My girlfriend of 3 years left me and gave me a year

Alas, it's hard to say, I used to talk about a boyfriend, dating for half a year, I don't feel good, in addition to feeling handsome, there is no special expertise in other aspects, there is a big difference in interests, I feel that he is childish, there is no room for development, and finally I broke up with him after returning to my hometown, in fact, there are happy times during the relationship, during which I often break up with him, after the breakup, I also gave him a chance, but I feel that he will only say, will not act, and there is nothing to become a suburb, In the end, I clearly gave him it, but now we still have occasional contact, and now it's been three years, and I don't regret it at all, I hope you work hard, and when you say it, I want to believe that your girlfriend will still forgive you, and your girlfriend will give you a chance to show that she still loves you, and I have you in my heart, I just hope you can do things well, but you let him down again, I think it's hopeless, work hard! Come on!

Men are supposed to be constantly fighting. Not only for myself, but also for the sake of my future life, I should have to be self-motivated. The struggle is not just for her.

Love you, two people will work together. No one will be left alone. At the same time, a man must be enterprising and enterprising.

Yes, there must be, you just do it well, even if you two are not together in the end, you will have a wide sky, I just broke up, understand and understand, don't do things that you regret.

Anything will change in a year's time, it depends on her heart for you, if she still loves you then she will wait for you and want to motivate you in this way! But if she is already disappointed in you and feels that you are not a good fit, you will not bring her happiness and want to leave. But out of a three-year relationship, and I don't want to see you sad, so I make an excuse to let you spend a year forgetting what she is, then you have to think about it.

Away from you for a year? Then let her fart.

It's up to you whether you can reconcile or not, in fact, if you love someone, you will desperately want to hope with him, give him happiness, give him everything she wants, even if you don't have the ability to do it now, but you will do your best to fight for it, think about it, do you love your girlfriend?

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you've been with your girlfriend for three years, and this year you didn't have money to give your girlfriend the New Year, and suddenly left her, I think you said that you left suddenly, he definitely didn't tell him, and he didn't know the reason why you left him, I don't think it's right for you to do this, your girlfriend may give up your relationship.

I've been with my girlfriend for three years, and this year I didn't have money to celebrate the New Year with my girlfriend, and I suddenly left her, I don't know if it's the right thing to do? Will my girlfriend give up on this relationship with me?

Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, you've been with your girlfriend for three years, and this year you don't have money to give your girlfriend the New Year, and you left her suddenly, I think you said that you left suddenly, he definitely didn't tell him, and Zhijian He didn't know why you left him, I don't think it's right for you to do this, your girlfriend may give up your relationship.

You said that because you didn't have money for your girlfriend for the New Year, you left him so suddenly, he doesn't necessarily know the vacuum of things! He also thinks that you don't love him anymore, or that you are in love with someone else, and leave him, so that your girlfriend may give up on your relationship.

I think you said that you don't have money to spend the New Year with your girlfriend this year, you should also tell her the truth, to see if your girlfriend can understand you, this is also a test of your girlfriend's feelings for you, whether it is true or not, if he leaves you because you have no money for him to celebrate the New Year, it means that he does not really love your Mo Nianliang, can only be happy with you, can not share the pain with you, I think it is not a pity for him to leave you because of this, but you don't tell him like this, suddenly left him, he doesn't know what's going on, This may misunderstand you and leave you because of this, in case you like someone else again during this time, then it will be too late for you to regret it.

The world is so small that I have met people like me.

I'm just a little longer than you, I've been talking for 4 years, and the same was true before the Chinese New Year. I have worked hard and promised to change some deficiencies in my character, but women are ruthless, more ruthless than men, without the original touch and feeling, no matter how hard you try, you can't recover the lost love.

Maybe you need a long time to let go, but after all, you have to learn to let go, maybe after a while, she will suddenly find that the most suitable for herself may still be you, but who can say for sure this kind of thing, if you have no connection at that time, she is also not hanging, naturally you can still come together, after all, she left you first, if she wants to redeem, she will naturally come to you, you are useless to wait.

Adjust your mentality, maybe it's not that you're wrong, it's just not suitable, not necessarily you have to change yourself beyond recognition, after talking about a few years, the big man can't stand it, and he likes the romance and surprise of the little man, looking back, there are countless people who like to take care of the big man.

Therefore, there is no hope or no, and the road ahead has long been lost. persuade the monarch not to go to extremes and besiege himself.

