What is it like to lose someone who you think is the most important thing to you?

Updated on society 2024-05-10
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you lose the most important person, the first feeling is distress, it really hurts, and the second feeling is dazed and helpless. I remember that after my aunt died suddenly, I went to see her in the morgue, and the person in charge of the key asked me: Who is she?

    I said, "I'm her aunt," and I asked twice, but I still answered like this, and the person in charge of the key locked the door again, and didn't let me see it, so I fell to my knees in a hurry, so the fourth feeling was that I lost my dignity.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Losing the person you love the most feels like the pain of having your heart ripped out, feeling that everything around you has nothing to do with you, a person is immersed in grief, the heart hurts like a drop of blood, and tears flow imperceptibly. The world has changed due to the loss of the person you love the most, and the road ahead is very slim, whether you still have the courage to persevere. Endure, pain, endure.

    Find yourself a strong reason to live.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The loss of one of the most important people is painful in our hearts, and this pain is indescribable, painful, and broken. Instead of waiting until you lose the pain, you should cherish the present moment. Cherish every important person around us, do more things that are beneficial to family, colleagues, and friends, and let every important person be by our side for a long time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The first thing I felt was not real, and I wondered if it was a dream. Ten years ago, when the three uncles had cancer, when they knew about it, they only cried, crying darkly. It always feels unreal, unacceptable.

    All the family members were reunited once before the three uncles fell seriously ill. Although the three uncles are still a calm picture, but I can't, looking at his back, I always wonder if his illness is real, whether the doctor is mistaken, isn't there this kind of bridge on TV! I can't imagine that one day he will leave us, and I always wonder if his heart is also afraid and helpless.

    Do you also think that you want to be separated from us like this, will it also be painful and heartbreaking? This feeling is very helpless, I want to keep it, but I can't do anything about it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I also lost a girlfriend of six years, not a quarrel or other bad reasons to lose, just because we have different life choices for each other, the two have been separated for three years, when she left, in fact, I didn't have too much time to be sad about her departure, I watched her in the circle of friends and other people's bits and pieces, I was also sharing with others, at first we would like each other, until now maybe just a swipe has passed, In our chats with others, we also talk to others: how I was with my girlfriend back then, it's not that it's not unimportant, but I don't miss it anymore. Goodbye is also a friend, no one can accompany you through life.

    After all, she also lost you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    First of all, I don't want to lose, I feel that I have nothing to love, and for a long time I have been constantly reflecting on my mistakes? Then I will slowly feel at ease, finally I will not be in panic all day, finally we will no longer have to guess each other, please each other, and finally I can be myself. Then sad forgiveness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Maybe everyone has a hysterical and careless love, and many times they wonder why that person is him. The sweetness of being together and the indifference when breaking up will definitely be unacceptable, the reason why you are still so uncomfortable is because you haven't figured out your relationship yet, it's just a matter of time, four months is still too short, I used it for four years.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    In fact, I think that person is like I hit a tree in the aisle, it hurts, and I will walk around this tree in the future. Maybe long after, I won't remember how painful the collision was. But the tree is always there.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The first is that you start to get caught up in memories a lot, and the whole person is very sad. But love is a thing of the past, but you still uncontrollably think of the beautiful moments, the way that person laughs, frowns, and gets angry always comes to your mind, and whenever you think of him, you can't help but wet your eyes.

    The second feeling is that I really want to get in touch, but I still control the group and restrain myself from contacting the other party.

    Maybe it's because of habit, you will still keep turning out his **, clicking on his WeChat, and wanting to rush to him. There are countless times a day when you want to contact him, maybe you can't accept the fact that he left like this.

    The third feeling is that I know it's time to let go, but I still can't let go. You don't know that you couldn't do it before, but how can you say that you can let go of the human limb state that you love so deeply?

    The fourth feeling is that you know that he has nothing to do with you, but you still want to know how he is doing. You still want to know how he's been doing lately, or you can't help but want the people around you to find out about him.

    The fifth feeling, pay attention to him, and fantasize that one day he will suddenly appear in front of your eyes.

    When you happen to walk down the street and see a figure similar to him, you can't help but take a few more looks. Afraid that the person is him, and afraid that the person is not him.

    The sixth feeling is that after losing someone you love, you feel that your heart suddenly becomes empty. I feel like I've lost something very important, but I don't know how to get it back.

    If you lose someone you love, you can allow yourself to be lost for a while, after all, you have loved so seriously, but don't let yourself be trapped in it all the time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This problem is very uncomfortable, everyone has lost important people, such as parents, siblings, children, lovers, close friends, benefactors, if it is a particularly emotional person, it will be very sad and grief-stricken, if it is a ruthless and unrighteous person, it will not be sad if it is a ruthless and unrighteous person who has lost an important person.

    Some people will be devastated or even commit suicide because they have lost an important person. Some people lose their bridges, and it takes many years for them to come out of their pain after losing their important people.

    If you want to know what it's like, experience it for yourself, Minla!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The person I lost was very, very important, because he was ridiculed by the people who attacked me since I was a child. I hated that he couldn't grow up with me, and I also felt sorry that he was young and vigorous and couldn't continue to feel the beauty of life, if he was still here, I believe that our family's life now is more than that. It's better than I'm growing up, although the days ahead are very uncomfortable, but the road behind will be hard to walk.

