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Your jewellery belongs to your dowry, it is your pre-marital property.

Pre-marital property refers to property acquired by one of the spouses before the marriage.

Marriage Law: Article 18 In any of the following circumstances, it shall be the property of one of the husband and wife:

1) the pre-marital property of one of the parties;

2) Medical expenses, living allowances for the disabled, and other expenses received by one party as a result of bodily injury;

3) Property that is determined in the will or gift contract to belong to only one of the husband or wife;

4) Daily necessities for the exclusive use of one side;

5) Other property that shall belong to one side.

Therefore, your jewelry is your personal property and should be returned in case of divorce.

As for children: parents have the obligation to support their children, Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China

Article 37: After a divorce, the other party shall bear part or all of the necessary living expenses and education expenses for the children raised by one party, and the amount of the expenses and the length of the period shall be agreed upon by both parties; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment.

An agreement or judgement concerning the maintenance and education of the child shall not prevent the child from making a reasonable demand to either parent, if necessary, in excess of the amount originally agreed upon in the agreement or judgment.

Several Specific Opinions of the Supreme People's Court on the Handling of Child Support Issues in Divorce Cases by People's Courts

7. The amount of child support allowance may be determined on the basis of the actual needs of the children, the affordability of both parents and the actual living standards of the locality.

For those with a regular income, child support payments can generally be paid at the rate of 20 to 30 per cent of their total monthly income. Where two or more children are responsible for raising expenses, the proportion may be appropriately increased, but generally must not exceed 50 percent of the total monthly income. If there is no fixed income, the amount of child support may be determined on the basis of the total income of the year or the average income of the same industry, with reference to the above proportions.

If there are special circumstances, the above proportion may be appropriately increased or decreased.

And who the child will award to, you can negotiate. If there is a disagreement, the court will generally award to the party who is conducive to the child's development. From your financial point of view, it should be awarded to the man, unless you have other ways to fight for it.

The property which belongs to personal goods shall be commuted to you.

The child is more likely to sentence you. Generally, you may be sentenced under the age of 2!

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Yes, it should be given to you, but you have to get the invoice evidence.

You go to court to sue, and the court will award the child to you and ask the man to pay child support.

I deeply sympathize with this, for your jewelry, this can be considered from the premarital property and personal belongings, the court should belong to you, the child, you can negotiate, if the negotiation fails, the court will award to the party who is conducive to the child's growth, but your situation is that the child is only eight months, so the judgment to you is very likely, as for the judgment of you, the man should give a certain amount of child living allowance, generally according to the fixed income of 20%-30% per month, no more than 50%, If you don't have a fixed income, according to the actual local situation, refer to the above standards, good luck!

1. In the actual handling of the court, the woman's dowry before marriage belongs to the woman, and the man's bride price belongs to the man;

2. The man should be responsible for the child's support.

3. The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy, but the woman may.

4. Under normal circumstances, the court will rule that the child under the age of two will be raised by the woman, and the man will be responsible for the maintenance.

5. The division of the joint property of the husband and wife is the principle that the court will take care of the rights and interests of the children and the woman according to the specific circumstances of the property.

In the event of a divorce, if one party is in difficulty, the other party should provide appropriate assistance from his or her personal property such as housing, but this does not apply to you because the property of the in-laws is in his father's name.

Through your description, I understand your pain very well. Indeed, it is very depressing and depressing for a person to get nothing in return when he blindly gives, because everyone in marriage hopes to have both the right to love and the right to be loved.

It can be seen that your wife has done something inappropriate in her usual dealings with others, and she is not very considerate in caring for the Venerable Master. This has something to do with her education and growth since she was a child. After everyone enters the marriage, they are faced with "secondary growth", and this growth requires two people to work together to promote growth.

It can be seen that you are very attentive and considerate to her, but is it "too considerate", that is, compared to her indifference, are you a little too considerate? In other words, whether it is your over-thoughtfulness that fuels her character, people are inert, and under certain conditions, this "inertia" will be even more wanton. In this case, she cannot understand the feelings of others, nor can she understand the desire of others for care and consideration.