In this case, if you want to redeem it, it's actually not very difficult, first of all, she doesn't hate you, but she doesn't know what she wants, but there is a good saying, a good woman is afraid of pestering, you have to have an ugly courage that is not afraid of death and is not afraid of death to pursue her, tell her seriously, stay with me, if it doesn't work, I'll ask again, if not, I'm thinking of a way. Usually show a little humor and improve your own quality. If you really love each other, you will become the prince charming in her mind, and of course this is also a test for you.

The premise is whether you have the courage to give up your body.

Hello, you should fully communicate with your girlfriend to understand what are the main aspects of her disappointment with you, is it just income, or is there something else to get along with?

If you really want to keep her, understand her feelings and worries and work to improve your relationship for that and try to improve yourself, plan for yourself and her future, and make a detailed plan that you will make for the life you want in the future, discuss it with her.

Many times, girls don't let go for money, but because of insecurities about the future. Your sincerity, hard work, and sense of purpose will provide her with a sense of security. If you usually have a good relationship, I believe there is still a chance.

4300 is okay, your girlfriend may be demanding, I think if you like it, go for it again, if you fight for it or not, just let it go, you will always find a girl who both sides think is good, so go for it again.

Protecting one's feelings can not be ignored, he is a very important thing, so to say, if you treat others as a kind of spare tire, this in itself is an irresponsible behavior for yourself, basically you can say this, no matter what kind of personality you are. If the other party treats himself as a spare tire, then he will definitely be sad. And it's not very respectful to yourself, so you have to be very serious about your feelings, which is respect for yourself and others!

She also knows about how much your salary is, whether you have five insurances and one housing fund. Knowing that I want to leave you should be for some other reason.

Look at your last description of the problem of unhappiness should be that the economic conditions cannot meet your consumption level, if your salary level is difficult to survive in a big city, if it is okay in a small city, but if you want to support a family and children, it is a little difficult.

She has a new goal, whether it's a person or a thing, and she thinks that thing is more important than you anyway.

Don't worry, she doesn't really want to leave you. She just wants you to care a little more about her. Women will always be duplicitous. It would be nice to be more considerate of her and understand her.

It's a question that you need to think for yourself, and there's nothing I can do about it.

Your girlfriend has met a better man and wants to leave you.

Maybe there's a problem or a reason, why don't you ask her.

Don't take the Internet seriously, you'll be very sad if you take it seriously...

Don't believe it on the Internet, many of them are **. People, it's better to be realistic.

Is that all about it for three years? Forget it, it's better to look around.

You're too persistent. The whip is out of reach, so you can't get it. It's better to find a girlfriend by your side, it's so real. Also, starting a new relationship is the best way to forget the past.

I think that emotional matters are irrational to some extent from Yu Liang.

Your ex-girlfriend is really dead and doesn't want to contact you anymore, and you can only hide this concern in your heart for the rest of your life.

People don't say, I will never fall in love with anyone but someone, and after a few years, when you really fall in love with someone again, you will find that you said stupid things at that time.

I don't think you have a chance to redeem it, what you can do now is not to force yourself to forget her, because the more you push yourself, the more you can't forget, you can only try to make yourself happier, think more about work, or go out with friends more and find some other fun.

The feelings in your heart, no one forces you to forget, you just give yourself a little more time, slowly, slowly erect the mountain, everything will be fine.

So, it's best to go with the flow, think of her when you think of her, but you have to tell yourself, I can miss her, but maybe I will never get her, I can only hide this feeling and concern in my heart, maybe after a few years, I will slowly forget, I will be a happy and fun person again.

Time will dilute everything, find a new girlfriend and try to start a new love life.

Then go ahead and try to redeem it.

For the person you really love, you can't forget it for the rest of your life, not to mention that you have only been separated for two years! Hona just sometimes loves and can only hide it deeply in his heart, and it's useless to tell anyone, and it's very sweet to think about it occasionally.

This approach of yours is not rational at all, first of all, since they have separated, they have their own life trajectories in each other's worlds, what problems can you solve if you are sad? People should still get married, have children, be grandma or be the same grandma, encounter problems must be faced rationally, the road of life is so long, it is difficult to say that you want to live in memories every day? The problem is that you don't solve any problems by doing this, do you?

Feelings need fate, and they must go with the flow.

1.If I were her, I would have left you for the two sentences above you.

2.Maybe you're richer and more glamorous, which has caused her a lot of pressure and burden that she didn't have three years ago.

3.When you have money, you don't care about her as much as you used to, and she feels hurt in her heart.

4.There was another person who gave her what she needed more.

5.Men value fame, status, and power, but women only care about the man in her life.

I hope her departure can make you reflect on yourself, and I also hope that a man like you will reflect on whether he still loves the woman around you as before, and he must cherish everything, not to mention a woman in a sedan chair...