    After this incident, I felt the fragility of life, which also made me learn to cherish the people in front of me, and learn to empathize with people in front of me (no one is more important than my loved ones), because tomorrow and accidents we don't know which one will come first If I can, I hope there will never be an accident.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The heart is like ashes, and it has a deep impact on the trajectory of the whole life. It may be difficult to erase such a shadow in this life, so you can only live like this.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The loss of an important person is a tearing feeling, and it is particularly painful, especially if this important person is the closest person in your life, it may affect you for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It is sad and sad for anyone to lose the most important person. In fact, everyone may have lost the most important person in their life. So it's a very sad thing.

    When the remaining chain is lost, it must be cherished. Don't regret going to the vertical code Sun.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The most important people I have lost so far are my grandparents, well, I may not have grown up with them since I was a child, so I didn't have any feelings, and I didn't have any sadness at the time, this is my second uncle and my third uncle, this is also because of the distance, although we often meet, but there is no cognition, and even I almost forget them, I think this kind of Eastern Zen sect is actually difficult to say that kind of emotion.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I have lost, my relatives are also important people in my life, I feel that the sky is falling, the ground is sinking, and there is no one to communicate with me intimately, and there is no more selfless love for ...... man

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you lose your pants and ask the important people in your life, you feel that the sky is falling, and you can't lift your spirits to do anything, so if the important person is in front of you, you should cherish the person in front of you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The loss of someone important is heart-wrenching, and there is no substitute for it. I always feel that God is unfair, why let such a good person go.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Have you ever lost someone important? What does it feel like? Of course, I feel very sad and sad to lose an important person, and it is very difficult to get out, have you lost an important person?

    What does it feel like? I think it's very sad to lose someone important, and it's hard to get out of it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, my friend has lost someone important, and I still feel very sad, very sad, and I feel the pain of being carried for several days. I haven't been able to get out. I hope everyone can happily close their voices and face their own open life.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Come on you, what kind of feeling do you feel about losing important people, because I know that I have lost important people, so it is a very uncomfortable Kaiwei or mood of the mountain faction, a very bad feeling, so I lost my eyes and went to my relatives and felt that the sky was about to fall, so at that time, my heart was too broken.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I have lost an important person in my heart, and of course I am very uncomfortable with my grandson in my heart, and I feel that this kind of thing is also a great sadness in life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I have lost, during the military training in college, I didn't receive the news of my grandmother's death for the first time, and I didn't see the last side of my grandmother, which has always been a pity.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Have you ever lost the most important person? What does it feel like? I did lose the most important people. A feeling I will never forget.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I've lost people who are important to me, and I feel miserable, and I don't even cherish my previous life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    When my mother died, I was out of town at the time, and when I heard the news, I cried and couldn't cry. That feeling, I feel so lonely, so helpless.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In June of this year, I didn't have a mother, I didn't believe what they said was out of breath, I felt that she would wake up after sleeping for a while, and her face couldn't count the white cloth, she would be out of breath when she woke up for a while, I would suffocate her to death, I couldn't send it to the funeral home, and I would freeze her to death in the freezer, until I was cremated, I didn't want to believe that she was gone, and I couldn't help but think about her every day no matter what I did...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's sad for me to lose a very important person, but you have to accept this kind of thing, you have to be happy in your life without her, then your loss is very valuable, if you feel decadent, I believe that person does not expect you to be decadent, she will want you to be excellent.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Dear I'm glad to answer for you, I think I lost the most important person in my life, I can't live anymore, I say that life is a journey, all the way is to see the scenery along the way, and the people who accompany you to see the scenery, but you don't see the future scenery I don't want to see, I want to never be the scenery, but with you.

    Questions. How can people who can't let go let go.

    As long as you seriously understand that "he doesn't like you" and that you deserve better, you are good. Maybe you can't really realize it for a while, and you can't let it go, but repeat it to me every day: he doesn't like you.

    This quote is really amazing, although it is very uncomfortable. ta doesn't like you, you die begging to stick it up, and in the end it's just doing yourself and hurting the friends who love you, are you tired? There is no need for it.

    Questions. What is love? It's okay if she's happy and forgets me, right? I have a lot of regrets in my heart, I didn't buy her flowers, I didn't really treat her, I always made her angry, she was very tired, I let her go or continue to pester. Will this be happy?

    Your love is great, if she can live well without you, it proves that she doesn't love as much as you, so it's okay to give up, but in the end it depends on your own ideas.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I used to lose someone who was very important to me, and it really felt like there was no happiness and only an empty box left, as if I was like the walking dead, and sometimes I couldn't help crying, like feeling that there was nothing to attach to in the world, and finally I told myself, you can fall, for a while, you can't fall permanently.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I think when you lose a very important person, your heart will always feel empty, because he has been by your side for so long, and suddenly it is not suitable for the time, so when you lose a very important person, you will feel sad, and you will also think about why you didn't cherish it well.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Losing an important person is like missing something, for example, I think the death of a loved one is a kind of losing them, and then never seeing them again, she will be in a very bad mood when she thinks about what she usually does, and then this is how it feels to lose an important person.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    After losing something very important, you will find yourself incompetent now, and you will find yourself desperately looking for another important thing, and then try to recover what you have lost, such as pride, money, love, life, friendship, etc., after a long time, you will find that you have changed, and you are stronger than before.

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