I was 31 years old and unmarried, and my mother asked me to find an unemployed job

Your mother is also too worried about you, I hope you will start a family soon, the girl will always be anxious when she grows up, you will find a suitable one if your conditions are good, but the emotional things can not be too reluctant, don't be too embarrassed by yourself if you don't like the temporary worker, after all, marriage is a long-term thing, whether people are good or not is very important, quality is also very important, his kind of behavior makes me personally feel that he is very uncultivated, at least it makes people feel that he doesn't understand what respect is, as for you are afraid that marriage will be bad for you, In fact, marriage is to be created by both parties together, love is converted into family affection after all, try to get along with the object you think is good, but you have to handle it yourself, don't let yourself regret it.

Rather lack than excess. I feel like you've stuck up to this age, don't just find a random one. To be honest, finding a partner is to support each other to live, not to find guilt, conflicts, and divorce.

We understand the feelings of parents, but you can communicate with them. I wish you to meet your fate soon!

Don't look for a man like that! The most important thing for a girl to marry is that you will suffer for a lifetime with such a man, who is extremely vicious and has a bad character, and such a person has low self-esteem in his heart.

You might as well participate in some dating parties and the like, if your conditions are good, it will be very popular, all from scratch, so believe in your own eyes, and start with your own eyes.

It's not good to be too picky, so let's talk about it first to see if it's appropriate....If it doesn't work, change it.

I suggest that you never be with him or get married, you don't say that you are in love with him or marry him, he will do something to you, it can be seen that he is not good, he and you are not a person of the same world, and he will not be happy when he gets married, he is disrespectful to you, and the same is true for other women, this kind of person is unreliable, and have you considered what his purpose is for you? There are women who are not married at the age of 31, there is nothing to be ashamed of, marriage is a major event in their lives, or make their own decisions!

1. Analyze your own situation, 31 years old, married and have children, this situation is easier to find than 28-year-old unmarried people, so before this, you have been working, or full-time at home to take care of the children, and now you are suddenly looking for a job.

2. Whether the work you delivered is consistent with your previous work, and whether it involves inter-banking.

3. Whether there is a resume for multiple submissions, and the resume may be modified according to the needs of each position, and the effect may be better.

4. Through self-analysis, find your own core competitiveness, match your core competitiveness with the delivered enterprises, etc.

Let's take the exam, or see what you study......It's okay to do some more technical work, and it's better to go to a big city.

From the job Q user: Ms. Zhou.

(1) Understand the kindness of your parents, they love you and worry about you. If your parents ask you again, you should tell them that you are talking, and when you have finished talking, you will bring them back to their counselors.

2) When your parents ask, don't be upset, tell them with a calm mind;

2) Don't know if you're a man or a woman? At the age of 30, you have a certain degree of success in your career, and you also have a certain economic foundation, you can consider finding a partner to marry;

3) If you are a woman, you should find a partner to marry as soon as possible, if you delay for a few more years, you will have a child at an older age, which is not conducive to your postpartum recovery;

4) For everyone, the same thing is repeatedly asked by the people around them, and they always feel irritated and can understand.

If you have any questions, you can continue to discuss, and the counselor wishes you happiness!

The only way is to find a girlfriend.

Many young people around me who are married and have no children find it very difficult to find a job, and I have also encountered this situation, the reason why married women without children find a job.

The first point, compared with male workers One of the biggest disadvantages of female workers is that female workers will get pregnant, and often they will get pregnant after a few years of work, because women only have a few years in between graduating from college and getting pregnant with socks.

And once a woman is pregnant, it is not far from maternity leave, according to the regulations, the general maternity leave will be about half a year, and the relevant salary, social security and the like during the maternity leave can not be stopped. But for the company, this is not a good thing, and it is not easy to recruit employees, but it didn't take long for the employees to go on maternity leave, and they didn't do much work, but the money that should be given has to be given, and the company also feels that it is a big loss. Therefore, many companies will make it clear when recruiting that they cannot recruit women who are about to become pregnant, just to avoid this kind of trouble.

The second point is that pregnancy and lactation affect work, and the inability to do heavy work during pregnancy, and the inability to travel during breastfeeding, etc., have an obvious impact on work.

After all, children will be to serve the society in the future, and enterprises should start from a sense of social responsibility to create jobs for women who are married and have no children. In addition, we can also introduce some policies to encourage enterprises to hire married women without children in terms of employment, so as to create conditions for these women to be employed, so that enterprises can be motivated to hire them, so that the society can develop in a healthy and orderly manner.