Distance produces beauty, and distance produces beautyWho said that distance produces beauty?

Everyone has their own way of life, and so do lovers.

As long as there is affection, distance does not matter.

But back to real life, that kind of loneliness is very normal, without lovers around, young people are always a little nervous.

It's all too normal for young couples to be separated.

This distance is certain, not infinite time and space, distance can deepen thoughts, but once you can't cross people, you will fall into despair, and then the distance becomes a kind of torture.

How can you think so? No matter how close the person is, you have to keep your distance, especially the lover, if there is no secret between you, then he stands in front of you, like a blank piece of paper, is this the relationship you want to continue to maintain with him?

If you have been together for a long time, you should give each other enough space. Such a distance will be beautiful.

This distance is definite, not infinite space-time.

I think you're in a state of confusion right now, ......

What's wrong with your friends......

No one can figure this out, so let's take our time and experience it for ourselves

[Analects of Liren].

Ziyou said: "The number of things [1], the humiliation [2]; The number of friends, Si Shu [3] 矣. ”

Notes] [1] Number: repeatedly, frequently. [2] Insult: insult. [3] Alienation: Alienation.

"If serving the monarch is too cumbersome and intimate, it will be insulted; If you treat your friends too much, you will be alienated. ”

Harvest] uses this passage of Ziyou to express Confucius's views on serving the monarch and associating with friends.

Too close to subordinates and leaders, flattery, and saddle up before and after the horse, on the contrary, will invite insults.

The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, and when you get along with friends, you should leave a certain amount of space for each other and keep an appropriate distance. Don't give advice and make decisions to your friends easily, otherwise it is easy to have conflicts.

If a person has an independent and complete self-esteem system, he will not depend on his relationships with others.

Distance produces beauty, and only by maintaining an appropriate distance from others will form a harmonious relationship.

1. I don't ask, you don't say, this is the distance; I asked, but if you don't say it, this is the estrangement.

2. I don't ask, you don't say, this is the distance; I asked, you said, and that's trust.

Good words and good sentences: From a management point of view, the shortest distance between two points is not necessarily a straight line, but a curve with the least obstacles. The cause of socialization lies in the monotony and emptiness of people's lives.

The need to socialize drives them together, but the many disgusting behaviors they possess drive them apart. Finally, they found the right distance to tolerate each other, and that was politeness.

When you feel frustrated and feel that you are struggling, you can close your eyes and imagine that you are yourself ten years from now, and you can turn your head to see what is happening to you. Practice doing this, and your mood may be calmer, knowing that everything in front of you will pass.

Can distance really produce beauty? It is common to hear people who are separated for various reasons, saying that distance produces beauty. But I have always felt that distance creates a crisis, I think that man is a fickle animal, and after a long separation, feelings will naturally fade.

Maybe distance will produce longing, but after a long time, longing is also bitter. People who truly love each other will not be swayed by the distance, but will have a strong longing and a strong desire to see each other, and they will try their best to shorten the distance between them. It's a beauty of love!

A strong longing for beauty! But because of the inability to meet for a long time, there is a substitute for new psychological thoughts around you, and love will become bleak and even strange! Distance itself cannot produce beauty, but with distance, it is not so easy for you to find shortcomings, so you will feel beautiful, short-term distance produces beauty, long-term distance produces forgetting!

If you want to produce beauty between you and her, leave her for a short time; If you want to make each other forgetful, leave her for a long time. Actually, distance is not an issue. The key is the feeling between the two!

If both people have a good relationship, then distance can produce beauty. Because you will feel that you are concerned about each other and miss each other, and this feeling is also very sweet. But if the relationship between two people is not good, there is only distance, and there will be less and less beauty!

Distance can not produce beauty at all, distance will only bring strangeness to the two people who originally loved each other, bring emotional distance, distance will widen the feelings of two people, although love is to believe in each other, but people will change, even if they think they will not change, but the environment will change people, people are afraid of loneliness, as the saying goes, far water can't borrow near fire, so they often choose the people around them People who originally loved each other because of distance, because of loneliness, he will choose to break up.

The relationship between people is very delicate, especially between the sexes! It takes a process for people to change from strangeness to familiarity, and in this process, when they get closer, there will be friction; Far away, it is easy to become cold. It's like when it's cold in winter, the hedgehogs are warming up together, when they are close, they will stab each other, and when they are far away, they can't feel each other's warmth!

So how can we be not far away, but also have warmth, and not stab each other?