women will be abused by their husbands, but in fact, they don't know how to love their husbands; When a woman enters married life, she must no longer regard herself as a person; How much you love your husband, how much love will be reciprocated by your husband!

Fourth, do not engage in-for-tat, let alone have a sense of revenge.

When conflicts between husband and wife occur, what they are most afraid of is holding grudges; Not only are two people-for-tat, but they will always keep each other's bad in mind, thus generating a sense of revenge; This is a thought that must not be had, a thing that must not be done; For what means thou hast used against thy husband, and what means thy husband will still use against thee;

In married life, a woman must know how to show weakness, and she must know how to be coquettish and cute and cute; Many times, if you do a coquettish act to your husband, no matter how angry he is, he can't let it out; Happiness is in your own hands, and you must know how to experience it with your heart.

It's normal for husbands and wives to quarrel, but it's true that exploding foul language can hurt people and hurt feelings.

However, when people are angry, they often overdo it, and if your husband is usually rude and often rude to you, then you should pay close attention.

This involves the issue of communication between husband and wife:

1. Husbands and wives have different needs in marriage

The husband wants to be grateful, adored and appreciated by his wife, and the wife wants to be secured, distressed and valued by her husband.

In the event of a quarrel, there must be a fuse, but when you quarrel, you forget the original reason, and the reason why the conflict will intensify is that the town of ruler generally violates these needs of the other party.

2. Wait for both parties to calm down before communicating well

Replace criticism, accusation, and complaint with "direct expression" and say what you want from each other: Husband, you are rude to me, which makes me very sad