Broke up, I still love him how to let go.

Updated on psychology 2024-05-07
25 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This man is emotionally unfocused, water-based Yanghua, it is your luck to leave him, why be nostalgic.

    You can fall to the ground and cry, then get up, do what you have to do, hold your head high and continue to live your life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you can't let it go, you have to let it go, there are thousands of men in the world, why should you be nostalgic for that one? If I were you, I would be able to take it and put it down. Or cowardice.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Forget about it! The more you want to forget, the easier it is to remember, divert your attention, do more things that interest you, don't think about him if you have nothing to do, keep yourself busy, then there will be no time to think about him pulling, even if you can't forget it, take your time, there will be more in the future. "The more you want to forget, the easier it is to remember" Don't force it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Think about his shortcomings one day, so that you will find out that the breakup was actually the right one!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A broken pot has its own broken pot lid, and a monk has his own nun love, as long as love is as deep as the sea, Mazi's face is shining! Nun, your monk beckons to you somewhere in the future: nun, your prince is here! Don't be fooled by the mistress.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    To convince yourself that he is very bad, to recall that he has done wrong things to his motherland, such as wronging himself, and so on, to think about the breakup scene when he thinks about one thing, and if you think about it habitually, you will hate him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Fate needs to be pursued by both parties, and once one party gives up, there will be no fate. Concentrate on work and study, yesterday has become history, cherish today, tomorrow will be better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Time is the best healing medicine, learn to discover life and change yourself!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Investing in a new relationship is the fastest way to forget about him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Invest in a new relationship.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Find another one better than him.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    One of the main reasons why many people can't let go is that they still want to be friends with each other after a breakup, so they repeatedly contact each other beyond the scope of friends, if the other party replies, she will be very happy, if the other party does not reply, she will be sad, this is not the state after the breakup at all. Since you have chosen to break up, it must be that there is a problem in the relationship between the two people, although you are very reluctant, but you also have to admit that you are no longer suitable for being together, so you chose to separate, since this is the case, then you should accept the reality. It's not wise to keep pestering and contacting the other person after a breakup, as it will only make you feel like you've made the wrong choice and want to go back to the past.

    The first step if you want to let go is not to give yourself such extravagant hopes, don't feel that there is still hope, if necessary, delete and block can be used, don't feel reluctant. Second, some people will always find opportunities to meet each other, such as a gathering of mutual friends, such as on the occasion of meeting him, you will have joy in your heart, but what if you see him? It's just an extra layer of heartache.

    has separated, you have to be clear about the relationship between the two people now, you are the most familiar stranger, don't expect the two people to have other relationships, let alone expect him to become friends with you, it's good to simply be a stranger. Maybe you have forgotten it in your heart, but because you have met once and all your efforts have been lost, you will feel that he has a cold attitude, or that he has not loved you, in short, it is cranky, which will only make you miserable, why bother? If you break up, don't think about meeting him anymore, but also try to avoid meeting him, his appearance will not let you evoke the beauty of the past, but will make you evoke the pain of the time, this is the so-called "the better the past, the more cruel the reality."

    3. It may be human instinct to stop thinking about his good thoughts, especially when two people are separated, you will only think of the good things in the past, the good things he has for you, but ignore the quarrels that make you break up, and the bad things he has for you. Sometimes you will infinitely magnify his kindness to you, and you will also reflect on whether you are not good enough, you will feel that everything is your fault, if it were not for you, this relationship would not have come to this point.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to be able to afford to let go after a breakup, I personally think that everyone attaches great importance to their feelings, after all, if there is no relationship, you won't think of that person, and if you don't want to see him every day, you can also let go of this relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't continue to think about it after you break up, you can do something you like to do, you can go out on a date with your friends, or watch some more interesting variety shows. After a while, you can put it down.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    After a breakup, it is impossible to let go of the other party easily, as long as you give true love in the relationship, the breakup will be painful and uncomfortable, which is determined by a person's character, unless you don't love him, you can easily give up the other party.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Whenever something happens, I don't think about each other at all, I don't miss each other at all, I don't care about each other's feelings at all, and I don't hate each other at all, I think it's okay to let go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do what you like, keep yourself busy, you don't have time to think about your ex, and by diverting your attention in this way, you can become full and slowly forget your previous feelings.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    After the breakup, you should still confide in your good friends, because as long as you talk about your feelings, you will make your heart feel very comfortable, and it will also make your heart feel particularly empty, and on the other hand, you should maintain an optimistic attitude, so that you will let go directly in the face of everything.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    After the breakup, if there are no mood swings when you see the other person, it can be understood as letting go. For example, when he is happy, you will not be jealous or entangled. You won't be sad when he's down, and so on.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    After the breakup, let yourself cut off the connection with the previous one, and then let your life slowly get on the right track, you can let yourself start a new relationship and life, so that slowly over time, let go of the previous relationship.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you want to let go after a breakup, then start a new relationship, I think, a new relationship is able to ** all our hurts.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It takes a minute to fall in love with someone.

    It takes a lifetime to forget a person.

    Actually, you have reason to resent him.

    If you resent him.

    You won't be too sad.

    I feel sad and sad when I think of him.

    It's almost impossible to change.

    Unless it dilutes everything over time.

    All you need to do in a short period of time is to cry and vent.

    Get some sleep and get into a new life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No. Ten things to remember after a breakup.

    1. When love is not there, please say your best wishes to him. After all, once loved.

    Second, don't tell him I hate you when it's over. Because, love is a matter of two people, and everyone is responsible for missing it.

    Third, after leaving, what comes to mind must be a lonely picture, but please forget it. A person must always have a new beginning, don't let the past tie you to the temple of sorrow.

    Fourth, don't say who you love the most, life is still very long, and no one can predict tomorrow. Maybe your true love is still waiting for you in the next second.

    Fifth, don't make a noise when you say you break up. After all, the two have been together for so long, and he will be sad to be separated. It's just that he's wiser and doesn't want to tie you down or his tomorrow. It's good to get together and disperse, and in the future, we will still be friends.

    Six, don't talk about grief, everyone has their own story. To live is not to miss yesterday, but to wait for hope so that everyone can see your strength. You can also live well without him.

    7. After leaving, tell him loudly: I love you, and it has nothing to do with you. Love is your right, say what you want to say, calmly remember your past, and then cry. After crying, leave everything for yesterday and never touch it.

    Eighth, when you think of him, think of his goodness, his laughter. Remember once loved someone, don't care who started the betrayal in the end, just be happy.

    Nine, when you break up, you will be yourself, a person's world also has the moon rising and setting, and there are beautiful moments that classify him as a memory.

    10. A person's world always needs another person as a foil, he leaves, that is, he can't stand you, I believe that I will have a better tomorrow. The flowers are gone, and tomorrow will be the same

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Firm up your feelings, believe that there is true love in the world, don't care about other worldly confinements, be brave to pursue it, even if there is a third party, as long as you believe that you still like her and him. Be brave, be honest with yourself, try to find your true love, and bless you to find happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If I meet someone better than him, I will.

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