Now my wife and I have to go to work, and we usually don t have time to spend with our parents, and

Brother, I guess your question is also a problem for many people, and there is no good solution. I recommend spending more time with your parents on weekends. If you can't do it, buy a Walkman or TV box, and you can give it to your parents as entertainment when you're bored.

It's best to buy those with multiple uses, and the S610E can watch Blu-ray and the Internet, I hope it can help you.

This is a widespread problem and will continue to grow more and more in the future.

In fact, the idea of the elderly is very simple, they don't necessarily need you to spend much time with them, you can communicate in the morning, you can play ** during the day during work hours, and you can communicate after work, usually they watch TV at home, go out for a walk, eat lunch, take a nap, and soon the day will pass. On weekends, you can take the elderly on outings, eat together as a family, and if you are afraid that they will be bored, you can make a baby for them to have fun.

Hello, you can negotiate a certain time of the week to spend time with your parents, and make sure that they have hope, and you don't have to think about it every day. At the same time, see if there are any senior classes near you, so that your parents can participate in more entertainment activities to divert their attention. So they are happy, and you are relieved.

Time is a spring that can be squeezed out, and my point is that parents have to be with them.

The old man likes pets and grandchildren, you see!

If your wife doesn't work and is at home every day, here are a few suggestions:

1. Persuade her with your heart. You can't say you can't go out to work, just hang around at home, wandering around and mingling. You need to persuade her with your heart and tell her everything you need to say.

2. Do your own work with heart. Regardless of whether your wife works or not, you have to do your own work with your heart, so that it is also a spur to her.

3. Tell her you don't like her like this. Who likes a wife who doesn't go out to work and waits for death? I think as long as it's a normal boy to quarrel, I don't like such a girl to be my wife, unless the girl is a rich second generation or something, and the boy just wants some money like that.

As long as it's a normal life, no boy likes a wife like that. You can tell her plainly that you and she are thinking of getting married for the rest of your life, not just playing. You don't have to hide it, you can tell her bluntly that what you like is a girl with a real sense of responsibility.

These words may not sound good, but they are a wake-up call for a person who is losing his sense of responsibility, or words that make a person who has no sense of responsibility quickly sober up.

4. Cold her for a while. For those who are unrepentant, I think you should do something about it, or she will think you are joking.

If your wife doesn't work and is at home every day, you can discuss with the other party and let the other party go out to work, or you can stay at home and not go out to work.

I can understand that many people work hard for the sake of their families, and they don't even have time to spend with their wives and children. In modern society, if you want to live a prosperous life and achieve a better level of family living conditions, the work pressure is usually relatively high. Many men feel that they are the pillars of the family, both old and young, and they must work harder to fulfill their responsibilities and give them a better life.

So I worked hard, day and night, and worked overtime on weekends and holidays. I always feel that I don't even have time to spend with my wife and children.

For children, be sure to explain to them what Dad is busy with and when he will be free to play with them. No matter how busy you are, remember to give your children a ** every day, so that they know that Dad has always loved and cared for them.

Prepare all kinds of gifts for your wife and children, let them know that you always remember them, but you are too busy with work, so spend less time with them. But you really want to be there for them, and you're sorry for your absence.

Even if you are busy at work, please try to find a little time to spend with your wife and children. Whether it's attending a family event or having a meal at home. Time is squeezed out, and if you can't even squeeze out such time, it proves that you may not be doing enough time management.

Please arrange your time wisely. Perhaps for your wife and children, your companionship is more important than a richer life. For your wife and children, they are very grateful for your hard work to create such good living conditions for them.

But they can't forgive you for your absence.

Please try to care about your wife and children while working hard, and try to squeeze out a little time for them.

Work or family are not a multiple-choice question.

First of all, what is the most important thing?

Is work important, or is family important? If the answer is that family matters, then think about it: how do you make time?

For example: is there a way to improve work efficiency and reduce overtime; Is there a way to reduce the workload and subtract the work; Is there a channel to transfer to other positions that are relatively unbusy, change departments or change jobs?

Second, how should I spend time with my family?

To accompany your family, it is the quality of companionship that matters rather than the time you spend with you. If you play with your mobile phone while accompanying your family, what is the meaning of this companionship? Take some time to learn how to be a parent and how to be a good partner; Use some thought to arrange various family activities and create some small surprises; Be patient and give your family warm love and harbor.

Finally, there is no contradiction between work and family.

At each stage of life, the focus will be different. When it's time to sprint, go all out. The family is the backing, and the support of the family must be obtained when sprinting to the career, otherwise, if you only care about the sprint career, and the relationship between the husband and wife is cracked due to neglect of the family or the critical stage of the child's growth is missed, then even if the family wealth is worth the loss.

Hi, I'm Nana, a communicator, a learning facilitator, and a practitioner of personal growth.

Many men may work hard for the sake of their families, because the current social pressure is indeed relatively large, and then many people may feel that the burden on their bodies is too heavy, and they have no ability to make a lot of money, so they can only spend more time to earn more money. But often at this time, many people will focus too much on their careers and ignore their families.

So my suggestion is that it is best to get off work early and go home to accompany your wife and children, even if you have to work overtime, it is best to take it home to do it, and then try to take out a day to be with your children and wives on weekends, if the child is still young, you can take him to the amusement park or the zoo or the park to play, in fact, this is really very good to promote family harmony, and the wife should also get along well, because in fact, many times, In fact, your wife is also the one who understands you best, so you should also talk to your wife more and don't take a lot of things to heart.