If you are describing an objective situation, then it is recommended that you communicate well with your wife, and at the same time, find some appropriate situations so that your wife can also experience the feeling that no one cares about, so that she can experience your inner feelings when she does not care for you.

Obviously, your wife is a woman with a big heart and at the same time a woman who doesn't understand people very well. Everyone's way of caring for others is also different, whether in the eyes of your wife, she is using another way to express her love for you, it can be seen that you are a very careful man, and she is more considerate to people, she obviously can't do you to this extent. Since you have come together, it means that you still have a certain emotional foundation, and people are at least kind, but her education since childhood has cultivated her character and thinking that she can't put herself in the shoes of others.

As long as you guide her well, she can completely change.

Their family is selfish, and it's really bad luck for you to be a family with them.

My sister is selfish, my sister is even more selfish, and I'm embarrassed to say that others don't care about people, which is funny.

What do you say on the first floor?

I don't understand it at all.

Family, family.

Family issues are too difficult to deal with.

Wait and see if others have a good solution.

I also learn to learn.

Make-up lessons for future married life.

Before getting married, the conflict between him and your parents was not resolved, so you pulled him into the marriage hall softly and hard, and got married with hidden dangers, and there will inevitably be many contradictions after marriage! Marriage must not be forced, especially the woman must not be wishful thinking. This is indeed your fault.

Secondly, marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families, if the two families cannot be integrated, then it will be difficult for the couple to be happy! China pays attention to family relationships, and a happy family will have more happiness when they move around often!

Thirdly, there is a source of problems between you in the first place, and you have a child in a hurry, which is very irresponsible for the child and both of you. Children should not be used as chips and tools by one party to tie the other. The true bond that binds a marriage together is the harmony of two people and two families, not children.

Fourth, what the first floor said makes sense, poor couples mourn everything, and with a solid material foundation, they will naturally not quarrel because of a little money. Even if the family is not rich, at least the two of you should go out to work, support yourself, and start a business first and then start a family is the most stable!

In this case, it is up to you to resolve the conflict between them, and if he loves you enough, he will forgive and respect your parents. After all, without them, he wouldn't be able to get you as a wife.

I think the main factor of family conflict is insufficient communication, for example, the repayment of money and the bride price when you get married are not in communication. Now know that the problem is that your husband is not communicating with your family. You can find some way to get them to sit down and talk, and there is no contradiction that cannot be resolved.

Here you are the key, you have to grasp your husband's temperament, let your parents go to your house when appropriate, explain to your husband in advance, and say that you can't always be like this. After all, if you are a family, try to talk to your husband more, and I believe there is no problem that cannot be solved. Hope it helps.

It would be a mistake to get married on the basis of nothing.

In the end, it's also a matter of money.

If you decide to divorce, you can go through the divorce by agreement or the divorce by judgment;

In the case of an uncontested divorce, the focus is on property (assets and debts) and child support. Make a list of what assets you have, what debts you have, how you share them, who you will be able to raise your children to, and the other party will need to pay regular child support (the settlement period and amount are negotiable), and so on.

The agreement is written, both parties sign it, and you can go to the marriage registration department to register the divorce.

If a divorce is decided, you can go directly to the court in the jurisdiction to file a lawsuit.

The advice to you is: 1. Communicate with the other party sincerely, and consider the problems of the children, you should need to save the marriage; 2. If it is impossible to communicate and irretrievable, negotiate the divorce first; 3. If the negotiation fails, sue for divorce.

You should sue for divorce, but the court may not be able to decide, because your child is now a child, the legal principle is to protect the child, if the divorce requires you to show evidence, it is indeed a breakdown of the relationship, or the man has a mistake, the procedure is more troublesome.

If the negotiation fails, you can sue for divorce, and the court procedures are case filing, mediation, and judgment.