Wedding decoration, my mother in law didn t help, I have some doubts in my heart

In fact, I can't complain about our hero.

First, under the care of their parents, people of all generations are living in this generation, and it is inevitable that there will be dependence.

Second, marriage is a big deal, and it's understandable that you don't get it.

However, what I want to say to the protagonist is:

1. You are not children anymore, marriage is your own business, why rely on the help of the elderly?

2. It seems that you are not picking on them, otherwise, you wouldn't explain so much, right? You say they're all busy, one is a chef and the other is a driver. But you feel that you are not taken seriously, maybe you also feel sorry for your future husband.

3, think about it, how happy it is to have such a husband, you can do anything by yourself, filial piety and love you, there are not many boys like this now.

4. I once watched a show, a couple in Shanghai gave birth to a child to raise their parents, they work on weekdays, have a house at home, and their parents rent it out and don't let them live, so they don't want to, they only give their children 300 yuan a month for living expenses, claiming that the rent money can be enough for the children's living expenses. I don't think you like that kind of son very much. Is it right for parents to do whatever they want for them?

Are children born to parents? So where is their responsibility to be human beings?

5. I believe that you are a reasonable person, you are about to get married, you have a lot of things to do, you are already very tired, don't think about it so much, your parents' efforts in the future are also yours, right? Take care of your body and emotions. Getting married is hard work.

Don't be upset about such a trivial matter.

I wish you happiness and a happy new marriage!

Do you suspect that your mother-in-law doesn't love your fiancé?

You can also pick this matter, I don't think I can speak.

You haven't made it through the door yet

How will you live in the future?

You're a little too cautious to think so. It's too undeserved. Who are they doing this for?

Not for the sake of the son, but for the sake of your fiancé. In other words, for you. It's not easy for the old people, how can we, as young people, still criticize them?!

When my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law and father-in-law only came on the day of the wedding. My husband and I are busy with everything. In fact, as long as we do our best, why bother to be busy with everyone, and it is not easy for others, just be more considerate.

It's understandable that my mother-in-law is very busy, you shouldn't pick on this.

Don't think too much about it, you will spend a lot of time with each other in the future, and try to make them like you.

Helping money is more affordable than anything else.

The young couple bought a wedding room and didn't have time to decorate, so the husband brought his mother in his hometown to help decorate, but the decoration effect made his girlfriend not want to get married.

Guest room

The design of the living room is Scandinavian and the wall decoration is just right, but the whole carpet and soft pillows are too messy, and the carpet is more elegant.

Dining area

The design of the dining area is the most reasonable, and the clever use of the characteristics of the house type to create a beautiful and fashionable dining area has finally been realized.

Kitchen

The U-shaped kitchen can improve the utilization rate of the area, and the material of the cabinet is also made of environmentally friendly aluminum alloy, so you don't have to worry about mold and formaldehyde.

Bedrooms

How can the bedroom feel like a wedding room? Obviously it is a place for the elderly to care for the elderly, and the beds and bedding need to be replaced, and the flowers are all real Grandpa Mao, distressed.

Children's room

There is no children's room with any design concept at all, and most of the space is used when the upper and lower beds enter the field, The curtains are really ugly, and it is seriously recommended to look at the curtain selection skills!

Balcony

Although there are no large floor-to-ceiling windows, the choice of wall cabinets and washing machines is relatively bright, which sets off the spaciousness of the space.

Bathroom

This set of undesigned wedding room design, do you still have the desire to get married? (This article is selected from a selection of Chinese decoration design).

Do you have a beautifully renovated home but no visitors?

Is your design flawless but unappreciated?

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Summary. Hello dear, regarding the issue of mother-in-law intervening in the renovation of the house without marriage, we can look at this issue from a legal and moral point of view. From a legal point of view, there are no legal restrictions on unmarried men who repair their houses, they can decorate the house freely, and they do not need the intervention of their mother-in-law.

However, from a moral point of view, if the men and women who are renovating the house are unmarried, the mother-in-law may be worried about their children, so the mother-in-law may intervene, however, in this case, the mother-in-law can try to support them instead of forcing them, because they have the right to renovate the house freely. In short, there are no legal restrictions on unmarried men who repair their houses, however, mothers-in-law can support them as much as possible, rather than forcing them.

Hello dear, regarding the issue of mother-in-law intervening in the renovation of the house without marriage, we can look at this issue from a legal and moral point of view. From a legal point of view, there is no legal restriction on the law to slow down the sale of the house for unmarried men, they can freely decorate the house, and they do not need the intervention of their mother-in-law. However, from a moral point of view, if the men and women who are renovating the house are unmarried, the mother-in-law may be worried about their children, so the mother-in-law may intervene, however, in this case, the mother-in-law can try to support them instead of forcing them, because they have the right to renovate the house freely.

In short, there are no legal restrictions on unmarried men who repair their houses, but their mother-in-law can support them as much as possible, instead of forcing him to disturb them.

I made a suggestion, but my mother-in-law was reluctant.

Kiss, please ask your mother-in-law to pay.

Well. Decoration of the wedding room.

Kiss Here I suggest you discuss it with your husband and let him say that it is okay to see?

And it's just you guys going to live, right? Mother-in-law doesn't live.

Is it because of the decoration style or because of the decoration ** problem.

If the woman is not strong, her in-laws will look down on herself, and even laugh at herself.

You can take the initiative to be friends with each other, and you should also take each other to go shopping and eat together in life, so as to slowly move and influence each other.

