How to treat your home and the future Please, 3Q

There is a saying that people often say, "It's gold that shines until the **". So even if you can't go to university, you still have a chance to make a career. As long as you work hard, your hard work will pay off, and your efforts will have a good reward.

No matter what occupation is the embodiment of the value of human beings, the country, the family, and oneself, grasp it in a timely manner to be a self-motivated and capable young man, repay your parents and family, home is your harbor, otherwise how to be wronged outside, when you are sick, how to miss home Question: I have run away from home several times before, but now that I have grown up, no one will look for me when I go out. There is too much competition in society, but my parents are also responsible, if they didn't keep arguing with me, I wouldn't buy cigarettes, I used to quit.

Now I am afraid of addiction: parents are parents after all, they are the ones who gave you life, even if they are wrong, children must understand, because parents are also human beings and will have mistakes. The important thing is that you will step into this society in the future, how to develop, and you must also have confidence, no matter what you do, as long as you have faith, confidence will override all difficulties.

Smoking can cause harm to your body, so it's better to quit with your own awareness.

Everyone is fully responsible for their own choices. When you choose your current husband, you not only choose him, but also his family. And the Chinese value family, even more than career, and study, which is the idea that we have spent thousands of years inheriting, cannot be changed, and cannot be changed.

I think that your husband, even if your father-in-law ascends to immortality in the future, and hands over the family business to your husband, it will not achieve much, because your husband will only obey orders and do not know how to negotiate with others, and the Chinese love to say "consultation and consultation", which is not nonsense, because we Chinese themselves are not people who strictly abide by the rules, and can always negotiate. And he will always obey his father's life, and when his father ascends to immortality, he is like a slave without a master, a headless fly, and it is strange to have a chance. Let's take the daughter-in-law asking her father-in-law for money, you can't help but reflect on the weakness of this husband, and even ask his wife to ask his father for money, which is really against the sky.

So, I personally think that now your focus is not on your parents-in-law, but on your husband himself. Sooner or later, he will have to take on the responsibility of the family as the head of the family, so weak, how will it end up in the future?

It is impossible for a person who is not related by blood to turn into family affection in a short period of time.

It's too normal not to treat you as a family.

Love is transformed into family affection, and let its elders also recognize at the same time, it is necessary to pay the time and emotional price to communicate with the elders of the family emotionally, no communication, no understanding, no understanding, how to integrate themselves.

The elders of his family, all kinds of experiences, all kinds of experiences, see things themselves thoroughly.

Women, it is easy to be gentle, but it is difficult to be virtuous.

To sum up--- ask too much and do too little.

If you can't get used to it, you can set it, don't like to listen to it--- the truth is like this.

You should be self-reliant, even if you go out to work, don't stay in such a family Respecting your in-laws is right, but you can't spoil them and bully you Because your husband is too cowardly The matter of the house You have to reach an agreement with your father-in-law as soon as possible The down payment is paid by him Then you and your husband will pay the loan together, that is to say, from the day the loan is repaid, the house will also have your share In case your father-in-law will make trouble with you in the future If I were you, I would be strong myself first and then help my husband slowly get out of his father's control You are strong He will not dare to ignore you Bully you guys.

If you don't want to look at other people's faces, you must first be financially independent. Financially independent, no one dares to underestimate you, everything must rely on yourself, and secondly, you must develop a correct attitude towards things, you must not compromise on what you should say, and you must understand each other in general things.