Is it really inappropriate for a girlfriend to say that it is not suitable?

You can take care of her more in the future life, the little girl is mostly delicate and thinks more, you are busy with work and have no time to take care of her, he will be easy to think cranky for a long time, more communication as long as you have the heart can do it, I believe, come on, I am also a post-90s, I sincerely wish your love to blossom and bear fruit.

You pester her every day, until you really find that it is not suitable and then let it go, so that it is the best, and then you will not be reluctant in your heart, just bless each other... There is also a result that you pester her every day, maybe she thinks it is very suitable again, and the two of you finally get married... Don't ask others about love, ask each other if you have questions, others can't know your girlfriend's true thoughts, guess it will only increase your own troubles, people don't say it, love is a matter of both parties, you can't handle both of them, how can others deal with it...

The main thing is to communicate more, care about her inner activities in a timely manner, understand her more, know yourself and know your opponent, is the king!

That's because she didn't get the love she wanted, and your relationship only stayed at the level of goodwill.

If you can't continue, just let it go and let each other go.

When a girl gives such a reply, there are two reasons:

1. Your confession is too abrupt, and the girl is not psychologically prepared, so she can only respond to you in the form of refusal.

2. Maybe she really doesn't have feelings for you.

To decide whether we can continue to pursue, we must first determine which of the above situations it is, how to operate it, and how to judge it?

1. Stabilize your mood.

Many boys will be flustered once their confession is rejected, as if the girl is about to leave him forever, trying to persuade the girl to accept the confession in a reasonable way, the most common sentence is:

We're not suitable, aren't we not doing well enough. You must know that this kind of thing must be affected by the emotions of both parties, it has nothing to do with the reason, the reason, if you continue to ask the reason, and then talk about some big truths, first of all, the girl can't give you a specific will, if the girl is only a temporary refusal, in the end it may become a real refusal. At this time, all you have to do is to retreat, show your generosity, and tell the girl that you respect her choice.

2. Freeze for a short time.

For a period of time after your confession is rejected, don't stalk about it. If there is something to talk to him, talk to him about things, treat her like an ordinary friend if there is nothing special, and no one will find an ordinary friend to discuss the shortcomings of the parents as a whole.

3. Try to make an appointment.

As mentioned before, a girl may be a temporary rejection, and after a period of freezing, you have to open the conversation again and try to ask her out. If the girl can agree to go to the appointment with you after confessing, it means that her previous refusal was just a fake refusal that she was forced to give due to lack of preparation. If the girl is still extremely cold to you, refuses your invitation, or has been communicating with you rationally, then there is not much need to pursue it.

If your girlfriend says it's not appropriate, then you have to know how to self-reflect, but you still have to persevere.

You have to reflect on what bad behavior or shortcomings you have, which your girlfriend is more disgusted with.

As long as you can really change, then your girlfriend will not say that.

It may depend on your own attitude.

If you really like this girlfriend, then you keep going, as long as you have enough patience and love for your girlfriend, give her enough love and security, and one day she will be moved by your sincerity. These words are not groundless, after all, there are many feelings that come over like this, and in the end they are very happy with each other. Love rises and falls, romantic to death, romantic enough to love, one day you will definitely touch her heart.

If you also have no hope and hope for this relationship, feel that there is little hope for the two to continue to be together, and you don't have much nostalgia for this relationship, then break up! It's a relief for myself and my girlfriend. If this relationship has made you feel bored and bored, when the girl proposes to break up, just readily agree!

It doesn't matter who proposed the breakup, it's just that they have no feelings for each other. At this point, letting go is a relief.

If your girlfriend says it's not suitable, then we can keep it appropriately, and you can learn from your girlfriend what she is referring to if it's not suitable, which aspect it refers to, and it would be better if you could improve it.

I think if your girlfriend says it's not suitable, you don't have to insist, you should start this relationship with him as soon as possible and find a girlfriend you like.