You can take the initiative to communicate with the other party, if you are still like this after the spring belt Fang Wu Senchun communicates, then there is no need to deal with the other party, if the other party needs the other party in the future, it must be filial piety, but if you don't need it, there is no need to see the other party.

Summary. However, if it is a house, there are still a few situations here, such as whether the house is still being repaid after marriage, and whether it has been renovated. This is because the part of the loan repaid after marriage belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife.

That is, when you get divorced, you have to divide it. The situation of decoration is the same, because the money after marriage, unless there is a clear arrangement before marriage, it is difficult to say that it is divided into the part of the individual before marriage.

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Hello, please explain the situation in detail here, and I will help you analyze it.

A happy family inevitably has to be clean and respectful, love the old and the young, filial piety of children, love of parents, equal treatment between brothers and sisters, and get along with each other sincerely, so as to have a harmonious and stable family relationship, but in a family with many children, it is sometimes not easy to maintain equality, especially as parents, if a bowl of water is uneven, too much preference and spoiling one of them, often let the family relationship face breakdown. 、

If there is no special agreement, your mother-in-law is not obligated to decorate your and your husband's house.

If the property is purchased before marriage, it belongs to personal property, that is, whichever party buys it belongs to the other party, and the other party has no right to claim a division. Unless you divorce by agreement, the party with property is buried with the other party, and it is useless to sue the court for some of their personal property. 、

However, if it is a house, there are still a few situations here, such as whether the house is still being repaid and sold after marriage, and whether it has been renovated. Because the part of Zhongyuan that is repaid after marriage, it belongs to the joint property of the husband and wife. That is, when you get divorced, you have to divide it.

The situation of decoration is the same, because the money after marriage, unless there is a clear arrangement before marriage, it is difficult to say that it is divided into the part of the individual before marriage.

Of course, if the money before the marriage is saved before the Que Qi gets the certificate, and then the money is used to renovate or repay the loan after the marriage, this part can also be regarded as personal property.

So you still have to find a way to decorate your own house.

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At this time, you only need to discuss with your husband-to-be to see his attitudeIf your husband thinks that he should support his mother, then you should think about it, this kind of life that you can't do is just the beginning, can you bear it? If you can, it doesn't matter, if you can't make a decision in time, and then there is a decoration to see who pays for it, if it's you, then why listen to her? So it's not about what you do at all, it's how your husband does.

1. The contest between you and your mother-in-law depends on how your husband chooses.

Decoration is actually big or small, some small couples feel that the house can live on the line, there is no need to pay attention to how difficult it is, it doesn't matter what kind of pretend, but some small couples feel that the marriage room is the beginning of a warm and happy family, so they want to decorate the marriage room into their dreams, so that it looks comfortable to live and comfortable, but some strong mothers-in-law will choose to intervene in the decoration at this time.

At this time, you can choose to discuss with your husband to see his attitude, under normal circumstances, as long as your husband decides not to do it according to your mother's requirements, your mother-in-law will most likely compromiseAfter all, this is her own son, and it is impossible for her not to care if she has an opinion, so this matter is not what you want to do, but how your husband wants to solve it.

2. Whoever pays will listen to whomever he pays.

For the decoration disagreement, many people will encounter it when decoratingIf the two sides can't argue one, two, three, then use the most earthy way to solve it, this method is who pays the money, who decidesI don't think anyone dares to refute this decision, if your family pays for the decoration of the wedding room, if you can't decorate it according to your wishes, then the funds will be stopped directly, whoever wants to pretend to be whatever you want, as long as you don't have to pay for it.

If it wasn't you who paid in the first place, then I advise you to talk lessSince ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the most difficult to get along with, and if it starts to be unpleasant because of the decoration, then life will be even more difficult in the futureDon't say that it doesn't matter if you don't live with your mother-in-law, you will know when you get married, the creature of your mother-in-law is definitely an existence that you can't afford to mess with!

You should discuss it with your mother-in-law, and you can accept the good advice from your mother-in-law, but the decoration is still based on your opinion. After all, the wedding room is where you and your husband live, and the decoration style should be decided by you.

If the marriage house is bought by the mother-in-law, or if the money is more, you can listen to a little opinion, discuss in a roundabout way, and if you buy it at your own expense, you can follow your own style.

The matrimonial room is a small home where you and your husband live together, and it should be decided by you and your husband, so it is recommended to discuss with your husband, let him communicate with his mother, and the three of you will discuss and choose the best plan together.

You can communicate with your mother-in-law or husband, let them listen to their opinions, and explain the plan to them in more detail, which will be better.

I think you should have a good talk with your husband and let him talk to his mother-in-law about it, after all, they are related by blood, and it won't affect the relationship between you and your mother-in-law.

You better discuss it with your mother-in-law, this is not married, you have to do it in front of you, what will you do when you get married in the future?

If you can change it, you can change it to someone else to marry, if you can't change it, set rules in advance, you are the hostess, let the mother-in-law stand by the side, if there are no rules, you still don't marry his family.

Then it depends on how your boyfriend handles it, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mainly depends on the man!

Depending on your husband's attitude towards you, you have to live separately even if you get married.

If you don't live with your mother-in-law, your boyfriend will be good to you, and it will be good after you get married.

Don't ask your mother-in-law if you live separately.

Don't take advantage of your mother-in-law.

For a daughter-in-law who has no desires and no desires, the mother-in-law has no way to start if she wants to.